Evanesce
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I have went to all those sites and read what they have to offer.
Your point is??? That you read all those sites doesn't mean they're worth reading. Crap is crap, regardless of the package it comes in.
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There is nothing wrong with looking online for imformation....thats where all the info is,
Oh, Lord, I certainly hope not! If this is true, then there are an awful lot of us who've been doing this thing all wrong for decades! We got our knowledge from living the lifestyle and talking to people and networking and attending seminars (once they became popular enough that they were actually promoted and we knew where to find them) and doing what we do in the real world with real people.
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I look online, and i am fully in the real world. I have been a sub for over a year and serve a Master. I can read those sites with an educated head and there is nothing wrong with them.
There's not much right with them, either. They cause an awful lot of confusion for an awful lot of newbie subs who read this crap and go out searching for a Master with unrealistic expectations of what it means to be a slave in the real world. Most of them can't handle the realization that their Master is just a guy... like a lot of other guys... with flaws and habits and idiosyncracies, and that being a slave is actually WORK.
I would also advise you to try not to be too proud of that year of "experience" you've got there. When you've been around a few more years, you'll realize you don't know nearly as much as you thought you did. I've been doing the play thing for 28 years, been a 24/7 slave for eight years, and I'm STILL learning new things. But one thing I learned a long time ago... people are people, and they are no better or worse in this lifestyle than they are in any other.
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Telling her to go out and find someone to teach her can lead to someone taking advantage of her or shaping her the way they want her to be.
Since you clearly did not comprehend what I actually said, let me repeat it. I said, "Sexyuksub, my advice to you is to find your local/regional lifestyle group, find someone within that group that the others seem to respect, and befriend them. Then ask that friend to help you wade through the jungle creatures who are sure to be flocking around you by now, and pay attention to your own instincts." Where does it say I told her to go find someone to teach her?
I also said, "And avoid anyone who, within a minute of meeting, offers to be your "mentor" or "trainer." More often than not, they're just looking to get laid. Find someone of your same gender and lifestyle orientation to show you the ropes." This is sound, logical, solid advice for any rational adult entering this lifestyle.
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Once she has a lil bit of information and knows a lil about the lifestyle then go out into the scene. You dont send someone out to fight a war without boot camp to train them first....so dont send a sub out until she has a lil knowledge.
If I were her, I'd be offended. Clearly, you seem to think newbie equals moron. I prefer to give people credit for having a little common sense and being capable of making adult choices all on their own.
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