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RE: my thoughts on the "gift" of submission - 6/13/2008 7:19:44 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: MakeMeSmile4U

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: MakeMeSmile4U
it's not something I choose to give to just anyone.  I guess what I'm trying to say (and doing a poor job of it, too) is that my submission is not just there for the taking by anybody who wants it. 
I don't date just anyone. I don't have sex with just anyone. I'm not friends with just anyone. I don't love just anyone. That doesn't mean that date with me is a gift. It doesn't mean that my friendship is a gift. It doesn't mean if I have sex with you, it's a gift. It doesn't mean that if I love you, it's a gift. What you're describing is being choosy.

A gift is given expecting nothing in return. A gift is given with no thought as to what will happen to it after you've given it, other than hoping that the recipient will enjoy it. Is that how you feel about your submission?



Well, yes, actually.  You said what I could not, thanks :)
So, since you're not expecting anything in return because it's a "gift"...would you give it to someone that gave you nothing in return. Someone who did not give you love or Dominance in return?

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