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Ladylocks -> Smaller male subs (3/30/2008 11:52:55 PM)

Do any other mistresses on this site other than me prefer their male subs shorter or smaller than themselves? My Dainty is only 5' 4 and I am 5' 9. I like the fact that even when he is in heels and I am barefoot he has to look up to me. It gives me a feeling of strength to look down apon him. I enjoy the fact that he is smaller when I cradle him in my arms or when I put him over my knee. It seems more natural to dominate him being smaller especially feminizing or diapering him than if he was alot bigger. One of the rules of our relationship is that he has to submit to any restraints I wish to put on him at any time. I like it when I wrestle him down to the floor to tie him and he can struggle but doesnt get away from me being smaller. Do any other ladies like this?



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 12:11:07 AM)

I'm quite the opposite.  I love tall boys -- gives me more of a thrill to dominate them when they appear outwardly to be so dominating and masculine, and yet they're so eager to submit to me.  It shouldn't be, but it is, and that's the kind of stuff that really gets me off.

That being said, 5'8 is tall to me... and really, for a guy to be shorter than me, he'd have to be a certifiable midget (I'm 5'2).



FemDomHouTx -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 12:14:50 AM)

I'm with you Pyrrsefanie.
The bigger and more masculine they are, the more I enjoy Dominating them.



shyboy66 -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 12:24:44 AM)

i think You may be in the minority there Ladylocks - the Mistresses i have been with have all loved the fact that i dwarf Them yet submit to Them :) Having said that, it *is* a fantasy of mine to have a Mistress who is taller than me, but, at 6'6", it's unlikely to happen unless She's TG ...






SweetDommes -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 12:28:48 AM)

I like both - I enjoy having shorter boys look up at me ... but then again, I also enjoy having taller boys get down on their knees and look up at me.  It's more the boy who is looking up at me than if he's on his feet or knees ...



Ladylocks -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 12:41:24 AM)

I guess with me its probably my bad experiences with men in the past that influences my preferences. I don't feel comfortable unless I know for sure I'm in complete control. Either that or its just the mommy domme in me.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 12:44:21 AM)

I'm a shortarse but always in control. It would be hard to find a slave shorter than me anyway, at 5' 2" ( 5' 8" in heels though[:D]).



AtlantaMistress -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 2:31:36 AM)

I gotta go with the "little" Ladies here - 5'1" myself always in at least 4" heels - I love the juxtaposition of having a big tall man submit to me!

I certainly can understand the OP preference though - especially saying that you KNOW that you are in control then. With me - I still wrestle my boys sometimes...but they know better than to try to really win! I KNOW I am in control the minute they are naked and on their knees [;)]



MissMagnolia -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 2:34:12 AM)

Yes AtlantaMistress and all the other shorties,  it IS true that precious things come in small packages[:D]



Goddess2002 -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 3:43:02 AM)

All I can say is praise to whoever invented platforms! I do get a rush from towering over a male.



MsStarlett -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 4:09:37 AM)

Gotta go with the majority here... I like 'em big, hairy and masculine.  I equate doming a man capable of breaking me in half with the rush men get from sports/muscle cars or BMF guns.  It's that tiger by the tail syndrome.  You're holding something very potentially dangerous... but you've got control over it.

However, I've got a new 'applicant' who is slowly chipping away at my normal restrictions.  He's not that large and is well below my normal age limit... but he's smart, persistent and very eager without being stalker creepy or pushy.  He kept popping up yesterday when I was checking for someone else... so I told him "You're a writer... go write me a poem or something."  You know, just to keep him busy.  Within the hour he had written me a full sonnet... and it was a good one!

Sometimes, the lion's heart that we all seek is beating in the chest of the smaller, or younger package.



LadyJeelys -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 4:11:42 AM)

Since I'm altitudenally challenged, there are few men shorter than I.



MistressVnus -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 4:45:49 AM)

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I like it when I wrestle him down to the floor to tie him and he can struggle but doesnt get away from me being smaller. Do any other ladies like this?


I just absolutely love being able to "manhandle" my slaves.  Pick them up.  Throw them on bed.  Wrestle them down when struggling.  Of course, the OTK thing you describe.  Yes, like you, I enjoy it.



petdave -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 6:13:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress
I certainly can understand the OP preference though - especially saying that you KNOW that you are in control then. With me - I still wrestle my boys sometimes...but they know better than to try to really win! I KNOW I am in control the minute they are naked and on their knees [;)]



As a male sub on the "can break his partner in half" side, this is something i think about frequently... On the one hand, i can certainly understand the "rush" of having someone submit when you know they don't physically have to... But on the other hand, sometimes it's hard to shake the feeling that i'm really the one who is in control, because if i want things to stop, i can stop them. The vulnerability of being physically overpowered fascinates me. Of course, bondage can help in this regard, but it's not quite the same thing...



AtlantaMistress -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 6:24:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: petdave

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress
I certainly can understand the OP preference though - especially saying that you KNOW that you are in control then. With me - I still wrestle my boys sometimes...but they know better than to try to really win! I KNOW I am in control the minute they are naked and on their knees [;)]


As a male sub on the "can break his partner in half" side, this is something i think about frequently... On the one hand, i can certainly understand the "rush" of having someone submit when you know they don't physically have to... But on the other hand, sometimes it's hard to shake the feeling that i'm really the one who is in control, because if i want things to stop, i can stop them. The vulnerability of being physically overpowered fascinates me. Of course, bondage can help in this regard, but it's not quite the same thing...



This is why the mental aspects of BDSM are just as if not more important to me than the physical. The mental control puts a man who very well may be more than twice my size who could certainly stop things physically in a position where he would never stop (if he could?). Yes, bondage - putting a big guy into a vulnerable position he cannot get out of is fun, but what is better is having him desire to please you SO BAD that you don't even need the ropes!



LadyRope -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 6:34:35 AM)

I enjoy smaller ,thinner men,as I do a great deal of suspension bondage using rope, and I find  them not only asthetically pleasing(thats my view) but also its far easier to suspend someone small, when I am changing my rope bunnies positions in mid air I know  I could never hold a fuller body with out something going wrong,like dropping them,and that wont do...not to say I have not had accidents with smaller people,I just feel I have better control...now if we are talking floor rope bondage bring on the small,the big and the bigger, he he...



SweetDommes -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 8:22:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Ladylocks

I guess with me its probably my bad experiences with men in the past that influences my preferences. I don't feel comfortable unless I know for sure I'm in complete control. Either that or its just the mommy domme in me.


I've that too ... but still, the thought of a 6' + guy on his knees looking up at me because he wants to be down there ... just gives me happy little shivers [:)]  So does the thought of being able to pick up and toss around a smaller boy hehehe ... I just like them all [;)]



darchChylde -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 9:44:44 AM)

i look up to Ma'am, no matter the position or height difference.



Venatrix -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 9:47:32 AM)

I'm 5'10" without heels, so most men are either shorter than I am or just at my height.  Much more important than their height is their brain power.



darchChylde -> RE: Smaller male subs (3/31/2008 10:01:05 AM)

AtlantaMistress mentioned wrestling, "I still wrestle my boys sometimes...but they know better than to try to really win!"

This, i just don't get.  i don't see the point of anything 'competitive' without putting some kind of honest effort.  When i imagine myself wrestling with Ma'am, there's no holding back beyond being certain i don't hurt Her. She is 6 inches shorter than me and also a BBW (though i hate the term, it sounds like putting a disclaimer on a woman's beauty 'pretty for a big girl'), while i'm not weak; i'm pretty sure we'd be pretty evenly matched and i'd try to 'win'.  Of course it would only take one word or look (or knowing myself, a tug of hair) to take all resistance from me.

"I KNOW I am in control the minute they are naked and on their knees"

Maybe this is the fantasy, but i don't believe so.  i like to think that Ma'am KNOWS She is in control at any time, whether i'm naked on my knees or carrying Her groceries.



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