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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 8:48:29 AM   
sub4hire


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Badly worded phrase on my part. I'm afraid my fingers got ahead of me.

it should have said 'boards such as this OR a munch'.

My apologies for any confusion/mis-understanding.


No problem, I just didn't want you turning your back on all of us. Many of us are out there in the real world. Just waiting for new people to show up to get to know.
To learn from and to help. I've been studying this lifestyle a very long time. Been active..nearly 20 years now...only 17 of those with a dom. I'm still learning on a daily basis.

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 9:57:50 AM   
ownedjulia


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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

quote:

Badly worded phrase on my part. I'm afraid my fingers got ahead of me.

it should have said 'boards such as this OR a munch'.

My apologies for any confusion/mis-understanding.


No problem, I just didn't want you turning your back on all of us. Many of us are out there in the real world. Just waiting for new people to show up to get to know.
To learn from and to help. I've been studying this lifestyle a very long time. Been active..nearly 20 years now...only 17 of those with a dom. I'm still learning on a daily basis.



I spoke to a Dom a little while back who said he had been in the lifestyle 35 years but 'every day showed something new and adds to the wonderful world that is BDSM'. This had quite an impact on me and made me realise that we are all learning all the time.

I know that a lot of people here are active in the lifestyle - i am myself and i certainly am not turning my back on anyone.
My post unfortunatley contained a gramatical error that changed the whol meaning.



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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 10:40:25 AM   
fyreredsub


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ORIGINAL: ownedjulia


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ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

Today I was looking at past rules and punishments of mine and decided to write this message. Name all the punishments you ever given to a male submissive or if you are a male submissive name all the punishments you were given. I want to see how creative everyone is in giving punishments. Also it would be nice to see what other male submissives go through. I will post this in Ask a Mistress section also to get both sides of a punishment. I hope everyone enjoys this board and thanks for posting.


I'm female slave so this may not have much relevance to you but I've had several punishments from my Master.

The worst one though was when he told me I had upset him so much he wasn't even going to bother to punish me and didn't speak to me for nearly a week.

If he had actually punished me it would have been easier for me to deal with, his silenece was far more effective.




i find the mental punishment much more effective for me to get the hint i have done something wrong


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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 11:02:47 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny

Creative punishments????
A punishment is meant , so that the sub, slave will not do said act again.
Discipline is to teach a sub/slave what might be expected , meant as a structure to follow and live by.


I agree. I know absolutely what my punishment is if I disobey. It's the same every single time. The consistency of what that punishment is, leaves no questions about what the consequences will be and acts as a deterrent.


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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 11:12:07 AM   
onlinesub1


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Status: offline 		There are too many ideas here that just pass over my head. Munch would be one of those things I don’t know about.

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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Bare basics of what? Just remember that online may be exciting but it really doesn't give you any clue of what the physical aspects of a BDSM relationship is like. Even the emotional aspects are a pale shadow of what they are like when you can see and touch your partner and be seen and touched by him or her.



Physical aspects aren't the only things involved with BDSM. I know you know that though. A sub can still be a sub without any physical aspects, BDSM does deal with some mental aspects and online time helps with it to an extent. I had some Dommes that made me more sub like just by talking to me for a while. Even at a small level, listening to them, following rules and orders and all that good stuff benefits me more than trying nothing at all until years from now when I decide to go real life serving. I am only 19, I am not ready to serve anyone real time. Hell, I can't even keep my own life steady. Another person in my life would create more chaos for me. At least for online training, I can control the time I spend with the person and my limits and personal space are forcefully respected, even though I usually don’t have trouble with that anyways. I am not trying to insult you, just trying to make sense of all this.

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 11:40:15 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

Physical aspects aren't the only things involved with BDSM.
Quite right. There is a psychological apsect. But, if you cannot see or touch your partner, I believe that the impact of that energy is missing. Therefore, the psychological aspect is your own fantasy.

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A sub can still be a sub without any physical aspects
What you're talking about D/s - Dominance and submission, not BDSM. D/s can be strictly service orientated without physical aspects or it can be a combination of D/s and BDSM.

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism which are almost always physical acts. The exception being the mind fuck or verbal humiliation.

So taken in strict context you cannot experience BDSM in the cyber world. You may be able to experience some level of D/s.

As far as controlling your own experience better because it's cyber versus real life, I have to disagree. As a submissive you always have power until you give it away. It's all up to what you negotiate. Plus in real life you have the benefit of knowing that the person that you're talking to is really a woman rather than a sweaty 65 year old male trucker jacking off into his beer can while wearing his boxer shorts and food stained t-shirt.



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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/8/2005 1:30:10 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I am a female sub but the worst punishment i ever got was a spanking. Now this was totally different with play spanking which i love. The difference was marked so i never want to get one of those again.

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/9/2005 8:13:20 PM   
comesoncommand


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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

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I just want to see how far a Domme and/or Mistress would go to discipline their submissives and slaves


Death, of course that is a rare occurance but it has happened. I've seen it happen before.

Or the lesser of two evils, you are sold. To someone who doesn't care anything about you yet to abuse you.



death?????

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/9/2005 9:20:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		The truly worst punishment I ever received was the look in his eye, and then the very loud sound of silence -- for a week. It was one of the worst times of my life...and one I never want to go through again.


quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

Today I was looking at past rules and punishments of mine and decided to write this message. Name all the punishments you ever given to a male submissive or if you are a male submissive name all the punishments you were given. I want to see how creative everyone is in giving punishments. Also it would be nice to see what other male submissives go through. I will post this in Ask a Mistress section also to get both sides of a punishment. I hope everyone enjoys this board and thanks for posting.



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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/10/2005 9:14:17 AM   
wetrope


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Status: offline 		sub has said what she fears most is a week of no contact as the worst punishment. I can't bring myself to being sadistic with her, she is too precious. Or is that my dog I'm thinken bout. Funny how exciting some of the pics are in sadism, but too difficult when a real live person is involved. or is that the dog im thinken bout again.

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/10/2005 12:55:31 PM   
ed408


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If the sub is male, give them a viagra then tie them up so they can't touch themselves (or anything)
to be able to attain a climax. Perhaps sit them on a chair with a web-cam on broadcasting for the
duration. Alternatively after the 'stiffy-maker', tie them in a position and make pleasure the Dominant
orally or use them anally while listening to the pleading for the ability to cum. ;)
[levity mode off]

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/11/2005 5:51:27 PM   
ropesubby39


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ORIGINAL: krikket

The truly worst punishment I ever received was the look in his eye, and then the very loud sound of silence -- for a week. It was one of the worst times of my life...and one I never want to go through again.


quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

Today I was looking at past rules and punishments of mine and decided to write this message. Name all the punishments you ever given to a male submissive or if you are a male submissive name all the punishments you were given. I want to see how creative everyone is in giving punishments. Also it would be nice to see what other male submissives go through. I will post this in Ask a Mistress section also to get both sides of a punishment. I hope everyone enjoys this board and thanks for posting.



For me its to be ignored and to know how i upset Him ......those are very hard for me, i feel completely destroy, basket case.

ropesubby

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/11/2005 9:42:47 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Lets. see.......Punishments? the worse Punishment I ever got from MADAM, was to stand in a corner for 1/2 hour. Now this might not see like much to others, but for me, it was quite unbearable. I went to MADAM's for Sessions and do try and do things, and when she had me stand in the corner, that was time taken away that could be used for PLAYING. Another punishment, would be not allowing me to wer my Mary Janes, or Tights and other things I love, for a certain period of time.

Still scared, BalletBob

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RE: Types of Punishments - 10/13/2005 2:14:08 AM   
sf-Sub


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Status: offline 		I concur. That to know absolutely what apunishment is if I disobey. The consistency of what that punishment is, leaves no questions about what the consequences will be and acts as a deterrent. Consistency is key. It does not have to be the same punishment but if I know that line and know that a punishment is on the other side with consistency the boarder is clear.

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RE: Types of Punishments - 12/26/2005 12:14:27 AM   
slave4Herdemands


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Status: offline 		worst punishment i ever recieved was when i disobeyed Mistress and played with myself. She taught me to never do that again using hot glue on my testicles and nipples

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