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LTR - 3/26/2008 1:46:11 PM   
lmystery


Posts: 8
Joined: 3/23/2008
Status: offline 		Is there such a thing as a long term relationship within this lifestyle. i seek someone that can be my Dom / Master as well as my soul mate i want someone in which i can give myself to completely but i want him to be able to do the same. am i asking for to much? Does the life i seek exist?


thank you lmystery
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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 1:51:00 PM   
GabrielleSlave


Posts: 616
Joined: 9/20/2007
From: in servitude
Status: offline 		It does exist, i have it with my Master.  He is my soulmate and my boyfriend, it just so happens that i am His slave too lol!

i wish you luck and happiness

Gabrielle x

(Wwe have been together for over a year, are buying a house together and are talking about getting married)

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~ Host of the Rather Marvelous Greenwich Munch ~

"There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master."
D. H. Lawrence

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 1:59:22 PM   
lmystery


Posts: 8
Joined: 3/23/2008
Status: offline 		thank you for giving me hope 

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 2:07:57 PM   
Daddyslilpookie


Posts: 498
Joined: 3/3/2008
From: OC, California
Status: offline 		Yes it does exist I have it with my Daddy/Master he is my best friend and my husband and we have been together 6 years and have one daughter who is almost 6.

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"A Woman Loves Only Her Master"

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 3:18:20 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5171
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		Of course people have LTRs.  Not everyone wants a one night stand. 

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 3:42:18 PM   
pinkwind


Posts: 367
Joined: 1/9/2005
Status: offline 		Another one standing up to say yes, LTR's do exist, and are not as rare as you seem to think they are.

What you have to do is recognise is that like in the larger world you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way, but that being true to yourself and your aspirations and morals will help you reap dividends in the end.

Personally i spent too many years settling for a lifeless marriage, only to finally break out and learn to recognise good people. Not only do i value the longterm friendships that i have been blessed with making along the way, but i have been happily collared for nearly 4 years to a man who is the most intimate friend and confidant, partner, Master and soulmate, someone i cannot envisage ever being without.

Don't lose heart.


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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 3:59:30 PM   
softness


Posts: 2918
Joined: 8/1/2006
From: Leeds, UK
Status: offline 		you will find it .. just takes some looking is all

*sighs*... and some waiting...

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 5:26:18 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		Five years come August.

How to get it? Figure out what you want. What kind of morals, ethical code you have and where (if at all) you can bend. What interests do you have to have in common versus which ones you can do alone or compromise on. Such as him sometimes going yard sale-ing with you versus watching the game every weekend. What can you not possibly ever abide? What general physical requirements.

See, the more you know about yourself and what you're looking for, the more you'll recognize it when you find it.
But if you have a habit of always picking someone you aren't compatible with long term, then you need to figure out why you're too afraid to look for what you claim to want, plus change the programming in your head. And that takes really hard work.

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Cynical and proud of it!


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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 6:07:00 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		You can get exactly what you choose for yourself- but you need to keep things in reality.  

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Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 6:11:29 PM   
Poetryinpain


Posts: 341
Joined: 3/20/2008
Status: offline 		You need patience and tenacity. Hang in there and don't settle for less than you feel you deserve.

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There is none so blind as he who will not see.

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 7:08:03 PM   
MasterFireMaam


Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline 		I know couples who have been together for 15+ years. Yes, it does exist.

Master Fire


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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 7:37:45 PM   
precious4Sir


Posts: 9
Joined: 9/23/2007
Status: offline 		Definitely exists.  Master and i are completely and totally in love with each other.  He is my best friend, my lover, my confidente.  We know each other inside and out!  The fact that He is my Master and i am his slave, just makes everything perfect.



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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 8:58:46 PM   
AquaticSub


Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: lmystery

Is there such a thing as a long term relationship within this lifestyle. i seek someone that can be my Dom / Master as well as my soul mate i want someone in which i can give myself to completely but i want him to be able to do the same. am i asking for to much? Does the life i seek exist?


thank you lmystery



Yup. While many wouldn't count it as long term, we are getting to two and a half years, and he's not just my owner, he is my groom. I'm not just his girl, I'm his bride. It's all offical - we're getting hitched!

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 9:01:44 PM   
SixFootMaster


Posts: 829
Joined: 9/27/2007
Status: offline 		1 + 1 = infinity, for extremely connected values of 1.

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How-so oft fresh injurious deed
Doth turn Janus' petulant gaze
'pon the rocks and storm rift sea
And littered wood of broken days
disregard for toil shown
no ground broken, no seed sewn.

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 10:12:01 PM   
slaveluci


Posts: 4294
Joined: 3/2/2007
From: Little Rock, AR
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
I'm not just his girl, I'm his bride. It's all offical - we're getting hitched!

Congratulations, Aquatic!  Master and I are as well.  May 1st is the big day.  I wish you all the best.............luci

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RE: LTR - 3/26/2008 11:24:25 PM   
AquaticSub


Posts: 14867
Joined: 12/27/2005
Status: offline 		Aww, congrats to you too! We are going to wait a few years to save up money, but we are really excited. Hopefully everyone will forgive me if I keep chattering about it!

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: LTR - 3/27/2008 12:34:12 AM   
completenz


Posts: 315
Joined: 1/10/2007
Status: offline 		congrats to all of you happy people from us. We have been married for a whole month now and life is wonderful
C & c

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'Life is not always measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away'

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RE: LTR - 3/27/2008 2:03:49 AM   
onthenosetone


Posts: 118
Joined: 7/22/2006
Status: offline 		Yup, 15 years here, she is my Ma'am and my Goddess and I worship and work towards her satisfaction in everything I do, however over and above that she's my wife and my best friend  (Iwould say lover but as I'm 24/7 in chastity.....)

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RE: LTR - 3/27/2008 4:24:14 AM   
Littlepita


Posts: 1430
Joined: 10/6/2005
Status: offline 		We aren't married....yet, but we are in this until death do us part. LTR can happen and thrive. My two dearest friends have been in together and in the lifestyle for 30 years. They are still learning, growing, and adapting to the ever changes of life. They are a real inspiration for their determination and dedication to the others happiness.

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“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” – Anais Nin

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RE: LTR - 3/27/2008 4:58:46 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		Well op first you have to ditch the boots. Im a leg man. Can't do long term while the boots are there.

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