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ebonybarbie -> The Timewasters (3/30/2008 12:29:41 AM)

I have a couple of questions but I'll try to keep this brief

1 Why do subs call, make appointments, don't show up,then never call to cancel (after I ask them to call & cancel if they have to). They always say "Yes, I'll call if my plans change" & then NEVER do

2 Why do slaves ask questions that have already been answered? IE if my ad says the location & donation, then they call & ask "What is your donation? What's your location?"

3 Why is it so hard to remember my name? I've had slaves write my number down, then call me a year later & have NO idea what my name is.If you have enough time to write down the number, then why not take 3 seconds to write down my name as well!?!

If anybody has any answers I would love to know. It is VERY confusing to me....




MasterFireMaam -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 12:46:04 AM)

Welcome to the internet. People odten don't follow through with their word, care about your name (but do care about your picture) and don't read your add (they look at pictures). You'll just have to get used to it and deal like everyone else, unfortunately.

Master Fire




angelikaJ -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 1:03:35 AM)

IF they are married a number w/ no name is less incriminating if wife finds it...




Lynnxz -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 2:29:22 AM)

Ugh, the same reason that guys flake out on me as a Pro Sub. They are probably just screwing around, with no real intention of actually coming to the appointment. I call them wankers... all they want to do is talk to you, preferably on the phone. They hope to rope you into some kind of cheap Phonedomme session by  pissing you off so you will yell at them. Waste of my time, they get blacklisted. Jeeeze.. do these guys realize how long it takes me to get ready for a session?

I don't get mad if they don't remember their name. I'm horrible with names myself.

Hehe.. I could send you some of the emails I get from my ads.. probably would make you feel better.. haha.

"HAI! LEMME SPIT IN YOUR MOUTH!!"

*ew*




MissMagnolia -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 2:30:54 AM)

Usually because they are thinking with the little head instead of the big one (I mean the one on their shoulders.)




Mercnbeth -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 5:08:04 AM)

quote:

If anybody has any answers I would love to know. It is VERY confusing to me....


it's pretty simple really, folks say it around here all the time.
it goes a little something like this:
 
they might be subs and slaves but they aren't YOUR subs and slaves, so therefore it doesn't really matter what YOU want them to do.
 
YOU are supplying service to THEIR wants, needs and desires, and they could give a flying fuck what YOUR wants, needs, desires or even your name is...not the other way around...so, who is serving who?
 
hope that helps!!![:)]




LadyHathor -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 5:42:24 AM)

WARNING: you  may get snarkiness in this thread, however, this morning, I am so with you--
 
hmm I was just about to create a separate post on a similar topic when this appeared, so I hope I am not stealing said thread however, the material is along the same lines:
 
MALE SUBS:---Why do you not use the balls you have to fess up----you lose interest, you are afraid of what you could get, a Domina is too old, too accomplished, too whatever for what you seek---
 
you start out with all the right approaches, or even if a D approaches there is a good rapport---lets move from CM to a more private IM means then we can move to phone etc---yes yes yes, sounds good----'i am what you seek Mistress, I am a sub of good repute, i seek xxx, we are kindred spirits..." then poof, or we see you "collared" to someone else--WTF??
 
or the pantingpuppy---pant pant, "i dont know you but here is my IM or my phone number--operators are standing by--pant pant"---" you have no use for me, you never respond, wait--you do OTHER things? like have a real life? like, i mean, uhm real social interactions?"
 
So ok, yeah you aren't My sub so you aren't obligated to do xxx--but you have balls, you have the audacity to be here--use your balls to face what you have created or not created--I mean--if you dont have a 12 inch d*%, no one here knows that, so if you can't face a Domina for whatever reason, well pfft no one knows that as well.  Hve the balls you had to get here, to send a note that says--thanks but no thanks--
 

 




kittensangel -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 6:30:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ebonybarbie

I have a couple of questions but I'll try to keep this brief

1 Why do subs call, make appointments, don't show up,then never call to cancel (after I ask them to call & cancel if they have to). They always say "Yes, I'll call if my plans change" & then NEVER do

2 Why do slaves ask questions that have already been answered? IE if my ad says the location & donation, then they call & ask "What is your donation? What's your location?"

3 Why is it so hard to remember my name? I've had slaves write my number down, then call me a year later & have NO idea what my name is.If you have enough time to write down the number, then why not take 3 seconds to write down my name as well!?!

If anybody has any answers I would love to know. It is VERY confusing to me....



1: because this is the internet and well their are many fakes out their
2: maybe they are double checking to make sure the information is write and for some reason was not printed or typed up wrong.
3: one i am bad with names to begin with, so for me its a voice or face i remeber, and you are just talking about having it attched to number or screen name their are so many people i end up talking only ever now and then or have not talked to in a while, and i do not remember where i got their name or phone number or where i know them from. You may have a common name such as jack or katie and if its that the case then i tend to go "katie, katie, which one is this? where do i know this particular katie from"




Ebonybbw -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 7:50:33 AM)

Have you heard of gameplayers?  That's the answer... Welcome to the adult entertainer world...




AquaticSub -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 8:33:02 AM)

Why do doms do the same things?


Pst... the answer is because doms and subs are just people and people can be downright rude, stupid and annoying.




lronitulstahp -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 8:37:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw

Have you heard of gameplayers?  That's the answer... Welcome to the adult entertainer world...
ahem... we're adult entertainers???[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image] Where in the hell is my check???? i have GOT to get better representation.....





chiaThePet -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 8:53:51 AM)

Dear ebonychristie, er, barbie, sorry forgot for just a sec.

Location and Donation = Hesitation, Procrastination and Cancelation.

p.s. MissMagnolia, I can see your dirty pillows, and I like it, I like it.

chia* (the pet)




Lynnxz -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 9:03:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw

Have you heard of gameplayers?  That's the answer... Welcome to the adult entertainer world...
ahem... we're adult entertainers???[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image] Where in the hell is my check???? i have GOT to get better representation.....




She's a pro domme. :P




catize -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 9:10:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ebonybarbie

I have a couple of questions but I'll try to keep this brief

1 Why do subs call, make appointments, don't show up,then never call to cancel (after I ask them to call & cancel if they have to). They always say "Yes, I'll call if my plans change" & then NEVER do

2 Why do slaves ask questions that have already been answered? IE if my ad says the location & donation, then they call & ask "What is your donation? What's your location?"

3 Why is it so hard to remember my name? I've had slaves write my number down, then call me a year later & have NO idea what my name is.If you have enough time to write down the number, then why not take 3 seconds to write down my name as well!?!

If anybody has any answers I would love to know. It is VERY confusing to me....

1.    The cost of doing business
2.    The cost of doing business
3.    The cost of doing business




SteelofUtah -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 9:14:36 AM)

because your clients are all sexually repressed wankers who usually the whole idea that they even MADE an appointment made them cream themselves I wold start getting your Donation first, but then you have to state that you do not guarantee ANY activity from donation as well that constitutes Prostitution.

Steel




MontrealPhoenix -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 9:15:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw

Have you heard of gameplayers?  That's the answer... Welcome to the adult entertainer world...
ahem... we're adult entertainers???[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image] Where in the hell is my check???? i have GOT to get better representation.....


I'm with you Iron...wanna go halvsies on a good lawyer?




lronitulstahp -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 9:19:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MontrealPhoenix

quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ebonybbw

Have you heard of gameplayers?  That's the answer... Welcome to the adult entertainer world...
ahem... we're adult entertainers???[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m28.gif[/image] Where in the hell is my check???? i have GOT to get better representation.....


I'm with you Iron...wanna go halvsies on a good lawyer?
ok...i call the TOP half...from my experience with Lawyers the brain is always working...but stress or maybe guilt seem to get in the way of the bottom half working up to par...sad, really.




mnottertail -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 9:58:55 AM)

OP,

I am not at all a slave, far from it, but I don't know your name..........I am betting like a motherfucker it ain't barbie......

'Cause I can comb your hair;
undress you everywhere;
life is plastic;
it's fantastic............

and so on.

C'mon Barbie, let's go party...............

Rene Dif




SteelofUtah -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 11:35:37 AM)

I am SO Glad I'm not the only guy who knows all the words to that song.

Steel




kyraofMists -> RE: The Timewasters (3/30/2008 2:42:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ebonybarbie
If anybody has any answers I would love to know. It is VERY confusing to me....


Why not stop perceiving it as a waste of time and start figuring out what you are doing that is attracting people who always do this with you.  When you stop doing the things that attract these type of people to you, then you will no longer have to deal with them.

Knight's Kyra




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