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stpaulslaveuser -> Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:15:38 AM)
Doms, be careful !!! More posers lately. I have lately, come across a lot of self proclaimed "submissives" who are in general, diluting what I believe this site was intended to do. I believe collarme was intended to bring together people who are interested in bdsm. Maybe as a lifestyle, or just for fun. So, why is it, That recently, all I come across is women who call themselves subs or slaves who really have only one interest to begin with. They only want to find a husband or even dilute that and settle for a LTR. They put out the "I'm kinky" bait and some of these suckers bite. I have had enough of these posers who lash out at you with a sharp tongue because you propose seeing what they have to offer, or seeing what they are capable of. Or, just meet for play. Let me say this... If all you want is a boyfriend, and you think you are a submissive, because you suck him off every once in a while, and you let him cram one up your ass every few weeks when your drunk, your not a submissive. Your just a normal breeding cow trying to get laid. Go post your vanilla BS on friend finder or Yahoo. Don't wreck this site for the rest of us.

Justme696 -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:18:52 AM)
As many Dom(me)s as subs/slaves are not what they seem. We all have different goals...soem just want a boyfriend with a Dom attitude during sex..others want 24/7. I guess there is a place for all. If they lie..yes that pisses me off too, but that happens in real life also

Prinsexx -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:20:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stpaulslaveuser Doms, be careful !!! More posers lately. I have lately, come across a lot of self proclaimed "submissives" who are in general, diluting what I believe this site was intended to do. I believe collarme was intended to bring together people who are interested in bdsm. Maybe as a lifestyle, or just for fun. So, why is it, That recently, all I come across is women who call themselves subs or slaves who really have only one interest to begin with. They only want to find a husband or even dilute that and settle for a LTR. They put out the "I'm kinky" bait and some of these suckers bite. I have had enough of these posers who lash out at you with a sharp tongue because you propose seeing what they have to offer, or seeing what they are capable of. Or, just meet for play. Let me say this... If all you want is a boyfriend, and you think you are a submissive, because you suck him off every once in a while, and you let him cram one up your ass every few weeks when your drunk, your not a submissive. Your just a normal breeding cow trying to get laid. Go post your vanilla BS on friend finder or Yahoo. Don't wreck this site for the rest of us. Who? Moi? But everyone already knows I'm here looking for a vanilla husband! [sm=banghead.gif]

gentldom4sub -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:21:07 AM)
AMEN .. BRO .. YOUR WORDS COMMING RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH BEEN THERE ... DONE THE SAME EXP. LIKE YOU

GreedyTop -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:22:23 AM)
Oy. (hey Prin! how ya doin?)

IrishMist -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:22:30 AM)
Ummm, can I now laugh?

Dnomyar -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:23:36 AM)
This is going to get interesting.

Justme696 -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:23:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist Ummm, can I now laugh? of course..since when do you ask? :p

camille65 -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:27:10 AM)
While I understand your sentiment I also have some problems with what you said. 'diluting what I believe this site was intended to do'Your belief, is not everyones belief on what purpose this site serves. 'they only want to find a husband or dilute that and settle for a LTR'For some, marriage with a D/s or M/s element is their goal for male and female alike. 'lash out at you with a sharp tongue because you propose seeing what they have to offer or seeing what they are capable of'This sounds to me, like some women aren't happy being demanded with handing over a photo of themselves nude, or going on cam to prove their femaleness to you. I would be ticked off too. 'Your just a normal breeding cow trying to get laid'Um. The language is offensive to me, and some are actually seeking to be bred or seeking a breeder. Quite common that. What it boils down to is that your expectations are not being met and you are unhappy about that.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:27:15 AM)
Why bother with the ones who say they are looking for a vanilla match then? Obviously, their profiles are so obvious it hurts, so skip and lok for someone who wants what you do. If you dont mke first contact, they wont even know you exist, and if they make first contact a simple "I'm sorry, Im looking for a sub/slave first and a possible relationship second not vice versa" works. If you continually see the same "posers" hide their profile and it wont bother you anymore. The guys get the ones who want husbands, we get the ones who to be cuckold husbands. sigh DV

Aylee -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:27:54 AM)
All right! That is it! I need the name and web address of the proclaiming institute. They need to get their enforcers out here and crack down on all of these self-proclaimed people. We need a taut ship here! Bad submissives! BAD! Going around diluting what this yabob thinks. BAD! Take care and be well. Best, Aylee (the self-proclaimed-forum-hottie)

CNJDom -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:30:41 AM)
Let's not forget a few that are users as well. Too many times I've heard of Doms that bring a person or two that claim to be submissive into their midst and/or homes where they are not what they seem. Within a short period of time, these criminals will clean-out that person's house or rip them off in some way, and then disappear. I don't which is worse between these less than true people. Before the backlash begins: yes there are Dominant posers out there as well with less than noble motives...but that is a different post area.

raisedonsunshine -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:35:58 AM)
Thank you for the reminder and putting me back in my place O' great powerful one. From now on, I'm...ooops! Forgive me "i'm" going to "play, scene, session" with every single Master/Dom/Lord who approaches me on Collarme. i'm going to obey His every command. All of them. Because i certainly don't want to be accused of wanting a loving relationship to go along with all of that glorious kink. i'm only here to be used right? No breeding cow here folks! Just holes to use. Just a piece of meat to beat. Come and get it Boys!

DesertRat -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:36:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar This is going to get interesting. Ya think? Come on over to my place and we can watch some paint dry. Exciting stuff!! I'd suggest watching grass grow but we're in a drought right now. Bob

Chloelicious -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:37:24 AM)
Op With a sentence like: Your just a normal breeding cow. I don't think many submissive will answer or talk to you. A female submissive is first of all A woman. Would you answer to a girl who called men as: just a normal dick. Now regarding your feelings about this site as DV said if these posers are pissing you off , hide their profile and focus on "real submissive".

parttimehotty -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:37:47 AM)
Here i come to save the day......... Fake subs....all gone! [sm=anger.gif]It's safe for you to read the REAL posts now.....my job here is done.......[sm=flameout.gif]

Aynne -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:38:56 AM)
Hi Dnomyar. It sure is. Here is a quote from his journal..... In my mind, a true and total "submissive" would submit to any DOM at any time and to do what ever. Maybe his mindset has something to do with his not finding a "real sub"..lol quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar This is going to get interesting.

GreedyTop -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:38:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesertRat quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar This is going to get interesting. Ya think? Come on over to my place and we can watch some paint dry. Exciting stuff!! I'd suggest watching grass grow but we're in a drought right now. Bob Y'all can come over here...my yard is in dire need of mowing grin AND I have the paint to finish the spare room with [:D][:D]

Justme696 -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:39:11 AM)
he could have said "all subs/slaves bully Dom(mes)" then I would have to agree,

kittinSol -> RE: Doms, be careful !!! More posers than ever. (4/9/2008 6:39:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: raisedonsunshine i'm only here to be used right? No breeding cow here folks! Just holes to use. Just a piece of meat to beat. Come and get it Boys! Finally! A true sub!

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