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Love... - 3/27/2008 5:35:29 PM   
cool123


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Status: offline 		Can a Dominant Woman loves her slave/sub? Does it necessarily leads to vanilla? Could a Woman loves a man and remain her slave?

I want to be my Lady's slave... but I want her to love me and value my submission as well!
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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:37:45 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I have found that it is much easier for the bottom to love the Top than the other way around.  That doesn't mean that it can't happen, but given the dynamics it isn't easy.

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:40:51 PM   
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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:41:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I have found that it is much easier for the bottom to love the Top than the other way around. That doesn't mean that it can't happen, but given the dynamics it isn't easy.


What makes it difficult ?

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:41:49 PM   
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Naughty Amazonian Freaky Trade Agreement?


Join the club.  And, yes.  A majority with an extended, lifestyle relationship "love" each other.  Although it isn't always necessary to "begin" the relationship.  Mutual respect, common interests, and good chemistry can dicatate the beginning....the love, or endearment, grows with the bonding, devotion, and maturity of the relationship.


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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:43:28 PM   
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before his mouth gets him into trouble*


ROFLMAO...Since when, EXACTLY, has that ever stopped you???


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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:43:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I certainly hope so.  Love of some sort is what I'm looking for in a submissive...

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:43:41 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:44:52 PM   
cool123


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ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

quote:

Naughty Amazonian Freaky Trade Agreement?


Join the club. And, yes. A majority with an extended, lifestyle relationship "love" each other. Although it isn't always necessary to "begin" the relationship. Mutual respect, common interests, and good chemistry can dicatate the beginning....the love, or endearment, grows with the bonding, devotion, and maturity of the relationship.



I'm glad read that :)

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:47:01 PM   
cool123


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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

I certainly hope so. Love of some sort is what I'm looking for in a submissive...


You are looking for the sub to love you? Or you hope to love your sub?

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:47:13 PM   
darchChylde


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ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

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before his mouth gets him into trouble*


ROFLMAO...Since when, EXACTLY, has that ever stopped you???



Four words:  "Midgets make everything better."

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:48:38 PM   
MistressVnus


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Midgets make everything better.


Only if they have pierced (or split...ahem) tongues!!  *cracking up here*


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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:49:26 PM   
cool123


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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

no love...no faery!


Why? :(

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:51:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cool123


quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

no love...no faery!


Why? :(


because there is no point in being in ANY relationship if you are not loved.


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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:55:02 PM   
cool123


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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: cool123


quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

no love...no faery!


Why? :(


because there is no point in being in ANY relationship if you are not loved.




Ohhh.... I thought you meant the opposite!! I totally agree with you now :)

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:55:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

Dreams can come true.

Proudly collared by Macslittleimp on March 14, 2008!!!


CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!  

As to the question, I think love flows down and upstream.  With Daddy, we were nilla first and in love, and progressed to what we have now.  With our sub girl, we started as just friendly play partners, but I could see us developing into a very sweet affection.  (at least between her and myself)



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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:57:00 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I have found that it is much easier for the bottom to love the Top than the other way around.  That doesn't mean that it can't happen, but given the dynamics it isn't easy.


Uhhh... what dynamics?  I'd think that if you're going to take responsibility for someone as a dom/me does for a slave or submissive, some form of love is required.  What a horrible relationship that would be, at least for me, if the love was only one-sided.

My boy and I are engaged to be married.  I love him as the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with, first and foremost.  Because of this, dominating him is all the more special because I know it's not just short-term, but that he and I will have this aspect of our relationship for the rest of our lives.

I'll admit it -- without him here I sometimes feel a bit lost, myself.  Therein lies the only problem with love, is that it can be painful at times, but the way I look at it, that pain just reminds me that I'm alive and in love with the most wonderful man I could ever hope to take into my arms.

Le sigh... okay, and now I've got the dreamy, gooey stars in my eyes.  Heehee...

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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 5:59:09 PM   
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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 6:01:36 PM   
MistressVnus


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I'm glad read that :)


ACK!!  I "pasted" a quote from another thread, accidentally!!  LOL  About the Amazonian thing.  *shakinghead*


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RE: Love... - 3/27/2008 6:04:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		MV -   lol...  I kept going back and reading to see if I missed something.  I do that kind of thing in the real world once in a way, and just have to wonder.  hehehe.....

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