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ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 7:15:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Y/you all know that there is a whole different world out there who actually don’t think like you guys do, and they want to spice up their relationships and yes there are parents who talk things over with their grown ass daughters as well, perhaps I don’t know much about BDSM but I know a lot about people and will always accept them in all shapes that they come in whether we meet on the mental level or the physical. Of course there is. And there are a number of people who spin a lot of bull. Now, if what you said happened is fact, then you have my apology, but really, it sounds like something in the letters section of Penthouse. I truly appreciate that Level, and now I understand where all those negative comments are coming from, all I ever wanted is to maximize my ability to absorb/learn some of BDSM experiences, especially from those who know how to handle a new object because I feel like I am chosen for situation where I have to be very careful.!!

LadyPact -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 7:27:59 PM)
[sm=liar.gif] I told you. Really, REALLY hard.

CalifChick -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 7:44:50 PM)
Kitten... being that I drew visual aids when my daughter and I had our first big sex talk, I understand what you're saying. But even when she becomes an adult, I will never discuss specifics of my sex life with her father, with her. That's the issue I'm having with the OP. It's not that the daughter knows about her parents sex life, but that she knows a little too much for my taste. My two pence. Cali

KatyLied -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 7:48:25 PM)
quote: there are parents who talk things over with their grown ass daughters as well, I am so glad I have sons...

kallisto -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 7:53:16 PM)
I'm all for people having their own way of doing things. But I have never nor will I ever think discussing intimate details of the parents' sex life with their children (grown or not) is ok. So to me, the whole scenario is really weird. I wouldn't go there for all the tea in China.

Kelika -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 8:50:35 PM)
Just because some people -can- speak to their daughters about bdsm doesn't mean that they -should-. Speaking to someone, their child, about the surface of one things is entirely another thing as well then telling your daughter that the new neighbor is into kinky shit and he could teach your mom a thing or two... come on, even you can see that, or would you say the same thing to your daughter or would have been happy if your father said the same thing about your mom? Seriously, you have to put it into perspective when you ask things because this is serious for us, and it sounds very...icky and almost pediphilish to me... I wish you luck Kelika

Floggings4You -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 8:52:30 PM)
How did the rest of Your conversation with this young lady play out? I mean, one of the first questions I would have had, after hearing her say that her father thought I could teach her mother something, would have been, "Just what does your father want Me to teach your mom?" (And, of course, I'm a bit creeped out by the fact that this guy--if the girl is to be believed--would let his daughter know about his interest in having You instruct his wife in any way.) This girl and her classmates? Are you a teacher? Are these college classmates, or high school--or younger? Be careful, Sir...

StormsSlave -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 9:27:27 PM)
I have an adult daughter. She knows of my sexual preferences, and I know some of hers, but she doesn't know about my sex. That would just be creepy. The idea of her ever approaching a man to have sex with me...man, that gives me the heeby-jeebies. Whatever is going on in this family, I promise, you want nothing to do with it. Run away. Run far away.

atursvcMaam -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 9:50:02 PM)
as a random thought from a trained paranoid...What a terrific way to out the new neighbor.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 9:54:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Y/you all know that there is a whole different world out there who actually don’t think like you guys do, and they want to spice up their relationships and yes there are parents who talk things over with their grown ass daughters as well, perhaps I don’t know much about BDSM but I know a lot about people and will always accept them in all shapes that they come in whether we meet on the mental level or the physical. Of course there is. And there are a number of people who spin a lot of bull. Now, if what you said happened is fact, then you have my apology, but really, it sounds like something in the letters section of Penthouse. or in my cmail box.....[sm=writing.gif]

AAkasha -> RE: Y/your input. (4/5/2008 10:37:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Greetings E/everyone, Story in brief: Saturday April 5, 2008, I was stopped today by a young female who asked” Sir, you look so familiar! So, I smiled at her and said well, I never met you before but if this is one of your games to know me, then we can have some coffee. She said her dad her wanted to know if you Sir would teach my mom something. So I asked’ where this coming from?’ she said you are Sir on collarme.com and some of my classmates recognized you when you came back from your run the other day. Note: I just moved into this place, so I am the newest person living the neighborhood, yet the most famous/popular now LOL. Now …How/What would I teach another man’s wife ?? While I am new to the lifestyle myself. I will really need all your advice on this matter. Thanks very much.! Pharoh If I take this post literally and imagine it happening, I see it as a possible misinterpretation on your part. You indicated she was much younger and she even referred to her and her "classmates" (I am guessing young, college aged girls?) She said she recognized you, you responded as if her comment was flirting and wanting to "get together" and essentially asked her out. Her response that you could show her dad how to do some things to her mom was an immature, schoolgirl way of saying, "as IF! You are OLD, like MY PARENTS-OLD! LOLz on YOU!" Seems very catty and snarky to me. I don't think she was seriously propositioning you on behalf of her parents, I think she was making fun of you for suggesting that she might be interested in you. That's the only logical interpration I get from this, to be honest. Akasha

colouredin -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 2:52:42 AM)
rolls eyes at the general lashing out and claiming fakeness simply because not everyone agree's with you Basically its odd, you said if the Dad had approached you then you would have lauged, so by your own implication you were interested because you found the daughter hot, also implying that you assumed the dad would realise this and basically send his daughter out to get her mum some? really. I mean I have a fairly open realtionship with my parents, we tell each other who we fancy etc, but I think most would draw the line at asking me to go out and get them someone to play with. You say you want to maximise your ability to learn, I actually am now thinking of Lumus's tag, "talk to educate listen to learn" You CANT teach someone when you dont know things. My guess is that if the father genuienly did ask the daughter hes a bit desperate himself its more a case of conveniance because you live close, I am not being rude here but I have read a fair few of your posts and you have given the impression of not knowing where you are yet. If he had read them why would he want someone equally clueless to 'teach' anyone. You say "how to handle a new object" and that you have to be careful, well this kind of arrangement wouldnt really be your owning anything at all not from how I have read it. Maybe they are just after a bit of kinky sex in which case sure why not go for it, but treat it as that. To be honest its all irrelevent if you arent interested in married people and I think the posting of it was more to 'brag' about how wonderfully popular you are and how people must really respect you for doing that, I dont think you were expecting people to say what they really think. Another indication that possibly you are still finding your way.

Justme696 -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 3:02:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Thank you A/all for your replies whether they were doubts upon doubts in what I am telling you or a constructive Real comment where I can actually rely on. I said a young female in the main post and I didn’t say a child, also she is a grown ass woman or else why would I ask her for coffee? Geeeeeeeeeez, it is a true story and I would highly appreciate some truth where I can learn something from! Or perhaps you find it so hard to believe ‘because I deal with real ppl. Again Thank Y/you. tell the daughter you want to see Mom and Dad in a park or restaurant...so they can explain. Then you can decide. ANd learn to know them before you allow a male stranger to stand behind you while you do something to his wife. Knifes are pretty sharp in the back

eyesopened -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 3:22:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness quote: ORIGINAL: Level *chokes upon reading the name "Brad Nailer"* Amy will be choking on Brad Nailer by page 54 as well okay dammit...skip to page 54 already! i have to go to work tomorrow and don't want to miss anything.

eyesopened -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 3:38:12 AM)
Okay, seriously...forgetting Brad Nailer for a moment. Do i understand you correctly? You got an odd offer to engage in what you believe may be a BDSM scene with people you have never met, but since you think the daughter is hot, and this sounds so cool, you want to address another group of strangers to give you a crash-course in putting together a scene? You have made every kind of rationalization as to why this very strange offer is legitimate, you have rationalized away any signs of danger, have rationalized the creepiness of a grown daughter having intimate knowledge of her parents sexuality, you may have already rationalized all the reasons why all the opinions posted to you are bullshit. With which head are you thinking, sir? And exactly who is the Master, you or your penis?

Level -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 4:11:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eyesopened quote: ORIGINAL: softness quote: ORIGINAL: Level *chokes upon reading the name "Brad Nailer"* Amy will be choking on Brad Nailer by page 54 as well okay dammit...skip to page 54 already! i have to go to work tomorrow and don't want to miss anything. I'm surprised his name wasn't "Lance". [:D]

StormsSlave -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 4:29:42 AM)
KofK--I'm not trying to pick on you. I'm trying to help you see this from the perspective of someone who could actually be in this situation. I'm trying to be helpful and give you some good advice. Something here smells bad. That's all. Whether it be the daughter the parents or a combination of the above, I'm guessing you don't want anything to do with any of it. You will, of course, do what you want.

ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 5:49:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Thank you A/all for your replies whether they were doubts upon doubts in what I am telling you or a constructive Real comment where I can actually rely on. I said a young female in the main post and I didn’t say a child, also she is a grown ass woman or else why would I ask her for coffee? Geeeeeeeeeez, it is a true story and I would highly appreciate some truth where I can learn something from! Or perhaps you find it so hard to believe ‘because I deal with real ppl. Again Thank Y/you. tell the daughter you want to see Mom and Dad in a park or restaurant...so they can explain. Then you can decide. ANd learn to know them before you allow a male stranger to stand behind you while you do something to his wife. Knifes are pretty sharp in the back Thank you very much.!! I heartily appreciate it.

ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 5:58:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StormsSlave KofK--I'm not trying to pick on you. I'm trying to help you see this from the perspective of someone who could actually be in this situation. I'm trying to be helpful and give you some good advice. Something here smells bad. That's all. Whether it be the daughter the parents or a combination of the above, I'm guessing you don't want anything to do with any of it. You will, of course, do what you want. Thank you for your sincere advice, I live by a set of rules that includes” never kiss on a first date” I know it is odd but I like to build up rapport with those I am interested in. so no need to worry. And yes the girl is HOTT.

ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Y/your input. (4/6/2008 6:08:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: eyesopened Okay, seriously...forgetting Brad Nailer for a moment. Do i understand you correctly? You got an odd offer to engage in what you believe may be a BDSM scene with people you have never met, but since you think the daughter is hot, and this sounds so cool, you want to address another group of strangers to give you a crash-course in putting together a scene? You have made every kind of rationalization as to why this very strange offer is legitimate, you have rationalized away any signs of danger, have rationalized the creepiness of a grown daughter having intimate knowledge of her parents sexuality, you may have already rationalized all the reasons why all the opinions posted to you are bullshit. With which head are you thinking, sir? And exactly who is the Master, you or your penis? Thanks! No, I don’t think of other opinion as BS even when they are against mine. No, I don’t think with the penis head. Yes, I expected some knowledgeable people on here would help put up a scene. Yes, I expected people to accept others even if they are different.

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