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atursvcMaam -> RE: Question on roles. (4/11/2008 1:04:27 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie
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ORIGINAL: atursvcMaam
Some of the age threads of late have made me wonder, Am i a true (twue for those who go there) sub.
some history:
i have been in a relationship with a female who:
1. did not want to have sexual relations with me. And She had a great deal of control/say as to how i relieved that situation.
2. who wished me to be extraordinarily attentive to Her needs, desires and complaints, and who counted on me to use my best discretion to resolve those issues.
3. Who seemed to enjoy my presence, but occasionally would ignore me if She was not pleased with the world in general, or my speed at meeting Her needs, requests, desires.
4. She counted on me to bring Her food and Serve it to Her.
5. She allowed me to bathe and dress Her.
6. She allowed me to (and expected me to) clean up after Her, do Her laundry, occasionally allowed me to brush Her hair.
7. She allowed me to handle Her finances and, if we went shopping together, She would let me know what She wanted or needed, and rightfully expected me to pay Her way. (Yes, She would complain bitterly if i told Her that She was being a bit unreasonable)
8. She had my undying devotion and unconditional love.
Does this make me a true (twue) sub, and/or does this make Her a True (Twue) Domme. Be careful how Y/you answer, there is a bit of a trick here.
The trick is that it's your daughter, who you've raised from birth and is now grown up and on her own, no longer really needing her father to provide for her as she once did, but the lessons you've taught her and the love you've allowed her to grow up with will never fade from her mind.
Although honestly, what normal little girl DOESN'T keep her father wrapped around her finger at all times? [:D] I'd say being a "daddy's girl" is about the twue-est form of exerting power over someone out there!
i actually was pleasantly surprised at everyone's reactions. sometimes i get the feeling there is a lot of judgemental crap (including my own) on these threads.
Right on target, i think Her mom would probably have a few nasty words to say if i were to ever to call the little one "Mistress", although i am giving a great deal of thought to renaming my dog.
Just as a note, She required closer attention than most, and more than i hope anyone ever has to deal with.
This actually is based as a caregiver for special needs child.
could she interrupt my life? sure.
did i stop whatever i was doing to go to her aid? sure.
Who had the authority? that was a tough one to answer. however, she tended to (unintentionally of course) call the shots. i went to her, she did not come to me, and it was my responsibility to determine her needs without instructions. i demanded nothing of her.
Yes, she exerted control with or without words.
if i sounded at all resentful, i apologize at even portraying that thought.
Did we complete each other's lives? Yes it was a great day if everyone woke up. She taught me to appreciate what is and not what might be. i still melt at a smile.
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