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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

I hear that on People's Court all the time.
Always remember that if you hit something (even lightly) with your car, you are going to feel it. (especially if it's something big and heavy like, oh...say....another car or a garage.)
Btw...whose car is it? Inquiring minds...
Also, people who say that someone who fights is not a submissive has obviously never had to fight their own submission. Or...it could be that she *is* submissive, but not to him....

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

My thoughts exactly.   I do have a fairly high deductible so will not pursue insurance adjusting..... it is a pie plate sized ding with a scratch.  Perhaps my leaving it there will be a regular reminder of her transgression, my grace....... and OK.... so I get some mileage (no pun intended) out of it.

As for me talking to her,  well after the fact it really was mostly me talking ..... she was choking a gagging down some salty oysters trying to make ammends best she could.  I think what she was muttering was something akin to "Oh honey I am so sorry, what could I do to ever earn your forgiveness.  Don't be made at me anymore......"

"Just a moment longer dear, and your forgiveness will be complete".... was my twitching reply.

~Fast Reply~

Just a thought...

It's true that if she was in the car at the time she would probably feel the impact but it's also possible that someone backed into her while she was not in the car and her honestly not notice. I drive a car with a hatch and could easily overlook damage to it for at least a day. I usually walk towards it with the front facing me and don't put much in the back. However, an auto body shop could probably tell you how they think the damage was caused.

Glad to hear you talked to her.

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ORIGINAL: mrmorpheuslunar

Interesting replies.  Some were right on target, had good insight, and wise counsel.  Some however were trying to sell their own domination and or persona's with the posting, and hey - that's OK cause it's a sounding board of who we are.

All in all, Your right.... there was an absence of some essential information - but I thought it extraneous to the issue and unnecessary to render judgement.

So at the end of the day..... yes I presented the damage to her, and asked her response to it.  I was not using the issue as an opportunity to lord it over here and wanky wanky as some suggested.  Although I was engaging my imagination regarding the dispositon of justice.  Her response to me was that she was unaware of it until earlier in the day when one of her friends pointed it out to her.  She did not know if she caused the damage upon backing out of the garage, or if someone damaged the hatch by backing into her.

I extended grace to her upon her explanation.

And I do thank all for their deliberations and input.