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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 10:42:59 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		colouredin i didnt take your response as mean, i value input......its all good

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 10:47:56 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chyanna

Yes, i see that error now, i have deleted or blocked all access to me by me.
Is pride and self respect so wrong. He didnt give a damn

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 10:49:45 AM   
givemyall


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chyanna

......i have been taught all along to have self respect, pride and to show dignity.....so i do


You have far more dignity than me, I'd have swapped the picture over my fireplace for his bollox by now!

You have a lovely attitude, save it for someone that deserves it

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 10:50:02 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		uh, youre right?
but can i ask, when youre (people are) in a chat room being directed to do these things,
are they really actually sitting at their pcs doing it for real??????????????????????

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 10:52:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		He doesn't Own you, Dom or not He is a friend, not 'your' Dom.

He maybe misread the limits of the friendship and certainly misread your comfort level... whilst it may look like He is reacting to having misread the fact that you are not His and He has no right to make demands (Suggestions and banter, the limits of depend on the nature of the friendship, but there is no right to 'demand') However I suspect it may have more to do with a bruised ego having been told no (and rightly so) in public.


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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 10:58:36 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		yes its a webcam chat site.....my cam is trained firmly trained on head and shoulders

YourHandmyAss im sorry if i offended You, that was not my intention, please accept my apologies


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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:02:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hi chyanna...I'm a little confused.  I saw a post by you 3 or 4 days ago, where you spoke of being collared to a Master called pettrainer66- is this the same man?  If so, that would likely explain why he thought you would do that for him.  Especially if you are an online sub to him.   If not, I don't fully understand the following part of your quote: "after today, i am not going to waste my time on the man i have more important things to do.........Like finding my "one"". 

Just wondering, for the sake of clarification. 

Edited because I did not have the dom's name right in the original post.

< Message edited by sweetNsmartBBW -- 4/10/2008 11:06:02 AM >

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:06:56 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		yes that is true, i was totally honest about the man to pettrainer and he was happy for me to keep talking too him

As long as i never met or sessioned with him, but then again i never would, i adore pettrainer and would never  disrespect Him.  but yes he knew about Him and i shall tell him about today......

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:09:11 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		by the way im spending the week with Him from monday, i often do  He just has never prevented me from speaking to other Doms, but i now think it is something i should seriously re-think about after today

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:09:11 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Oh so im confused now, if you are with someone why are you busy trying to "find your one"? 

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:12:05 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		sorry that should have read being a good sub with the one, i have aggressive ms and take morphine sometimes it causes me to get confused sincere apologies too all

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:13:56 AM   
sweetNsmartBBW


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmmmmmmm....alrighty then...*moving on*... 

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:18:57 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		lesson learnt DO NOT post a question/comment whilst on morphine and diazepam

It is easy to really mess what you mean up......Sorry to A/all


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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:22:30 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		No offense, just keep in mind it don't nessisarily mean they don't have self respect. Some people get off on that kind of stuff. I don't cause I don't let people not my dom boss me about, but some do:)

by the way do you havea ny idea what it means on ims when nobody can see my cam they just get a black window no picno movement no nothing but I get picture.
quote:

ORIGINAL: chyanna

yes its a webcam chat site.....my cam is trained firmly trained on head and shoulders

YourHandmyAss im sorry if i offended You, that was not my intention, please accept my apologies



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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:24:22 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

Oh so im confused now, if you are with someone why are you busy trying to "find your one"? 
 colourdin I swear I'm not picking on you!You've posted something I see a lot on this and other message boards and it is something that always makes me pause. Why wouldn't someone be (date, scene, hang out with) with another person while still hoping to eventually meet 'the one'? It makes me feel like everyone is expected to live in isolation until they stumble over that 'one' person and I don't really get it. Is it wrong to casually date someone while knowing it is only casual and not long term? I am seriously asking this because as I said, I see this a lot. I dated/scened etc several men before I got married, and I always knew none of them were the guy I really wanted. After getting divorced I talked with and met other guys while still hoping to meet the man I would someday call my dom.

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:34:22 AM   
chyanna


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Status: offline 		depends which site you are visitng............personally i would delete the programme from your control panel......reboot.......then reinstall the driver disk.......it prolly got corrupted during the download........what make is it?

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:39:55 AM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		Ahh because I read the comment as that she was totally happy with her Master, and I dont believe there is a one, i think thats crap i think there are lots of them hense the " marks, I dont think that anyone should settle, but I also dont see the point in being in a relationship and looking for someone who fits this silly ideal makes me think that you are always gonna have a grass is greener complex, the one reminds me of fairytales and this idea that we didnt have to work. Basically this whole post just smaked to me of being a bit odd, thats all. 

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 11:51:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		Gotchya.

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 12:06:05 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		It's a logitech quick cam, and it's not a website it's yahoo instant messenger, so you  hit the webcam logo, and they accept the invite and normally you'd see my imagae in the little box that comes up and nope ya don't lol. In the past unplugging it waiting a bitplugging in an then doing it all over worked if cam didn't come on or reinstalling the drive did. I seemt o have the black screen problem when the cams been unplugged from the pc an plugged back in.
quote:

ORIGINAL: chyanna

depends which site you are visitng............personally i would delete the programme from your control panel......reboot.......then reinstall the driver disk.......it prolly got corrupted during the download........what make is it?

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RE: confused - 4/10/2008 12:09:22 PM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Have you tried using 'view webcam' instead of opening Logicam? There is that feature on Y IM and MS IM, have no idea on AOL.

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