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PsyVamp -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 5:50:31 PM)

I've been on this site since Oct 06.   I met my pet in April of 07 and if you only count r/l, then he has been with me since June of 07. 
I have met several people that are on this site, I must say most of the people who will go r/t have been wonderful.  Most of those I have met remain friends.

Lady Jag




kiwisub12 -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 5:50:49 PM)

I joined collarme.com a few months over 2 years ago.  Have been with my Sir for a month or so over 2 years - 24/7 - and would never go back. My profile wasn't anything special, but since I was new, he emailed me. He feels that there are enough posers out there that get a new sub and damage or scare them enough that they leave.
We have had a few girls contact him to help them be introduced into the bdsm local scene, and it has worked very well. be patient, and persistant in contacting people.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 5:56:12 PM)

I've been on this site for years, and have met some lovely people.  My dream slave, no, but I have made new friends or enhanced existing friendships. 

If someone can't keep a slave for more than five days, where does the problem lie?




longjohnsilver -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 6:09:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

Great responses...but so many differnt names mentioned for their time here?
Why so many name changes?


In my case, it's because when i met someone teh first time and it got serious, i closed down my profile (deleted the account). When i came back, i had a different word in my head when signing up :)





Bound2One -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 6:10:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

Great responses...but so many differnt names mentioned for their time here?
Why so many name changes?


Once we were sure about one another, Master and I created a joint profile and deleted our old ones. 




Twicehappy2x -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 6:42:41 PM)

I have been here for four years, though under two different names, one prior to my current collar and one as just twicehappy, no 2x since changing it to it's current form.
 
My longest relationship since having been on cm, well except for making friends,  is two years and one month.
 




hsagnev -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 9:04:13 PM)

Five years (on and off)
Zero relationships




blinky1985 -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 9:11:07 PM)

I joined collarme originally around 1 year and 6 months ago, then I quit for around 3 months and now I signed up again about 3 or so months ago. During my time here I have chatted with some interesting people, but have yet to make any great connections.




midgetmafiosa -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 9:16:42 PM)

I just joined this site and got a lot of predatory emails from people I didn't find attractive, a few from nice people, and just had my first conversation with someone that I can honestly say sparks flew. I'm pretty excited by the prospect.




khem -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 9:58:46 PM)

I didn't originally join the site to use as a personals site.  So I don't count any of that time.  In fact, none of my time here has been "wasted."  I've been using CM as part of my "hunting" only just recently, so it's really too soon to tell if it has been useful.




expedio1 -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 10:32:29 PM)

Tomorrow (1 April) is actually My one year anniversary here, and I've been pretty fortunate.  I've met a lot of nice people, and had one rt relationship that lasted 6 months and another that lasted about 3 months.  Neither of them went very deep before they ended, but it's a start, and I'm still looking and hopeful.  I live in an area where the population density is so low that it's tough sometimes even to find human beings, much less subs who fit what I'm looking for.  So I keep that in mind and try to be patient.  My boy is out there somewhere.




faithfulfemme -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 11:06:15 PM)

Been here on cm since about 2004, i think.  Different profiles because.......hell, i don't really know why other than i was really new to the lifestyle back then.  Most likely didn't know where my thoughts were headed to that far back.  However, just tonight a teeny, lil door has opened and i don't want to say anymore than that so as not to jinx it.........[:)][:)][:D][:D]  




Venatrix -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 11:27:35 PM)

I've been on CM for four months.  Frankly, I'm expecting it to take years to find someone suitable.  The kind of man I'm looking for doesn't exist in great numbers, and I've no interest in settling for second-best.




HerLord -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/30/2008 11:39:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I've been on CM for four months.  Frankly, I'm expecting it to take years to find someone suitable.  The kind of man I'm looking for doesn't exist in great numbers, and I've no interest in settling for second-best.

I was partially conflicted with this post. Glad to hear you have realistic expectations.

The conflict comes from my ego. The best is spoken for. You'll have to settle.

This said.

What every one here wants is at least a little different from what everyone else wants. And unless you simply have no personal interest in what you find, it could take a REALLY long time to find. How specific are your wants? How out of sync with the "norm" are your tastes? Always keeping in mind that what you are looking for is what only you are looking for, it really is sorta like finding a needle in a haystack the size of texas. So... Good Luck?




Masterssj -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/31/2008 12:26:15 AM)

I joined last fall and met my Master within a short time and deleted my account when i began speaking to him , out of respect for him then joined recently under this name to be able to read forums etc and i am still his ....

Masters  sj




azjojoba -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/31/2008 12:34:10 AM)

I haven't had luck on Collarme. All the women doms here want 24/7 subs. They are very picky and not very realistic about wanting anyone less than a movie star. I have had some luck on Craiglslist.

I know the men are probably worse -- they all want a 22 year old porn star.

I have concluded that most people who go to these websites are just here to fulfill fantasies and they don't want the real thing.




madshysoul -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/31/2008 1:00:48 AM)

Been here a few months.  The only thing I'm here looking for are ideas/thoughts/interactions beyond just my local BDSM scene. Found plenty of those.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/31/2008 2:16:51 AM)

I think I've been here for 4 years...maybe longer. My former ID no longer exists for me to check.

My longest Ds relationship: 2.5 years. We are still really good friends. Chatted today, as a matter of fact.

My longest Ms relationship: 2 years and counting.

Neither of these came from here. None of my relationships, in fact, have come from here.

Master Fire




Griswold -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/31/2008 2:56:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: azjojoba

I haven't had luck on Collarme. All the women doms here want 24/7 subs. They are very picky and not very realistic about wanting anyone less than a movie star. I have had some luck on Craiglslist.

I know the men are probably worse -- they all want a 22 year old porn star.

I have concluded that most people who go to these websites are just here to fulfill fantasies and they don't want the real thing.



That is so trite.

As well as entirely untrue.

I'd settle for a 26 year old.




MissMagnolia -> RE: Collarme connections!!!! (3/31/2008 3:06:15 AM)

24/7? Picky and unrealistic? Movie stars?

Damn, I really gotta set my sights higher.




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