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eroticangel -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 3:54:31 PM)
sheesh if i had a Master he could be Master-baiting

BeingChewsie -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 3:54:33 PM)
I'm going to go way out on a limb here and say: You could try dominating her.

colouredin -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 3:54:49 PM)
thinks this post will end up surfacing in random stupidity Sorry to OP, the reason that responses are like that is because TFTB is such a contended term, only the Dominant can answer himself how he would deal with it and what his definition of it is.

eroticangel -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 3:56:02 PM)
Being Chewsie....you just cracked me up....thanks!!!

subtee -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 3:58:12 PM)
Holy bad puns, Batman! It seems to me the relationship needs some "fine tuning." Because ya know, you can tune a submissive, but you can't tuna fish...

eroticangel -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 4:02:33 PM)
wooooo hooooo subtee....that was by far the best........

DesFIP -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 4:08:26 PM)
What do you mean by tftb? Because if I ask him for something, we don't consider that to be me wrestling control away from him. It's just info as to what I want. However if you negotiate a flogging and then decide not to do it, her insisting you keep your word isn't tftb, it's giving you one last chance to prove yourself trustworthy. In general I can ask for anything and he can always say "Nope". If you're unable to say no, that isn't her fault, it's yours.

Smoothicen -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 4:33:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BIllCT If your a Dom in a relationship with a woman who says she is a submissive and she begins to top from the bottom, how would you change it so she couldn't do so, or stop her? I would first explain to her what she's doing and punish to make my point. I would also instruct her to do some soul searching. Some believe themselves to be submissive yet try to maintain control of the scene and have a hard time letting go. Maybe they're simply having trouble letting go and maybe they're simply wired this way. If the problem continues, I would show her the door. I am always open and communicative but I have little patience for topping from the bottom.

kiwisub12 -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:23:35 PM)
perhapes you could try "grouper"ing her, and "hammer"heading her into shape. or you could try racking your "brain" coral for a solution. I do think you need to define tftb for us. It means something differently to everyone.

lronitulstahp -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:35:24 PM)
i'm sure he'll "tackle" the problem soon enough...

subtee -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:38:13 PM)
Perhaps, but what will the "net" result be?

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:38:35 PM)
DAMN! I was really hoping this thread was about "How do you....use the search function..[8\|]

lronitulstahp -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:40:30 PM)
that's a whole other "can of worms..."

kittinSol -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:42:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp can of worms [:'(] [sm=afraid.gif]

subtee -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:42:55 PM)
I think he should either fish or cut bait. Wait...I may have confused this with the "Phrase You Hate" thread...

lronitulstahp -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:47:12 PM)
LOL...i was thinking there were definately some similarities LOL...this is a fine kettle of fish, i tell ya!

subtee -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:48:35 PM)
Oh well, carp diem!

Poetryinpain -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:55:51 PM)
She's not topping from the bottom, she's SAMmin' pip, having to stretch 'cos you guys took all the good ones

lronitulstahp -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:55:56 PM)
[sm=cheerleader.gif]you Sooooooo frickin' rock...like the Wayne to my Garth...

TysGalilah -> RE: How do you? (4/3/2008 5:56:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Holy bad puns, Batman! It seems to me the relationship needs some "fine tuning." Because ya know, you can tune a submissive, but you can't tuna fish... gigglin

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