RE: I need help and I am having trouble

RE: I need help and I am having trouble (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress

Message

MmeGigs -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/11/2008 12:32:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Called himself a gentleman? What a hoot. The first thing I assumed when I read "Its been over 5 years and still I havent found one mistress willing to accept me for who I am." was that either he couldn't have been trying very hard or that he is generally unacceptable. This response to you indicates that both are true.

LotusSong -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/11/2008 6:07:44 PM)
Start a munch. You probably are not the only one in Wyoming with a kink. Showing imitative is an admirable trait and should help you.

Tantriqu -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/11/2008 6:36:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Oh, and I'm not a real Dominant because we all know I've never had any sub experience... [8\|] Nasty, simply nasty. Here are more hints of trouble: 'accept me for who I am' 'gain their trust' are in not phrases uttered by a good sub. I smell a smart-ass bottom/switch! 'gain their trust' is particularly 'Silence of the Lambchops'.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/11/2008 9:41:44 PM)
Hi cheffy. It helps to look within yourself for the answer why you haven't found a Mistress. you said you want to be accepted for who you are. If that's why you haven't found a Mistress then you'll need to be more detailed to us or to yourself and her about what exactly she needs to be accepting about. There's lots of Mistresses out there and you've been looking for 5 years and still no luck. What could the reasons be?

MisPandora -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/13/2008 1:52:49 PM)
deleted, didn't read enough of the thread to see that the OP is just an asshat.

MisPandora -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/13/2008 1:54:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Oh, and I'm not a real Dominant because we all know I've never had any sub experience... [8\|] Nasty, simply nasty. Normally I'm not excited to see people posting content of private exchanges but THIS one was really important. He shows his true colors and now we all know why he is not having any success!

Sirsinini -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/13/2008 2:02:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann asshat Men: Find a Woman here Stephan [sm=goodpost.gif] [:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D][:D]

Venatrix -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/13/2008 3:34:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Oh, and I'm not a real Dominant because we all know I've never had any sub experience... [8\|] Nasty, simply nasty. This also explains why he's going to go another five years without a domina, too.

AtlantaMistress -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/14/2008 12:54:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Oh, and I'm not a real Dominant because we all know I've never had any sub experience... [8\|] Nasty, simply nasty. ah well.. now we know why he can't find a mistress... As I was reading through the posts, I thought Dnomyar hit it on the head - posting to this forum as a lazy attempt to let all the Mistresses know that he had been looking for so long...longing to serve. To show disrespect, by criticizing the advice that you gave him...and cowardly at that - doing it personally rather than on the board as a reply to your post...yes, obvious why he can't find a Mistress. If anything, he should have thanked you for taking the time to even bother with an answer. Thank you Pyrrsefanie for sharing and keeping any new Dommes from possibly falling into this little trap.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/14/2008 1:17:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Oh, and I'm not a real Dominant because we all know I've never had any sub experience... [8\|] Nasty, simply nasty. I wondered what the attitude was, since that was the most likely reason for a failure to find anyone, even for a trial, over a 5 year period. I am glad we got the opportunity to get a first hand view of said attitude. I also note that the OP hasn't been back to his thread. hmmmmmmmmm.... 'nuf said...

Goddess2002 -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/14/2008 6:11:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie Our dear friend Cheffy decided to send me a message on the other side... answers all of our questions as to why he's having so much trouble finding a mistress. Apparently being told to try looking outside of the internet is not what he wanted to be told, and I am a "naive young bitch" who "cannot tell an older gentleman like me how to run my life." Oh, and I'm not a real Dominant because we all know I've never had any sub experience... [8\|] Nasty, simply nasty. Positively obnoxious....Methinks he'll be a lonely little sub for years to come.[sm=Groaner.gif]

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/14/2008 10:46:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MisPandora Normally I'm not excited to see people posting content of private exchanges but THIS one was really important. He shows his true colors and now we all know why he is not having any success! Same here. I normally don't do such things (and actually was kind of nervous about doing so), but I figured that due to the nature of the thread + his response it might be an important piece of information. Glad to see that everyone seems to have understood my intent was not too terrible... [:D]

azropedntied -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/15/2008 1:18:25 PM)
AWESOME ! keep on pissin off the Goddesss Dommes & Mistress's , i shall sit smile and wait [sm=dontfeedtrolls.gif] Gotta Luv the ASSHATS they make the rest of us look better daily [:)]

DelilahDeb -> RE: I need help and I am having trouble (4/15/2008 2:04:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cheffy I need help in my search for a Mistress. Its been over 5 years and still I havent found one mistress willing to accept me for who I am. I need guidance in how to talk to a mistress andgain their trust. I been going nowhere and I want to serve. OP: You've had a number of solid, relevant, and potentially productive suggestions in this thread. Akasha pointed out that spelling & grammar count for many of us (me included). In your posting above you have two missing apostrophes and a missing space. Collarchat checks spelling automatically even on my antiquated computer. Two of the three errors I refer to are highlighted in your quote as I compose this message. Choices you can make: Know thyself. What is it that you want? Be honest with yourself before you try to shoehorn someone else into the "Mistress of my dreams" suit. Improve your presentation. Stephann, Akasha, and others have pointed the way. Communicate rudely to individuals responding to your post. Seems a great way to hit a whole lot of Ignore buttons. Delilah Deb "...thou who seek to know Me, know that thy seeking and yearning will avail thee not unless thou knowest the mystery; for if thou findest not what thou seekest within thee, thou wilt most assuredly never find it without thee." --from the Charge of the Goddess, a Wiccan teaching

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.0625