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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 5:35:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Othello27

I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?


just perved your profile - are you pretending?

this curious mind wants to know




MsStarlett -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 5:37:07 AM)

Kinky Sex & Blow Jobs?  Damn!  Is that what I'm doing wrong?  I wondered everytime I dropped the "I don't have sex with subs" bomb... they all run away.




DS4DUMMIES -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 6:07:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Othello27

I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?



OK....just what "is" ... "the" D/s dynamic? If you're going to put this sort of critique out there....you need to be able to articulate exactly where what you describe falls short...of? .....

Personally....I can' find anything wrong with having a living sex toy...or physical gratification for me....or boosting of my ego.

Your post sounds curiously like an "ad" for yourself....throwing out to the women of this place, a description of a man who is "phony"...playing on people's fears and then by implication (your pointing out these horrid pseudo-Doms)...putting yourself out there as a guy who "understands" what "women" are up against...thereby making yourself a viable "alternative".

Yes, there are abusive guys out there masquerading as "doms".....as there are "subs" who are anything but, "women" profiles who are really gay men trolling for other men, people misrepresenting height, weight, appearance, experience, etc...both male AND female...yes there are men who prey on women with weak self-esteem levels.....as there are in bars all over the country on weekend nights, or posting profiles on match.com, etc.

If you think yourself to be above the lot...why couch that in a post about everyone else....step up and say what YOU stand for....how YOU view the "D/s dynamic"...what YOU can offer someone. Your post is a lot like someone driving along and seeing a sign across the road that clearly says "ROAD FLOODED - ROAD CLOSED" ....you get out of your car, take up a flashlight and adorned in a rain slicker, you stop every car and (backlit by the flashing yellow lights on the huge sign) you  tell them to go back, the road is closed. What a caring, concerned guy....they think.....out there saving lives, taking care of everyone.....

Geez I'm in a horrid mood today :)




OmegaG -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 6:26:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: Cougarandkitten

and i thought nothing could make me smile this morning...... i know its a shame that sometimes i give kitten massages, two hour flogging/spanking/whipping sessions (2 hrs i know...im still a rookie), multiple orgasms, and treat her with love, devotion and honor.  and then occasionally ill just grab her by her hair and throw her on the bed and fuck the shit out of her.....you know what?   she loves it both ways......

ok im babbling not even sure if i made my point , did i have a point?

i dont even know......lol



um...whats your point? [sm=duck.gif]






there may not have been a point, but it served a purpose.  Damn, it's warm in here.




favesclava -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 6:40:10 AM)

 i love being a toy.[:D]




RazorJAK -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 6:52:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: Othello27

I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?


just perved your profile - are you pretending?

this curious mind wants to know


What has me curious is why anyone claiming to be a dom would use the name Othello.  Using the name of a character who spends the entire play being manipulated doesn't sound very "dominant" to me.  :-)





sunshinemiss -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 7:39:01 AM)

The only thing in his profile is that he is an expert at ass play.

'nuff said.




Leatherist -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 7:40:56 AM)

I think we need to come up with a nickname for these "superior" guys who troll like this.

Any ideas?




domahpet -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 7:49:58 AM)

haha, whole new thread there Leatherist....
maybe a poll?




domahpet -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 7:51:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RazorJAK
What has me curious is why anyone claiming to be a dom would use the name Othello.  Using the name of a character who spends the entire play being manipulated doesn't sound very "dominant" to me.  :-)



i love it- ha Ha HA!




Leatherist -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:11:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domahpet

quote:

ORIGINAL: RazorJAK
What has me curious is why anyone claiming to be a dom would use the name Othello.  Using the name of a character who spends the entire play being manipulated doesn't sound very "dominant" to me.  :-)



i love it- ha Ha HA!


Trolling for dome subs?

hard to say.




Mercnbeth -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:18:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Othello27

I know most of you female submissives know this but yeah I'll say it. A lot of guys come here because they want a living sex toy, a 24/7 live in escort for free with most of the emthisus surrounding their physical gratification and ego boosting. A lot don't understand the D/s dynamic and try to pretend they are DOM. How many here have been burned by this type of "DOM"?


"Burned"? beth married one!




akisha -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:26:51 AM)

but, but, but.....  I kinda like being used as a sex toy [:(]   If it's wrong does that mean i gotta stop? God I hope not, that would totally SUCK!!!!!!!!!




Dnomyar -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:38:38 AM)

akisha quit it or Im going to troll you. Wait sorry op did'nt mean to horn in on you.




akisha -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:39:41 AM)

whoo hoo, my very own troll brigade!!! I'm soo blessed hehe




cjan -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:43:11 AM)

Op, methinks it's SteppedOnMyDickNeedaNewNick time, dude. Fortunetely for you, you don't have many posts to ,ummm, surrender. Better luck in your next reincarnation.




DesFIP -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:46:27 AM)

I keep telling The Man I would much prefer being a living sex toy, but he insists on me cooking dinner and doing laundry.
Whatever am I doing wrong?

I like the emphasis (note spelling) to be on his pleasure and I absolutely love gratifying his ego and making him feel like a million dollars. So what's wrong with this since we're both happy?

I love people who pick for their first posts something pontificating. Sheesh, is it a full moon or something?




lally3 -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 8:52:38 AM)

Dommes do it.   Subs do it.  Slaves do it. 
 
......even the birds and bees do it.....

sorry, couldnt resist.  




Justme696 -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 9:15:54 AM)



quote:

ORIGINAL: lally3

Dommes do it.   Subs do it.  Slaves do it. 
 
......even the birds and bees do it.....

sorry, couldnt resist.  


it think it is more...we think..about doing it  lol




domahpet -> RE: Would guess half of "Doms" here don't have a clue (4/3/2008 9:34:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cjan
Op, methinks it's SteppedOnMyDickNeedaNewNick time, dude. Fortunetely for you, you don't have many posts to ,ummm, surrender. Better luck in your next reincarnation.



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i can now go out with a smile, thanks cjan!

SOMDNNN, did you get the answer you were looking for?




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