Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: A Question of Pain..


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: A Question of Pain.. Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 11:59:30 AM   
OmegaG


Posts: 1474
Joined: 10/23/2007
Status: offline 		he could lend out the cattle prod (I have no experience with it) and I could send you the cane as colladeral(sp?).

Nail gun--- ewwww.

_____________________________


Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable. Sydney J. Harris

Sex without pain is like food without taste.
- de Sade

(in reply to softness)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 12:07:25 PM   
LilMissHaven


Posts: 734
Joined: 12/19/2007
Status: offline 		I'm Ok with little pains like spankings, hair pulling, biting (without breaking the skin), belts and some floggers.

But when it comes to serious pain like canes, nipple torture, clamps, etc I'm a total wuss

I didn't serve J for the kink, I served for the complete acceptance of another person.  We just found a way to benefit from two different ends of the spectrum.

My not being a masochist or getting the slightest pleasure from pain and J being a Sadist we found ways to ensure we both walked away happy from our experiances together.  J. craved my tears and I craved his aftercare.

But, knowing what I do now I do tend to shy away from Sadists.

_____________________________

I must first learn to master myself, before I can truly be owned by one.

(in reply to Sunnyfey)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 12:21:56 PM   
softness


Posts: 2918
Joined: 8/1/2006
From: Leeds, UK
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaG

Nail gun--- ewwww.



three words for you

Red                  Rag             Bull 



_____________________________

proudly wearing the blue collar of consideration to DK Leather, Leatherdykeuk, and LeatherEagle of the UK KRueL Leather Family

veritas, respectus honorque in corio





(in reply to OmegaG)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 1:06:52 PM   
underhisthumb


Posts: 32
Joined: 3/19/2008
Status: offline 		I consider myself a painslut, so if Master has inflicted it Im usually a happy girl.  However, I have my preferences. . . I prefer a thud to a sting, and his hand on my flesh is always enough to make me melt into a puddle.  Breast torture and otk spankings are probablly my very faves. 


(in reply to softness)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 1:30:07 PM   
BBWnNC72


Posts: 1155
Joined: 6/22/2007
From: NC since Jan of 2007, but born and raised in Cali
Status: offline 		i enjoy any kind my Dominant decides to inflict upon me.  But my favorite has to be nipple turture, i love when He pulls, pinches, twists, kneeds. i love how they feel and look the next day, how my nipples stay hard for days. 

< Message edited by BBWnNC72 -- 4/1/2008 1:32:30 PM >

_____________________________

huggs and purrs
Brian's kat
a.k.a. "greedy monkey"
~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
i am who i am, i am not ashamed. spank me, beat me, bite me, pull my hair, dominate me, control me, but always respect me for who i am.


(in reply to softness)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 2:43:40 PM   
kiwisub12


Posts: 4742
Joined: 1/11/2006
Status: offline 		give me canes any day!!!!  love the place they take me, love the attention, love the afterburn.
least favourite - clover clamps - can't breath when they are on - so they aren't on for very long (thank goddess!)

(in reply to BBWnNC72)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 3:38:21 PM   
simplycarla


Posts: 5
Joined: 11/21/2007
Status: offline 		My favorite kind(s) of pain is being bitten, scratched, flogging  just to name a few <eg>

(in reply to metalmiss)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 3:50:19 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline 		My favorite kind is the kind that comes right before I do.

Cali


_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to simplycarla)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 3:59:08 PM   
Bound2One


Posts: 614
Joined: 1/11/2008
Status: offline 		I'm on board with the 'whatever kind of pain Master gives me' crew.  It's amazing to me how much I crave the pain he gives sometimes and how exciting it is, first in that it pleases him and second how much I love the physical and mental state the pain puts me in. 

(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 6:24:10 PM   
bornsynner


Posts: 44
Joined: 1/3/2008
Status: offline 		i love pain but unlike most here, i prefer the stingy pain.. think sharp shiney steel parting delicate ivory skin.. mmm.
then again theres also the deep burn of harsh bite and the lovely heat on my ass after a long bare-handed spanking...thuddy pain isnt my favorite but serves its place when followed by a warm caress.. just my opinion

(in reply to Bound2One)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 6:40:51 PM   
kyraofMists


Posts: 3292
Joined: 7/29/2005
Status: offline 		Well, I don't enjoy any type of play that he chooses to inflict on me.  As a sadist he enjoys that I don't enjoy it.  Since he enjoys it, the experience is fun even though I don't like the sensation.  As for my favorites...

Thuddy!  I hate stingy.

I also enjoy the pain of abrasion play, gripping, pressure points, punching, kicking....  just about anything that is hands on, skin to skin is good pain.

Canes are generally bad pain especially if used on my ass.  If they are heavy enough to be thuddy rather than stingy then they are not too bad.  Also I enjoy it more if used on my thighs.  I have only felt a few strikes with a whip and I disliked the initial sensation but enjoyed the burning after the strike.

Knight's Kyra

_____________________________

"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus

(in reply to metalmiss)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 7:59:20 PM   
adoracat


Posts: 1779
Joined: 2/16/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

My favorite kind is the kind that comes right before I do.

Cali



huzzah.  *that*.

kitten

(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 7:59:25 PM   
denika


Posts: 619
Joined: 8/30/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: metalmiss

Whats your favourite kind of pain?



Depends on how it's being inflicted   I enjoy the sensation of knives . Flogger's, generally thuddy but I do like stingy as long as it's not by the rubber,ball chain or metal studded evil one :) I know I'm a picky masochist . Hands, feet, teeth. But I would have to say my favorite would be a toss up between knives and teeth/biting

Wolf's denika


(in reply to metalmiss)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 8:20:16 PM   
daddysblondie


Posts: 181
Joined: 3/17/2007
Status: offline 		hmmm...

thuddy for sure. biting, spanking, oh and while i'm starting to think i must be strange for saying so i love clover clamps on my nipples...

and all this from someone who never would have considered herself a masochist until i met Daddy.

(in reply to denika)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/1/2008 8:56:16 PM   
Poetryinpain


Posts: 341
Joined: 3/20/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: daddysblondie

hmmm...

thuddy for sure. biting, spanking, oh and while i'm starting to think i must be strange for saying so i love clover clamps on my nipples...

and all this from someone who never would have considered herself a masochist until i met Daddy.

You're not strange. I love clover clamps, too.

And when I first investigated BDSM I said absolutely no pain.

pip, famous last words


_____________________________

There is none so blind as he who will not see.

(in reply to daddysblondie)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/2/2008 3:04:24 AM   
MRandme


Posts: 661
Joined: 9/24/2007
Status: offline 		For me, biting is the best... i could come from nothing more than His teeth on my nape. i also enjoy being scratched...

Stingy pain is my least favorite -- the cane especially! My favorite toy is a lovely leather paddle that has just the right balance between thud and sting.




_____________________________

And thus i conclude with a wish you go well,
Sweet be your dreams, may your happiness swell,
I'll leave you here, for my journey begins
i've gone to be with Him again...

(in reply to Poetryinpain)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/2/2008 3:34:32 AM   
Indemnis


Posts: 179
Joined: 4/15/2005
Status: offline 		Stingy pain!  By far.
Stingy and burny.
Spankings, swattings, bitings, floggings, face-slappings, and pinchings.  Yummy!

_____________________________

No-one respects the flame quite like the fool who's badly burned-- Pete Townshend

(in reply to softness)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/2/2008 4:45:52 AM   
eyesopened


Posts: 2798
Joined: 6/12/2006
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

Well, I don't enjoy any type of play that he chooses to inflict on me.  As a sadist he enjoys that I don't enjoy it.  Since he enjoys it, the experience is fun even though I don't like the sensation.  As for my favorites...
Knight's Kyra


my Master also enjoys that i don't enjoy it!  That i suffer for Him turns Him on.  Now, i will say that my mind and my body have two different reactions to certain pain sensations.  For example, while nipple/breast torture hurts like hell and mentally i hate it, my body totally disagrees with me. Clover clamps with weights?  my mind says "no no no" and my body says "oh hell yes!"

_____________________________

Proudly owned by InkedMaster. He is the one i obey, serve, honor and love.

No one is honored for what they've received. Honor is the reward for what has been given.

(in reply to kyraofMists)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/2/2008 11:45:48 AM   
metalmiss


Posts: 341
Joined: 5/4/2005
From: Croydon, UK
Status: offline 		i guess i should put mine here too seeing as i asked the question.. Its only fair to share as they say.*smiles*
It's something that has puzzled me for so long because i can't pick a single one.. there's so many different types of pain and so many of them are so beautiful to me for so many different reasons.

i adore thuddy pain, especially when its something really heavy and i feel the thud all the way to my bones, the way it makes my whole body rock.
But stingy has its merits.. its fast, sharp, it burns and then leaves me aching as though it was never there.
The entirely different sensation evoked by the caress of a single tail on naked flesh which is like nothing else on earth..
Then there's the almost sensual sensations i get from needle play & medical staples that just makes me want to melt..
The aching, insistant kind of pain from pegs or clamps.. and the ache when they're taken away..
i could go on & on but i think you get the hint.. And it wouldn't do for me to get too excited thinking about it..
Just one more though.. That wonderful kind of pain that i get from being stretched.. Daddy's cock.. Fingers.. A fist..

It's enough to make my head spin at least, with all that and more to choose from.. i couldn't possibly find a favourite.


_____________________________

"The longing to serve, to submit, to abandon oneself sexually, emotionally, and physically makes one a slave either to a Man, a Woman or to God. Submission to that passion is divine degradation." - Dorothy C. Hayden

Owned by RavenMuse

(in reply to eyesopened)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: A Question of Pain.. - 4/2/2008 12:40:51 PM   
devil1963


Posts: 15
Joined: 12/30/2007
Status: offline 		As someone that gives the pain, I would have to say that my fav is via my hand/s. But without the feeling of a bond it means nothing for anybody.

(in reply to softness)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> RE: A Question of Pain.. Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078