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RE: When Your Master or Mistress Upsets You - 4/8/2008 6:00:14 AM

StormsSlave

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Trying again...

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We like to yell. It releases the anger, and that's just who we are. I don't believe My Lord has ever expressed that I shouldn't ever raise my voice to him, and it is rare that I ask him to lower his. As a matter of fact, I've only ever yelled at him once, but that doesn't mean we haven't fought. lol I grew up in a family of yellers, and we all still love each other.

The thing is, we are human. We make mistakes. We have fought, we will fight again. We will misunderstand each other, and we will work it out, and have incredible make up sex! ( How can you have make up sex if you don't fight?!) My Lord is passionate, and it is one of the many things I love about him. If that passion spills into his anger, or incites mine, well, that's just who he is, and I am not the kind of lady who can love just the "good" parts of him.

Adoracat...
No worries. I'm afraid sarcasm is one of those things that doesn't translate well on a discussion board. I totally understand about the lap time. I'd offer mine, but that also doesn't translate well to a discussion board.

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RE: When Your Master or Mistress Upsets You - 4/8/2008 1:05:23 PM

CenosSlave

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when me and my Master fight, though im his slave i admit that i do kinda lose it and go off on my own little tangent. and yes i expect retribution afterwards. i have a very short temper and find it hard to back down when im angry or feel like that, though i am slowly learning to stop and think, and not go off on one, but to stay respectful and rational.

though then part of me feels, that well, if there is an issue and i didnt voice my opinion on it if it were a conflicting one to my Masters, then that isnt particularly healthy for us as it could just remain hidden and fester, wheras getting it out into the open we can talk about it. also sometimes i think people need to have a good old fight to clear the air or bad feeling or whatever.

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RE: When Your Master or Mistress Upsets You - 4/8/2008 1:12:16 PM

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Alpha and I got married recently and have been living together for quite some time, and nothing that happens in our vanilla lives can be punishable in our bdsm ones. sometimes I'll be a brat on purpose, like annoying him when he's trying to work, and he'll say I'm going to get punished later, but nothing really serious gets punished in the bedroom. I'd be very upset if I did something wrong in my classes and I ended up getting a punishment for it... we consider what we do with bdsm an escape from reality.

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