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lmystery -> LTR (3/26/2008 1:46:11 PM)
Is there such a thing as a long term relationship within this lifestyle. i seek someone that can be my Dom / Master as well as my soul mate i want someone in which i can give myself to completely but i want him to be able to do the same. am i asking for to much? Does the life i seek exist? thank you lmystery

GabrielleSlave -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 1:51:00 PM)
It does exist, i have it with my Master. He is my soulmate and my boyfriend, it just so happens that i am His slave too lol! i wish you luck and happiness Gabrielle x (Wwe have been together for over a year, are buying a house together and are talking about getting married)

lmystery -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 1:59:22 PM)
thank you for giving me hope

Daddyslilpookie -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 2:07:57 PM)
Yes it does exist I have it with my Daddy/Master he is my best friend and my husband and we have been together 6 years and have one daughter who is almost 6.

peppermint -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 3:18:20 PM)
Of course people have LTRs. Not everyone wants a one night stand.

pinkwind -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 3:42:18 PM)
Another one standing up to say yes, LTR's do exist, and are not as rare as you seem to think they are. What you have to do is recognise is that like in the larger world you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way, but that being true to yourself and your aspirations and morals will help you reap dividends in the end. Personally i spent too many years settling for a lifeless marriage, only to finally break out and learn to recognise good people. Not only do i value the longterm friendships that i have been blessed with making along the way, but i have been happily collared for nearly 4 years to a man who is the most intimate friend and confidant, partner, Master and soulmate, someone i cannot envisage ever being without. Don't lose heart.

softness -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 3:59:30 PM)
you will find it .. just takes some looking is all sighs... and some waiting...

DesFIP -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 5:26:18 PM)
Five years come August. How to get it? Figure out what you want. What kind of morals, ethical code you have and where (if at all) you can bend. What interests do you have to have in common versus which ones you can do alone or compromise on. Such as him sometimes going yard sale-ing with you versus watching the game every weekend. What can you not possibly ever abide? What general physical requirements. See, the more you know about yourself and what you're looking for, the more you'll recognize it when you find it. But if you have a habit of always picking someone you aren't compatible with long term, then you need to figure out why you're too afraid to look for what you claim to want, plus change the programming in your head. And that takes really hard work.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 6:07:00 PM)
You can get exactly what you choose for yourself- but you need to keep things in reality.

Poetryinpain -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 6:11:29 PM)
You need patience and tenacity. Hang in there and don't settle for less than you feel you deserve.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 7:08:03 PM)
I know couples who have been together for 15+ years. Yes, it does exist. Master Fire

precious4Sir -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 7:37:45 PM)
Definitely exists. Master and i are completely and totally in love with each other. He is my best friend, my lover, my confidente. We know each other inside and out! The fact that He is my Master and i am his slave, just makes everything perfect.

AquaticSub -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 8:58:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lmystery Is there such a thing as a long term relationship within this lifestyle. i seek someone that can be my Dom / Master as well as my soul mate i want someone in which i can give myself to completely but i want him to be able to do the same. am i asking for to much? Does the life i seek exist? thank you lmystery Yup. While many wouldn't count it as long term, we are getting to two and a half years, and he's not just my owner, he is my groom. I'm not just his girl, I'm his bride. It's all offical - we're getting hitched!

SixFootMaster -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 9:01:44 PM)
1 + 1 = infinity, for extremely connected values of 1.

slaveluci -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 10:12:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub I'm not just his girl, I'm his bride. It's all offical - we're getting hitched! Congratulations, Aquatic! Master and I are as well. May 1st is the big day. I wish you all the best[sm=flowers.gif].............luci

AquaticSub -> RE: LTR (3/26/2008 11:24:25 PM)
Aww, congrats to you too! We are going to wait a few years to save up money, but we are really excited. Hopefully everyone will forgive me if I keep chattering about it! [:)]

completenz -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 12:34:12 AM)
congrats to all of you happy people from us. We have been married for a whole month now and life is wonderful C & c

onthenosetone -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 2:03:49 AM)
Yup, 15 years here, she is my Ma'am and my Goddess and I worship and work towards her satisfaction in everything I do, however over and above that she's my wife and my best friend (Iwould say lover but as I'm 24/7 in chastity.....[:'(])

Littlepita -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 4:24:14 AM)
We aren't married....yet, but we are in this until death do us part. LTR can happen and thrive. My two dearest friends have been in together and in the lifestyle for 30 years. They are still learning, growing, and adapting to the ever changes of life. They are a real inspiration for their determination and dedication to the others happiness.

Dnomyar -> RE: LTR (3/27/2008 4:58:46 AM)
Well op first you have to ditch the boots. Im a leg man. Can't do long term while the boots are there.

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