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LydiaLuv -> Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:05:59 AM)
I am going to chalk it up to the Spring weather we have been having lately, like Spring Fever stirring up the hormones and curiosities. That aside, why do married doms continually contact when a profile states: "Married and attached - keep looking."?

sub4hire -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:08:29 AM)
Yep, they do. Question, how can a man be married and be a dom? Isn't trust involved in the lifestyle? Unless of course miracles have come to fruition and they have communicated to their wives about their interests.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:10:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sub4hire Yep, they do. Question, how can a man be married and be a dom? Isn't trust involved in the lifestyle? Easy-- maybe they are married to their sub/slave.

lally3 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:10:38 AM)
sorry, ignore me, read the question wrong.

KatyLied -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:10:44 AM)
If you expect people to actually read your profile before shooting off a message you are going to be greatly disappointed in your time here.

mastervalentine -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:15:04 AM)
I read profiles, for what it's worth. Though, I don't send many messages. Which makes me a quiet minority. Good luck in the deluge!

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:22:20 AM)
the same reason why they continue to contact profiles that state "not currently looking" just "ignore, delete and block" - a gal's best friend

RavenMuse -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:32:22 AM)
Yep, had some italian wannabe who couldn't read, mailing My girl earlier looking to see if she wanted an online relationship.... like what part of Owned by RavenMuse did you miss dufus? Try actualy READING the damn profile before sending your spam! Block/delete/ignore!

SteelofUtah -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:37:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1 quote: ORIGINAL: sub4hire Yep, they do. Question, how can a man be married and be a dom? Isn't trust involved in the lifestyle? Easy-- maybe they are married to their sub/slave. I was two seconds away from Fast Replying the EXACT same thing . My wife is my slave and we are looking for a second girl in the house so I am Married and Looking and my wife knows all about it. To the OP, I perved your profile. I understood it just fine but you are a little Vague in how you say it. Pretend you are talking to five year olds and literally SPELL IT OUT. Tell them you believe in Momogamy and cannot accpet a Man who is married and in any form of relationship other than the one he would be having with you. Now even this won't stop you from getting E-mail. You have to learn to roll with the punches MANY MANY people in this lifestyle literally just don't give a shit. That being said happy hunting Steel

Madame4a -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:37:40 AM)
I just had one today... married... and hiding ...

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:42:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse Yep, had some italian wannabe who couldn't read, mailing My girl earlier looking to see if she wanted an online relationship.... like what part of Owned by RavenMuse did you miss dufus? Try actualy READING the damn profile before sending your spam! Block/delete/ignore! probably the same guy who's been chasing me for a couple of weeks

LaTigresse -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:46:05 AM)
If I have time, I advise them to go back and read.......ahhhhh LESBIAN If I don't, I hit delete and forget about them just as quickly as the message disappears......

Emperor1956 -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 10:52:08 AM)
quote: subforhire: Question, how can a man be married and be a dom? Isn't trust involved in the lifestyle? Unless of course miracles have come to fruition and they have communicated to their wives about their interests. Well "miracles" have occurred. My wife knows my interests, and I know of hers. We are entering our 30th year of living and loving as the "one" for the other, so maybe, just maybe, we have gotten that "trust" thing (you know, what you and so many others throw around carelessly?) down right. I love it when wanna-be, clueless people challenge our life together as something that cannot happen. Guess what? It DOES happen, but maybe not to you. Sorry. Look to your own failings before you snark at others. As echoed on another thread "life isn't always fair." E.

ThunderRoad -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 11:05:05 AM)
Words are confusing to the wannabes. We still get submissive men contacting us constantly (always with a 5 page cut-and-paste introduction), dispite specific words to the contrary.

hardbodysub -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 11:43:00 AM)
I do read profiles, and it's surprising how many have contradictory information in them. For example, many female dominants include submissive men in their "Looking For" list, then somewhere buried in the narrative say they aren't looking for submissive men. I've also seen quite a few profiles where the narrative contradicts itself. One paragraph says they're looking for a submissive man, and another entry says "not looking at this time". Kind of hard to tell which one preempts the other. I don't send many private messages, and damn few (if any) to people with such confusing profiles, but some of the profiles are very appealing despite the confusing signals, so I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of guys send messages to them.

Dnomyar -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 11:55:29 AM)
Steel remember where your at. You can't talk to five year olds in here. Op try not talking to them at all.

HerLord -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:01:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hardbodysub I do read profiles, and it's surprising how many have contradictory information in them. For example, many female dominants include submissive men in their "Looking For" list, then somewhere buried in the narrative say they aren't looking for submissive men. I've also seen quite a few profiles where the narrative contradicts itself. One paragraph says they're looking for a submissive man, and another entry says "not looking at this time". Kind of hard to tell which one preempts the other. I don't send many private messages, and damn few (if any) to people with such confusing profiles, but some of the profiles are very appealing despite the confusing signals, so I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of guys send messages to them. One of the biggest issues I've seen here that can actually have anything done about it. Having your profile non-contradictory quote: allows you to filter out the intelligent people who can see what you offer isn't what they want. Nothing will filter out the idiots, that is why they are called idiots. However, idiots are easier to spot when the more reasonable people are also filtered out. Thanks for the quote Simply Michael.

TwistedLeather -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:01:55 PM)
It's just like in the chat rooms... they don't bother reading profiles. They generally have some pre-written line or message that they just copy and paste into every box they can. They just keep hitting everywhere until somehow, but an unforseen strike of luck, they get a bullseye. It sucks for the rest of us, but it's true. And then of course there are those arrogant disrespectful people that think they're so much better that if they can get you to talk to them, you'll be theirs. rolls eyes Don't you just love the delete and block buttons?

domiguy -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:03:52 PM)
Why do so many women not list their weight on their profiles?

HerLord -> RE: Did you actually read my profile.......... (4/2/2008 12:04:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Steel remember where your at. You can't talk to five year olds in here. Op try not talking to them at all. But it aint against TOS to pretend... Or would it have been better stated if he had said retarded? It sure seems that too many are.

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