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bignipples2share -> RE: Preference of color (4/13/2008 12:56:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

You city farmers crack my ass up.  You need to get you to an oldtimers garden store and get you a turning fork for that shit. And grubhoes are decidedly not surface preparation tools. 

Ron


< making notes: okay...use turning forks for shit. Grubhoes, I guess, serve breakfast >

signed..appreciative city slicker.




Daddysredhead -> RE: Preference of color (4/13/2008 1:20:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sundowner

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
Would you settle for a hissy-fit?

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Hissy-fit, and icon, is good.  Hugs.

Glad you like it.  I aim to please.  Hugs back.  =)

DRH




Poetryinpain -> RE: Preference of color (4/13/2008 3:26:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TysGalilah

admitting  that I didn't read through all the posts and so apologies  if this has already been mentioned>
 
OP
If you are, obviously, so adamant about wanting to be with someone who does NOT have issues with a persons color ( etc )  ...and this woman you are talking about and had pursued, obviously DOES.....then why are you in pursuit?
I would think she wouldn't interest YOU...let alone the fact that you are bothered that you do not interest her...
 
she's not YOUR type..
why waste energy on this?
 
Personally, I appreciate it when someone shows me this side ( intolerance or bigotry) of themselves upfront...that way I know to change my direction.  ( and I am not convinced she IS racist or a bigot...not everyone who knows what they like and has attraction perferences is yanno?  smiles ) .
 
  Plowing through them hoping to change their personal likes and dislikes is energy ill spent  imo..
 
If you spend your energy disciplining the world to conform to your personal values and ethics > you will have little left for the one who is out there waiting and wanting your energy and discipline and shares your likes and dislikes .
 


Galilah, you have just managed to state in one concise and cogent post what it's taken nealy 15 pages for the rest of us to say.

pip, brava




adrian28 -> RE: Preference of color (4/13/2008 6:21:52 PM)

Where is this guy? I'm not done with him yet![:@]




ladyfado -> RE: Preference of color (4/13/2008 9:10:14 PM)

He's outside digging the stick out of his ass. Look, I actually state in my profile my preference for Celtic men, but it's not like I don't sub for Black men, or other men of color. And even if I did (and who knows, maybe he saw MY profile and got all pissy), who the fuck cares what he thinks? I see guys asking for petite blondes, I don't get an attitude, so I'm not getting what his beef is.

It's like that Sex in the City episode when that famous saying was thrown into the universe, only it's good for women too right now:

Maybe she's just not that into you.

He needs to get over himself and his toy soldier schtick and get a life.

But, yeah, he's fun to fuck with...
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ORIGINAL: adrian28

Where is this guy? I'm not done with him yet![:@]




lostgirl83 -> RE: Preference of color (4/14/2008 8:09:47 PM)

AHHH!

Seriously... In a website geared toward "open minded people" one of the biggest things that irritates me is how judgemental everyone is!

SO WHAT?! Just because she wants her Dom to be white doesn't mean she doesn't like black people... its personal preference! Some people prefer older/younger/fat/thin/blonde/brunette... just because it struck YOU the wrong way doesn't make HER wrong for voicing her preferences. She knows what she wants, and she made the step to try and find it and be happy and fulfilled in her life.... isn't that what we all want?

I'm sure if you think hard enough you could think of people you wouldn't date/have sex with for one reason or another... does that mean you think less of them? No... more than likely you just aren't attracted to them, and if you WOULD have sex with anyone... more power to you. and your penis.




adrian28 -> RE: Preference of color (4/14/2008 9:17:37 PM)

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