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what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 11:46:55 AM   
dea2008


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Status: offline 		I would like to ask the Mistresses gently
I have got the answer from one Mistress and she is willing for the session , but for the 4 hours time.
Is the 4 hours session determined by the Mistress humiliation plan ?
Does she knows during this time , what  is the best punishment for me , or I can say to her by my self, in what way is the best to punish me ?
Probably during this six hours session , I shall have like a half of this time to be  in the waiting position , untill she renew the session , right ?

What doe the session usually includes  during  the  time  of    4-6  hours ?
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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 12:30:14 PM   
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What doe the session usually includes  during  the  time  of    4-6  hours ?


I (and probably no other Mistress, either) can possibly tell you what another Mistress has in mind for you.
And, if any other Mistress were to try and tell one of my subjects what MY 4-6 hr session would be like I would be highly irritated.

She should have interviewed you thoroughly regarding your experince, interests,  limits, and health issues.  With that informatiaon, will probably try to guide the session around those things.  However, many new buttons or areas of interest may be discovered during that time, as well, and she may go to another totally different direction. 

I would suggest you ask HER what she has in mind.  However, I doubt you will get much detail.
It seems to me you are just getting excited and nervous and are looking for us to give you ideas of things to play out in your mind in anticipation of said session.  Chill out and just be patient.  You'll be finding out soon enough.

That's the best answer I can give you. 


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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 12:34:40 PM   
MamaDomme1


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Status: offline 		It will include whatever the two of you decide on.

And I agree with everything that Mistress Venus just said.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 1:47:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		i`m showing my lack of knowledge here, but do sessions last six hours ?  Hmm i guess they could if its bondage.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 2:00:45 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		Hahaha... I would probably make sure to show up well hydrated before a 4 hour session. Lack of doing so makes me feel sick to my stomach, not the feeling you want with a gag in your mouth

-Lynx, who has been through eight hour sessions.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 2:05:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

i`m showing my lack of knowledge here, but do sessions last six hours ?  Hmm i guess they could if its bondage.


a slave friend of mine had a six+ hour session, of cleaning, cooking, serving, and then punishment and play.  so i guess it can.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 5:52:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose much might depend upon whether or not this is a paid 4 to 6 hour session that we're discussing here. 

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 6:56:02 PM   
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Is this a pay or tribute session or an intimate, emotional one? Or some combination?  Is she your girlfriend or lover or is this a transaction?  That will help determine what is appropriate.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/2/2008 9:22:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		It sounds like pay for play or a fishing expedition.  One or the other.  Otherwise, it might be a good idea to listen to Venus in her above response.  Couldn't have said it better Myself.


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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 7:05:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

i`m showing my lack of knowledge here, but do sessions last six hours ?  Hmm i guess they could if its bondage.


Politesub, I am fairly certain that you could entertain me for a 6 hour period of time..... even if it were just serving me tea and massaging me....... and conversing.......... and.......  ;)

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 9:27:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1

quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

i`m showing my lack of knowledge here, but do sessions last six hours ?  Hmm i guess they could if its bondage.


Politesub, I am fairly certain that you could entertain me for a 6 hour period of time..... even if it were just serving me tea and massaging me....... and conversing.......... and.......  ;)


True Ma`am but thats all vanilla stuff, i was wondering more about how long some people make a play session last. Making me stand in the corner for six hours doesn`t count, well not unless im holding a penny against the wall with my nose. :)

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 10:21:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: dea2008
I have got the answer from one Mistress and she is willing for the session , but for the 4 hours time.


Hmm I thought you were opting for a 15 min session last week. And now you've changed your mind to 4-6 hours ?

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 2:54:58 PM   
dea2008


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much for the answers !!!
Yes , I would rather have 15 minutes session for the first time , because I think 4 hours ... who knows , may be I shall die from too much passion and feelings .

I remember when once I tried to get closer  with one nice girl  , she ignored me during the walk and ignored my attempt to talk to her and eventualy she came closer  spitted on me and slapped my face , ... it was so unecspected , so shocked , so full of pleasure and high feelings , that emotion simply overcame me.

I can imagine four hours during the first session it must be too much for the beginner, right ?

No , its not a girl friend .  Its a Mistress on line , who explained the price , time , place ( which she called dungeon .  I am actually scared of dungeons . Is not hotel a better place than unknown dungeon ? )
She said , she can also own me.
But I can not be sold out or bought up without my permission , right ?
I know I am a fool , and I would be ready to be used and abused , but not forever , and just for a session.
Do you know what I mean ?
I would like to get back to my other duties , life and responsibilities.
Of course I hope that the characters power will not let me to sell myself totaly , even if I shall enter to the realm of unknown unexperienced feelings.



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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 3:04:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		If she is an English speaker natively, I'd guess that a large portion of the problem here is language-based.  It is difficult to completely follow what you are saying, though I can get the main idea, so I'm betting the two of you are having some issues there blocking understanding. 

If, however, both of you have the same native tongue then it comes down to you needing to communicate more with her, period.

In any case, these are still things you need to go over and over with HER until you are sure you understand what she means and plans and she understands your interests, limits, and experience level.

Also, before the actual session many, if not most, dominas will have a meeting with you to be sure of safety and comfort between the two of you and to double-check that you are both expecting the same thing from the session.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 3:23:06 PM   
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The most important question is: Do you understand that there is a difference between a professional domination session and a personal one?  Do you realize that you are a customer?

That said, it is up to you to negotiate what value you are getting for your dollars.  If this makes you feel like you are in too much control of the situation, then you need to seek a personal relationship, not a professional one.  If you feel like you want to give your money AND your power away and have her control it all, know that you are putting yourself in financial and personal danger.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 3:43:18 PM   
dea2008


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Status: offline 		Thank you very much for the answers.
The proffessional relationship is the only way to face the possible sessions , not a personal ones.
I must get back to my work , to my life , to my self ;  because I am loaded with too much responsibilities and duties.

I am facing the session in few weeks.
But probably , I shall ask the Mistress to change the dungeon for the hotel or some legal apartment which I am going to rent through the legal agency , and also probably  I shall ask the 30  minutes session for the first time , and the next day I am sure I shall ask her again but already perhaps  one or four hours session .   .

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 4:28:15 PM   
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I shall ask the 30  minutes session for the first time


You will barely stop shaking in 30 mins.  It will take you that long to build some trust.  You should at least do an hour or 1 1/2 hrs and give yourself a chance to relax.  And, give her a chance to build some trust with you.
Is she reputable?  Does she have a website with some history?  OR, did you get her off an escort list?  Many things to consider.
And, you shouldn't be scared of a "dungeon."  All it is, is a room with lots of toys.  *geesh*
Sometimes people build things up in their mind so much they overwhelm themselves.  When, in reality, it's just two people, with an agreed negotiation, having some fun.
I'm not saying don't be cautious.  I'm just saying don't make mountains out of molehills.  Find the balance, if you can.
Put a safe call in place if it makes you feel better.
If she is reputable, she can't afford to screw you up, and has no need to.  If she is new, or has no known history as a pro, then be very cautious.


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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 4:37:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Def go for the one.. maybe one and a half hours. Thirty min seems to be too short.

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 5:08:06 PM   
dea2008


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Status: offline 		She is professional Mistress !
( Has got a good school - Netherlands ! )
Yes. 30 minutes its too little. Must be definitely at least one hour

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RE: what can 4 hours session include ? - 4/3/2008 5:52:20 PM   
Alida


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Status: offline 		If you are scared, arrange with a friend for a call immediatly after the session.

I've heard some Dom/nes turn away people who don't do this...

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