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Skully7000 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/10/2008 11:33:46 PM)
that is how I got my College G/f to squirt for the first time. i tied her up... and was playing with her clit and occasionaly fingering her. after her normal orgasm i kept going.. this is where you normally tells me to stop "its getting TOO intense" she says. well i didn't stop. occasionaly i would slow down a little. occasionally instead of rubbing i would gently tap on it. and i just dragged it out for about 3 hours. finally i just kept rubbing and rubbing until it was about 15 minutes of straight continuous orgasm and finally she squirted all over my bed. She freaked b/c she thought she peed herself. I was glowing with accomplishment. after I explained to her what it was she was releived. I still have a single picture of her tied up from that day:) hurray:) Cheers Skully

ownedgirlie -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/10/2008 11:44:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hejira92 So, to answer your question- yes, in my opinion, you can be trained past the oversensitivity. And it IS worth it. As usual, I loved your post, hejira, and related to it. It used to be unbearable for me, also, until it became another incredible orgasm. Now there is no longer a break, and no pain at all. It has turned into one long, continuous orgasm until he stops it. I'm glad you posted what you did.

hejira92 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/11/2008 6:17:53 AM)
Oooh, Thank you! I so often post what I think are too long winded responses, it's nice to be appreciated for them! Some of the Doms responding here have mentioned squirting. I don't want to hijack, but I have a question. (Please tell me if I should start a new thread). I have never squirted, but lately, with Master doing just this- what we are discussing now- I have felt a pressure and a feeling sort of like I need to pee, but not really. For me to experience something unfamiliar during sex is so unusual (I am soooo old, you know. lol). This feeling has me wondering if He is getting me close to the point of squirting. I have, of course, discussed my concern with Him. I don't know if I want to squirt. As with any new thing, there is trepidation. He just tells me to "be"; He does the worrying for us (like He's told me thousands of times...) Is this what is happening? Is this pressure I feel from clitoral over-stimulation the beginnings of squirting?

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/11/2008 6:33:24 AM)
hejira, I highly recommend the book, "Female Ejaculation and the GSpot" by Deborah Sundahl. It is an amazing book that answers so many questions that come up on these boards about clits, gspots, orgasms, squirting........ and the ability/inability to orgasm and/or squirt. The feeling that you need to pee is very much a sign of impending squirting...... unless of course you didn't go potty before play time, then you really might need to pee! LOL! Squirting can happend with or without an orgasm, and when you feel that urge to pee, push into it the way you would if you were going to pee. The amount can vary from small trickles to a full gushing squirt that can soak your bed. Hope this helps!

hejira92 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/11/2008 6:49:10 AM)
Thank you! I have already shared your response with Master and we will investigate.

Gleegal67 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/11/2008 10:03:44 AM)
Great topic Tigrita! Clit oversensitivity has always been a hate/love thing with me. I hate when a partner only concentrates on the clit only...there is more to my pussy than just my clit...but...when one knows that what they are doing and they stimulate my whole pussy...then focus on the clit...until that moment of..."No more please...stop!"...and they keep going...drives me insane and hopefully I'm pinned down or tied up at that point...then I cross that bridge...and I get to the part of..."Oh my Gawwwwdddd!!!"...yeah...I really love when that happens! This is usually best when I'm getting forced orgasms...which are divine...and it almost always makes me squirt...with an oversensitive clit...makes the orgasms that more amazing...and Hejira...I know what you are experiencing...but if you make sure you go to the bathroom prior to play...make sure there are towels under you...I HIGHLY recommend for you to relax and enjoy the ride your Master can take you on!

Tigrita -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/11/2008 2:43:15 PM)
Mmmm thanks for sharing your positive experiences. I'm starting to get pretty excited about powering through this to the next level of intensity!

SirKaton -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/12/2008 2:43:54 PM)
Hejira, you have approached the crest of that first hill you climb of the rollercoaster of female ejaculation. Because the sensation approximates the desire to pee, most women pull back at that moment, when they need to do just the opposite. Relax and literally let it flow. When you are sexually stimulated, it is physically difficult (I'll stop short of saying impossible) to urinate. You essentially are giving up control ofyour body to let it dowhat it wants to do. It's even better when it happens at the hands of your Dom/me...

littlebitxxx -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/12/2008 5:21:15 PM)
I also find my clit overly sensitive directly after the first orgasm, so I thought I was weird! Nice to find out I'm not. But if he backs off just a bit and goes around for awhile, it settles down and I'm able to go again (or cum as the case may be). Once that initial painful sensitivity is gone, it seems my clit is responsive to just about anything and it doesn't take much to cum over and over rapidly. That's when I find G-spot works the best, once everything is sensitive and swollen, and the clit warmed up. Then it's Niagara Falls! I find a Catch 22 situation though and wonder if anyone else has the same experience. After having a clitoral orgasm, I want something inside NOW! It seems I have better and more vaginal orgasms then. But after a good fucking I now have the great desire for another clitoral, as icing on the cake so to speak. But then after the clitoral, I want something inside NOW! And on it goes. Where does one break the cycle and still feel satisfied?

hejira92 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/12/2008 9:04:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlebitxxx I also find my clit overly sensitive directly after the first orgasm, so I thought I was weird! Nice to find out I'm not. But if he backs off just a bit and goes around for awhile, it settles down and I'm able to go again (or cum as the case may be). Once that initial painful sensitivity is gone, it seems my clit is responsive to just about anything and it doesn't take much to cum over and over rapidly. That's when I find G-spot works the best, once everything is sensitive and swollen, and the clit warmed up. Then it's Niagara Falls! I find a Catch 22 situation though and wonder if anyone else has the same experience. After having a clitoral orgasm, I want something inside NOW! It seems I have better and more vaginal orgasms then. But after a good fucking I now have the great desire for another clitoral, as icing on the cake so to speak. But then after the clitoral, I want something inside NOW! And on it goes. Where does one break the cycle and still feel satisfied? Ahhh! This must be why- after a good fucking, with multiple orgasms, I lie still for a moment and then- Wham!- serious craving for the wand! Makes sense to me. [;)]

MissAngelandsub -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/12/2008 9:14:09 PM)
If I have a clitorial orgasm I can actually feel pleasure from normal sex otherwise it usually hurts...I don't know if it relaxes it down there or what but I know how it is to want him in me after I have a clitoral orgasm.

Deliena -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/13/2008 1:36:47 AM)
Master and i read this yesterday and were wondering about advice for Him as He gets very sensitive after sex and wonders would could be done to prolong or go through this period of hypersensitivity as currently He has trouble letting me touch Him. Thank you in advance for any suggestions on this topic. (If I should create a new thread please let me know and I'll create one referencing this one).

ownedgirlie -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/13/2008 8:07:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deliena Master and i read this yesterday and were wondering about advice for Him as He gets very sensitive after sex and wonders would could be done to prolong or go through this period of hypersensitivity as currently He has trouble letting me touch Him. Thank you in advance for any suggestions on this topic. (If I should create a new thread please let me know and I'll create one referencing this one). Very gentle mouthwork with very little tongue activity. Usually just holding him in my mouth afterwards, while only softly using my tongue (not near the rim of the head) is very comforting and relaxing to him, and eases right through that hypersensitivity.

Tigrita -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/18/2008 6:23:33 PM)
I just wanted to give an update: We had an amazing session of pushing through the discomfort after the first O with continuing stimulation, and I had 5 incredible orgasms! I almost passed out I was so spent, and we think I squirted a little because things ended up a lot wetter than usual when we were done, as-in off the edge of the bed onto the floor! I've never squirted before, and have never cum so hard so many times. Thanks so much for the great responses that gave me faith that it was possible to stimulate through the pain to a higher orgasmal plane. Especially hejira, Daddysredhead, LA, Skully, ownedgirlie, and Gleegal; thanks to you guys I could come (no pun intended) into this with a positive attitude and have a great experience! ~ Tigrita

darchChylde -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/18/2008 7:54:33 PM)
Just about every woman i've ever been with became a sadist after i've orgasmed. Edited to Add: This includes many vanilla and submissive women (not necessarily women who are submissives); and, in fact, very few dominant women as in the vanilla world i actually attract mostly submissive women.

LadyCat66 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/18/2008 9:07:56 PM)
I have found that happens to me to. He sometimes doesn't stop after I cum and it can be quite painful but in a pleasesurable way. I go into sub space and usually can cum again, but after that I can't take it anymore it gets way to sensitive. [&:] so I told him what works for me, if he licks around it slowly, flicks my girl softly, gives it a little rest, soon after I am cumming again. He made me squirt for the first time a few weeks ago! Now that was truly exciting. [:D]

hejira92 -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/19/2008 4:40:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita I just wanted to give an update: We had an amazing session of pushing through the discomfort after the first O with continuing stimulation, and I had 5 incredible orgasms! I almost passed out I was so spent, and we think I squirted a little because things ended up a lot wetter than usual when we were done, as-in off the edge of the bed onto the floor! I've never squirted before, and have never cum so hard so many times. Thanks so much for the great responses that gave me faith that it was possible to stimulate through the pain to a higher orgasmal plane. Especially hejira, Daddysredhead, LA, Skully, ownedgirlie, and Gleegal; thanks to you guys I could come (no pun intended) into this with a positive attitude and have a great experience! ~ Tigrita YAY!!!!! [sm=yahoo.gif]

ownedgirlie -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/19/2008 12:35:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hejira92 quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita I just wanted to give an update: We had an amazing session of pushing through the discomfort after the first O with continuing stimulation, and I had 5 incredible orgasms! I almost passed out I was so spent, and we think I squirted a little because things ended up a lot wetter than usual when we were done, as-in off the edge of the bed onto the floor! I've never squirted before, and have never cum so hard so many times. Thanks so much for the great responses that gave me faith that it was possible to stimulate through the pain to a higher orgasmal plane. Especially hejira, Daddysredhead, LA, Skully, ownedgirlie, and Gleegal; thanks to you guys I could come (no pun intended) into this with a positive attitude and have a great experience! ~ Tigrita YAY!!!!! [sm=yahoo.gif] Hee hee...joins in... [sm=dancing.gif]

aftersh0ck -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/19/2008 1:59:20 PM)
the best way to not stop the play but take care of your problem is to leave the clit alone for a few and go back to vaginal which will give you the same reaction at first but then when it feels good and your ready for more it should feel alright on the clit again but slowly, just like the first time you start, depending on your preference, its like us guys, once we cum its sensitive, but once we chill a minute and go piss were ready for round 2, unless your a guy who passes out L0L, like sklly7000 said its really cool to get her to shoot from a the clitoral orgasm compared to a g spot orgasm, but u have to relize its the same nerve it just branches off and one part to the clit and the other to the g spot, yeah it is fun when she shoots the first time and think she pissed herself, sometimes you have to explain what happened, then sometimes either you will have to explain to her friend what happend because she told them how amazing it was, or she will be affraid and not orgasm as intense the next time because of of it shooting and feels uncomfortable about it, and im just speaking for ones who have never experienced this on there own or with a partner and never heard of that happening, if your good do the clit and the g spot at the same time and prepare to get soaked, personally its a beautiful thing =) to make happen

Tigrita -> RE: clit oversensitivity and orgasm (4/19/2008 2:24:49 PM)
Thanks gals! And great smileys, I haven't seen those before.

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