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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/4/2008 8:12:03 PM

EbonyPhoenix68

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Well, FYI, I have seen no Moderators active of late and frankly, I wished they were when I have been harassed by some people (who will remain nameless, but they know who they are) who are NOT Masters/Doms and have been rude, disrespectful in regards not only toward me, but also have offered no POSITIVE advice on this situation. In closing, I will say this in that I don't really care whether or not anyone believes what happened to me happened. The only ones who know what happened are the ones who were involved and that is what really counts as far as I am concerned. That said, I am so done with some these mentally and I might add, emotionally toxic jackasses on this damn message board. To quote Patty Smyth McEnroe, "Goodbye To You".

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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/4/2008 8:15:38 PM

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Sounds like a felony occured.

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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/5/2008 5:16:08 AM

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So typical! OP doesn't like the responses after being caught in a lie, removes profile, leaves nasty message to all, then turns tail and runs out of here. How soon will they return with a new profile and another drama for us to read?

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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/5/2008 6:48:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

How soon will they return with a new profile and another drama for us to read?

well it keeps us busy and makes us look superior

it is not that bad in the end

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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/5/2008 7:46:33 AM

SteelofUtah

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyPhoenix68

Well, FYI, I have seen no Moderators active of late and frankly, I wished they were when I have been harassed by some people (who will remain nameless, but they know who they are) who are NOT Masters/Doms and have been rude, disrespectful in regards not only toward me, but also have offered no POSITIVE advice on this situation. In closing, I will say this in that I don't really care whether or not anyone believes what happened to me happened. The only ones who know what happened are the ones who were involved and that is what really counts as far as I am concerned. That said, I am so done with some these mentally and I might add, emotionally toxic jackasses on this damn message board. To quote Patty Smyth McEnroe, "Goodbye To You".

The Mods are on Daily and as far as I know Mod 11 reads THIS forum Daily. Now maybe I may be wrong but so far NOTHING on this thread goes overboard. You have not be personally attacked, you have siimply been asked to answer a discrepency in your Post here and your Journal on the CM side.

Here is the deal .

Dom or sub, this is an open forum. ANYONE CAN REPLY TO ANYONE. So the idea that it wasn't a DOM calling you on your OBVIOUS lie or again Manipulation of the Truth holds no bearing.

I'm not a Mod and so I cannot speak for them, but I would think this is a case of "Posters Remorse" You realized too late you didn't have the power to DELETE your thread and that now you had gone too far and couldn't take it back.

Now Yes I will agree that some of the people on this thread resemble Hungry Rabid Dogs when they sniff someones BS on a Thread and they will broadcast it for the world to see. That is PART of being responsible on Collar Chat if you can't handle HONEST and at times RUDE replies ..... Well then maybe this place isn't for you and walking away from it is the right thing to do.

I had to once cause I thout that everyone should be nice to everyone and this should be a meeting of the minds well guess what. IT ISN'T You take what you can and LEAVE THE REST!

Maybe one day you will be back and you will have learned from this situation. However if you don't realized that it is YOUR loss not Ours.

I hope you see this for what it is and not another attack, because it isn't one.

Steel

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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/5/2008 7:57:02 AM

LaTigresse

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OMG this thread is some funny stuff.

Prior to taking anyone on the other side seriously I always search for their forum posts(if any exist) and read their journals. It can be so telling.

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RE: Dealing with wannabe Doms and their "switches&... - 4/5/2008 9:13:02 AM

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exactly what i did as well, LaT.
i dont know how many of the others the OP wrote to, but he did indeed
send me quite a lovely little note on the other side, because i read his journal
before responding here. i refered him to my Dom, but i havent heard from
Zee or for that matter, from Mod11. Those two are the only people that can
tell me what to do here ( :) tho usualy not in that order lol)
everyone knows it sucks to get called on your shit, and its proably really
scary to realize something you did might in fact be a crime. altho it dosent
help and sometimes even makes it worse, its easy to understand the
jumping around and screaming 'it wasnt me it wasnt me' mentality, no?

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