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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 9:08:01 AM

Prinsexx

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I think there is some for everyone, Me, Myself and I is also looking for a real D/s LTR with the right person and I don’t even take the one night stand unless they are so very HOTT. I love the principles of the D/s and really hope to reach my goal and build a family with someone who is as serious as I am.

I disagree and disapprove of the insults directed to those subs who are seeking LTR, you are NOT a cow, even if you are, you are a beautiful cow by all means.

What's HOTT? Is it the opposite of WETT?

HOTT is WETT
* ( Smile)*

et voila! you got me......udder, nose bag and all.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 9:15:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuser

Again, I am not against a LTL, or am I against trust, safety, discretion, or meeting someone and staying with them. That's not my point. My point very simply, be careful who you are dealing with. If you are here looking for a boyfriend or husband. Why would it be necessary to depict yourself as some one who wants nothing more than a hook up or a playtime session with a random Dom.
Doms by the way are guilty of the same kinds of things. I never said they weren't. With my statement, I was addressing the Doms.
Again, all I am saying is. Beware of the posers. I am NOT a poser. I am a experienced Dom and have been for 15 years. Almost all, bot not all the people I meet to do these things with enjoy our time together. And yes, I am frustrated today. Yesterday, I replied to a very promising profile that turned out to be nothing more than spam. A scheme to get a working email so I can get bombarded with email for some laim pay porn. This is a wonderful website. It has many uses. There is no need to falsely advertise what it is that you are looking for.
Also I don't care when you are or when you are not horny. But there is no need to blast the men, when they are looking for something, and you just aren't in the mood anymore.
Personal assaults one me just because I spoke my mind is low wattage and petty also.

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No repetiton doesn't make it any better.
(look I can take it up the arse more than once ok, now carry please........)
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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 9:16:54 AM

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 9:55:44 AM

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OK here's the deal. You've taken the slack I assume and have been a big enough boy to read this far. Now here's the pathos (you know the serious but in the comedy act which really hits the hardest).....
You came across as arrogant, you know one of these 'I've been in the lidestyle for x years' types, full of hard edged, over simplified and stereotypical ideas about what a woman is let alone a submissive and/or slave.
I can only speak for myself here, BUT, first and foremost I don't like wham bams and thankyou ma'ams ecounters because in this day and age they are quite simply unsafe. I've been screwed up the arse from behind and given the point in the scene that we were at, I honestly didn't know if the guy I was loaned to had used, as agreed, a condom or not. So it was back to the STD clinic to get checked ok, and this has to be three months after the encounter. If anything had been contracted then, there's my life done, gone, changed perhaps for all the rest of my days.
I am a very responsible PERSON first and foremost: mother, educationist, etc. My kink simply isn't worth the risk. So of course I am in it for a LTR because of many other issues. It develops awareness. It develops trust. It enables there to be other connections than the kink.
But also, I believe I have honed, but not perfected my submission. I don't want to perfect my submission by the way; I want always for there to be something new to learn, some other levels of awareness not yet experienced.
I also, (I've said this so many times) I cannot PROVE my submissiveness by how many years experience I've had in the lifestyle. For me, I'm thinking, I was more submissive when I set out than I am now.
I recently released myself from a collar because the 'Master' thought he was doing me and all woman kind a favour by dick stickin. Here's the secret: seen one cock you've seen them all. It ain't what the cock is it's what's the cock's got.....on the other end of it that counts. ok??????
What you did when you opened this thread was you took an internet site experience and dumped it like holy shit upon the heads of readers here, new and experienced alike. It was on the whole simply a derisive attitude towards women. period. Full-stop.
OK: continue with your St Paul personna. If there was anything near sainthood about you then you would be a humble D type.....yes humble....look, listen and learn to take what is thrown back at you.
You get the submissive(s) you deserve.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 10:03:27 AM

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whoopie - beside not being a twue submissive, i'm a freakin' poser!!! thanks for pointing that out to me!!!

NOT

there's nothing wrong wanting ltr or seeking husband on this site. i have met many poser dominants using this site to find that special wife and/or lover (if they're married). and since you don't own this particular site, you have no control who joins it either - poser or not.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 10:19:07 AM

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CM doesn't screen users to make sure they are "twue". That means CM doesn't care which means no one is diluting the site. Get over it and go somewhere else if you want a gated community.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 10:25:10 AM

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See and im just here for the gossip and juice.

Look everyone wants something differant, any post that comes and picks an oriantation as being the guilty one will end up being a mass debate like this one. Just like i came on here and posted a thread basically saying "all men suck" its a silly thing to do. Just because what one person wants isnt what I want doesnt make their wants of any lower value. Collarme is a BDSM site, BDSM is a huge umbrealla term from people who rather like furry handcuffs to people who want to live in cages. Isnt that great? that so many people can come here and feel that their desires are ok? not weird? Its a free site, we dont have to go through a test to see how real we are. Not all submissives will want you, seriously we are still people we still have desires, I dont desire to spend time with someone I dont like or dont fancy why would I. As a submissive I enjoy making someone else happy, not just anyone though, why would I work to make someone who repulsed me happy? what satisfaction will I get out of that.

Its a sad thing sometimes you get people who seem to talk as though they have come right out of literotica and that is their idea of what BDSM is. Being a submissive doesnt mean that suddenly the person has no feelings or thoughts or desires, being a submissive doesnt make them less important as a human being it simply means for THEM to be happy they want to submit. So really they are in it for themselves not because they deem all 'Dominant' types to be better than us.

What I may consider tame another may consider extreme, my heaven is anothers hell, thats life, just because its D/s doesnt instantly mean that reality is thrown out of the window, people still need to be compatable. The fact that you havent found anyone yet is NOT that all submissives are fake, its just that you havent found the one that you want. Also its very easy to walk around blaming everyone else for your shit, maybe take a bit of responsibilty? In this post its no wonder to me that you havent found anyone because you seem to have a rather distorted reality. If you want someone to instantly submit to you without caring who you are? there are pro subs out there.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 10:29:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Chloelicious

Op

With a sentence like: Your just a normal breeding cow. I don't think many submissive will answer or talk to you.
A female submissive is first of all A woman.
Would you answer to a girl who called men as: just a normal dick.

Now regarding your feelings about this site as DV said if these posers are pissing you off , hide their profile and focus on "real submissive".

Well said!

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 10:45:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: xBullx

The real question is, should you?

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Ummm, can I now laugh?

Yes, I've heard holding it in can cause serious damage........or maybe that was a sneeze......

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 11:51:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: xBullx

The real question is, should you?

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Ummm, can I now laugh?

Yes, I've heard holding it in can cause serious damage........or maybe that was a sneeze......

holding back a yawn isn't too pleasant either....just sayin

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:18:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuser

I believe collarme was intended to bring together people who are interested in bdsm. Maybe as a lifestyle, or just for fun.
I think you're right - a wide variety of possible interests

Your just a normal breeding cow trying to get laid.
I think you're wrong - and this also comes across as aggressive crap wording

I might be missing a trick but it appears that op is making a simple - and perfectly valid - statement in his profile. Broadly saying "I want bdsm scening, without any emotional involvement, with someone who also wants that. And I'd like it conveniently and on my terms". Whether that's because he's a married man with an on-the-road job, or whether it's because he's dying of cancer and the hospice can only provide chemo in the evenings and at weekends, seems to me to be both unclear from the available information and also irrelevant to the point of the post.

I also think he's making a simple - and perfectly valid - statement in his post. "Some subs say in their profile that they are sluts (i.e. it appears they meet my criteria) but it transpires they want more - even a LTR. And this pisses me off". I suspect we have all come across profiles which mislead, and have therefore shared feelings varying from mild disappointment to burning rage.

I can't say I like his literary style, and I find the "breeding cow" metaphor rather tedious.

But just because his approach and preferences and writing style are different, don't knock them.

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ORIGINAL: raisedonsunshine

Thank you for the reminder and putting me back in my place O' great powerful one.

From now on, I'm...ooops! Forgive me "i'm" going to "play, scene, session" with every single Master/Dom/Lord who approaches me on Collarme. i'm going to obey His every command. All of them. Because i certainly don't want to be accused of wanting a loving relationship to go along with all of that glorious kink.

i'm only here to be used right?

No breeding cow here folks! Just holes to use. Just a piece of meat to beat. Come and get it Boys!

And what a courteous and most kind offer ros - can my people talk with your people on suitable dates and locations? May and June are looking good in my diary.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:26:45 PM

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OP, i couldn't even get through your whole post but have you ever thought that the common denominator in your lack of "luck" is YOU? maybe YOU are what is wrong with why you can't find some one real?

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:27:32 PM

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Lemme see Master/Lord Sundowner Sir.

May and June? I'm going to be traveling with with the NY Yankees as an official bat cleaner and ball shiner.

Oh and they want me to keep the gloves nice and supple too.

October is open. But who knows since i submit to and show what i've got to everyone one who messages me.

Just might find me decaying in a old barrel in someones shed by that time. But at least i'll go down as a real subbie and not a poser.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:38:26 PM

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Lemme see Master/Lord Sundowner Sir.
...
October is open.

Sorry ros - this one isn't going to run - you don't go for my type of bloke; I just perved you and saw "I don't deal with negative, racist, dog kicking jerks" in your profile.

(Too much to hope that I might pass muster if I say I only kick dogs in a caring way?)

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:40:38 PM

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Why am I not surprised to see that some of the low wattage people are picking my statement apart? Or, just can't grasp this. I understand there are people here that want to be a breeder or a breeding cow. Yes that's kinky, and I love it, if they are into it for the kinky aspect of it. But of course that does miss the point.
You need not read into my statement that far. Also, there isn't anything wrong with a LTR. All I am saying is, when your post starts by saying that you like to be a "mega slut", or you "can't get enough stranger sex" or, "I like to get used like a whore". Then you come back saying you don't show pictures on the internet, or you are looking for a LTR, or you just don't let anyone Dominate you. That means you are a brain chemistry imbalanced dingbat who probably should not procreate any way. Take it elsewhere.
The Doms in this scene don't need to be teased because you just got off the cotton pony, are horny as hell, and posted a "I'm kinky, mount me" profile then, 2 weeks later, your PMSing because some poor unsuspecting dude sends you a kinky note.

So because I am a slut to a Dominant, I automatically have to be any mans slut? I have to furnish naked pics of myself for him to spash all over the internet or to blackmail me? Sorry you feel teased but I dont have to be interested in every Dom that messages me.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:44:27 PM

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Well...i suppose if You placed a collar and leash around my neck as You kicked me. You being my new and instant Master and all, i'd have to submit to whatever turned you on.

Oh. Did You mean the four legged kind of dog?

i'd have to beat You silly Sir. But with reverence and respect.

Edited for lack of capitilization of my Lords pronouns.

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 3:45:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuse]

or you just don't let anyone Dominate you. That means you are a brain chemistry imbalanced dingbat who probably should not procreate any way. Take it elsewhere.

this has to be an all time classic.
Because i am a submissive i should have NO RIGHT TO CHOOSE who i submit to??

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 4:00:13 PM

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Well...i suppose if You placed a collar and leash around my neck as You kicked me. You being my new and instant Master and all, i'd have to submit to whatever turned you on.

Oh. Did You mean the four legged kind of dog?

i'd have to beat You silly Sir. But with reverence and respect.

Edited for lack of capitilization of my Lords pronouns.

Hey! So maybe October could be back on again?

(Pssst - I only posted this so I could use this

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 4:05:42 PM

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Dammit! Where are my breeding cows?

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RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. - 4/9/2008 4:12:10 PM

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In that case, I guess all men are just sperm factories?

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