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ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:04:23 PM)
Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback! With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in.

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:05:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laura2161 I agree,It's her preference. I state my preference in my profile. I have my reasons (and no its not about the size of someone's penis) and as long as someone doesnt get all beligerent on me I am happy to explain my reasons on a one to one basis. Do I get nasty hatemail because of it? Yes I sure do but that just shows me that I surely would not want to be with that perseon anyway. Some prefer blond hair and blue eyes; Whatever floats your boat. my how the tables would turn if we could filter by penis size lol...I honestly have no racial or ethnic preference, some do love the edge of race play though...not for me to judge

Leatherist -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:07:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback! With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in. And you are the one to do it? By publically berating her on a message board? pot-kettle-black. Your arrogance astounds me.

azropedntied -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:07:15 PM)
i prefer black an blue with touches of crimson and raised striations .but enough about what i like done to me .I shall pick heart ,honor ,creativity ,style ,class ,etc over superficial looks any day .

charmdpetKeira -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:08:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback! With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in. Interesting, what kind of discipline would you suggest? k

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:09:50 PM)
I have a preference for skin color. I am very upfront about it. It isnt racist, and it has to do with asthetics. I do not find dark skin asthetically pleasing. I dont mean African American, I mean dark skinned. Tanned Caucasian does as little for me as dark skinned Indian, Native American or ASian. I just dont like it. Think about what makes someone attractive to you, and about all the people who fall outside your line for attraction. The person whose profile you were reading does not need discipline to overcome shallowness. You need a thicker skin to pass by people who do not want what you have to offer. Would you be making a fuss had she specified she wanted a 6' master only? Or someone toned and defined, as opposed to someone who had a few extra pounds? DV

kallisto -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:10:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laura2161 (and no its not about the size of someone's penis) Are you sure? I thought I read in the sub's trusty little handbook that it was. I guess I've been wrong all this time. [:)]

atursvcMaam -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:12:54 PM)
no matter how wonderful anyone might be, not everyone else is going to like them, for whatever reasons. The deep secret is "it's not all about you." Sorry.

Leatherist -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:13:13 PM)
Oh, you are african american. I hadn't looked closely until you whined. Funny, I never had the same reaction to white girls who specified a black master-I just respected thier desires. Maybe you should do the same.

LadyPact -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:15:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback! With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in. I hate to inform you of this, but since she is permitted to use any form of judgement that she sees fit, it's not up to you to decide if she needs 'punishment'. She has just as much right not to chose a Master based on the outer package, as you do to think it shouldn't matter. If you consider her shallow for how she reaches her guidelines of what she wants, aren't you really better off?

Exquemelin -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:22:06 PM)
I can not date whoever I want. In fact I'm not dating everyone on Earth except my sub.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:22:26 PM)
You say that you must have a pic of someone who is interested in you, as you have one up, it's only fair, and there has to be a physical attraction. What about women who aren't attracted to black people? or men? or dominants? or people with a muscular body? (good work, btw!) Your assertion that someone you don't know "needs punishment" because they don't want you concerns me greatly. Do you really believe the things you say or are you just looking for attention? Curious,

Real_Trouble -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:22:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Thank Y/you all for Y/your feedback! With all due respect, I don’t think like that and I think she needs some discipline, so she can pass that level of shallowness. she has to learn NOT to judge BDSM Masters by the shell They come in. Judging people by appearance is not shallow; sexual attraction matters. Do you want your so-called sub lying there like a dead fish because she is bored? I certainly do not! Personal preference is always a factor, and more so, I think you are conflating a few separate issues. This is not a person saying "all Masters are white" or "all Masters are black", from your initial post. It is someone stating their preference for a Master who also happens to be white. For instance, both of my cars are black. They are also both German. I have a preference for black German cars. That doesn't mean a non-black car cannot be German, nor that a non-German car cannot be black. Get over your shallowness in thinking you can judge other people's personal preferences. Nobody is railing on your favorite color or taste in art. Let it go.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:24:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChemistryMaster1 Greetings E/everyone, I started reading a profile n stopped!! she is looking for a White Master. I believe BDSM Master is a Master due to His experience Not His Color.!! W/what Y/you think? There have been oooooooo soooooooo many threads on obesity in females wether it be Domme or submissive..and frankly one has to come to the conclusion that there is a glove for every kind of hand..this is not a society where any size fits all, nor any color for that matter...we are human first..and racism and prejudice toward either color or weight or penile size abounds..just because we are kink or TPE based does not mean that societel issues do not exist...Tempting

MzMinx -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:29:53 PM)
laughs What????!!!! you are joking, I hope haveing different aesthetics and prefernces is no insult to your uber domiliness .... after all desiring to submit or dominate is in itself a preference .... desiring someone you define as attractive in generall, is what most people seek .... what defines attractive is up to them and is incredably individualistic But who cares if a profile is indeed shallow??? declaring yourself as the judge of what is shallow from one comment on some random profile of an individual you have never met sounds like attention seeking chest thumping and it seems very shallow to me to seek out the 'isnt this wrong and see how superior I am' boasting, rather than seek things that enrich and delight you I love black skin, white skin .. rich nutty brown skin .... skin colour is not one of my specifics although I love the exotic (and to me .. being in australia, african americans are exotic ) I love coloured hair... my own is purple ... I just appreciate a broader visual asthetic than nature provided us and I enjoy people who explore the possabilities is that shallow? .... I dont mandate it but I gravitate towards it in all sorts of ways tattoo's peircings, hair styles etc etc.... I have a distinct preference for lean males ... I like muscles taut under skin as they strain agains restraints ... ... since I am curvy .....am I being shallow in finding males more attractive who are lean or show a fair amount of muscle? and are obviously more athletic looking than I will ever be? Does that make me shallow? rasicism isnt about personal asthetics.... its about hatred and loathing.... not for any single individual but for a whole group defined only by a single chracteristic ....

Daddysredhead -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:35:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Maybe she hasn't had good experiences in interracial dating before. Funny, I wasn't even thinking that it may be a white girl who stated she wanted a white master. I agree with everyone else who has stated that it's personal preference. I have lots of little things that make it "click" for me and that's fine because they are my things on my checklist, not anyone else's. I like dark skin, dark eyes, very tall, thick build or even chubby. It's just my thing. It doesn't mean that I think that only big, tall, strong black men can be a master, it just means that the master that turns me on in the best way (pending a good personality and intelligence) comes in that package. John Warren looks nothing like my Daddy on the outside, but he could stop me in my tracks any day and I'd be more than just a little eager to be a "good submissive" for him, too. [8D]

ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:35:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx You say that you must have a pic of someone who is interested in you, as you have one up, it's only fair, and there has to be a physical attraction. What about women who aren't attracted to black people? or men? or dominants? or people with a muscular body? (good work, btw!) Your assertion that someone you don't know "needs punishment" because they don't want you concerns me greatly. Do you really believe the things you say or are you just looking for attention? Curious, Thank you !! you read even the fine lines......Ok...I was just bored n wanted to see some insights on the topic.

ChemistryMaster1 -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 8:48:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Maybe she hasn't had good experiences in interracial dating before. Funny, I wasn't even thinking that it may be a white girl who stated she wanted a white master. I agree with everyone else who has stated that it's personal preference. I have lots of little things that make it "click" for me and that's fine because they are my things on my checklist, not anyone else's. I like dark skin, dark eyes, very tall, thick build or even chubby. It's just my thing. It doesn't mean that I think that only big, tall, strong black men can be a master, it just means that the master that turns me on in the best way (pending a good personality and intelligence) comes in that package. John Warren looks nothing like my Daddy on the outside, but he could stop me in my tracks any day and I'd be more than just a little eager to be a "good submissive" for him, too. [8D] Thank u so much, BTW I have learned a lot from His web site. JOHN WARREN is My Hero.

Daddysredhead -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 9:01:34 PM)
You're welcome, CM1. And... Libby Warren is a lucky woman. [:)]

azropedntied -> RE: Preference of color (4/10/2008 9:02:45 PM)
Silly me when i saw the subject line i thought this was going to be a color preferance on bdsm toys .

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