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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 4:32:17 PM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		What makes me a good slave to Daddy is I follow his orders and how he wants things done. Plus as sambamanslilgirl said I don't feel like a good slave, I am a good slave nuff said.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 4:56:38 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		I am a good slave because I am a wonderful friend and lover to my Beloved.  I listen to Him, I love Him,  take care of things that I am able so that He doesn't have to, I obey Him, and I do my best when He asks something of me, even when it is difficult for me to do.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 5:07:46 PM   
MRandme


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Status: offline 		hello!

A good slave does what she is told. She is obedient, honest and deserving of trust. 

A great slave takes it further, doing what her/his Master wants before  being instructed to, doing it to the very best of her/his ability with a good attitude, not sulking or doing just enough. (for example, knowing that He is going to be thirsty and pouring a glass of His favorite beverage so that it is waiting when He sits down so He doesn't have to tell you to do it.)

So i have been told.

g



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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 6:06:57 PM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		I am submissive with dominant-sadistic traits who is a slave. I am His slave......He calls me His slave.

What makes me a good slave? Helllllll, I am not sure I am even a good person. The only person that can answer the good slave question is Him. :)



Happy Friday!
~smilezz~

< Message edited by smilezz -- 4/11/2008 6:07:49 PM >

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 6:34:45 PM   
goodpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

I am a good slave because I am a wonderful friend and lover to my Beloved.  I listen to Him, I love Him,  take care of things that I am able so that He doesn't have to, I obey Him, and I do my best when He asks something of me, even when it is difficult for me to do.



You are a good slave, it is wonderful to watch you two together. The committment/love shows..


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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 6:53:40 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I'm not good at service. I am good at pleasing. I don't get off doing stuff just because it needs doing. I do things for the reward, a smile, a sigh of relief when handed a large glass of cold water while working out of doors, positive feedback.

I proof read his letters, make intelligent suggestions, do a lot of research for him. I found a mail order source for a pvc vent pipe cap, something that the local plumbing supply house doesn't have and couldn't get.  The designer he's working with has drawn up unworkable plans for a kitchen, I made a couple of suggestions that allow it to pass code. I read and assimilate knowledge very quickly which allows me to go from ignorant to surface competence quickly, and then I can zero in on the exact points that he needs.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 7:38:00 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		He tells me regularly how happy I make Him, how proud I make Him, how precious I am to Him and how much He loves me. 

Now maybe those feelings aren't all about my slavery, but I am always His slave so I must be doing something right, huh?

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 7:53:58 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		I am  not sure why i am a good slave. My Sir assures me that i am - and there are times he wishes i wasn't because he would like to punish me.   Of course, he punishes me anyway!  catch-22.

I think maybe some of that is because when he gives me an order, i do it immediately, without question - or eyerolling. I don't even have the urge to eyeroll - or wish that he would just die as i did with my ex-husband. lol
these things sound small when writing them, but feel bigger in real life. I serve my Sir first, as he requires, with the handle pointed towards him so he can take it without mucking around. i cook to please him. i try to keep what he likes to eat in the house. i make sure we don't run out of coffee. i make sure we always have clean coffee cups. i keep kleenex in the house.  i welcome all his friends, and tolerate some of them, so they would never know that i didn't like them. My Sir knows what i think of them, and thinks i am a good hostess. When he gets into bed (i go to bed before him) i move my legs over to warm his feet (always has cold feet).  For Christmas i got him a cd of a singer that he really enjoyed 20 years ago who recently put out a new album, and a book of poetry that he enjoys, and a stainless steel butt hook, because he wouldn't spend the money himself on another toy.  All gifts that showed that i had listened to him and remembered things he enjoyed or expressed an idle wanting for.

Small things that make him feel loved and considered.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 8:15:33 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		I submit with grace and docility. I also give him my very best effort...always. Plus, I'm slut and I love pain.

Ohhh and Daddy just said that I'm his favorite PITA.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 8:30:29 PM   
kyraofMists


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ORIGINAL: smilezz

Helllllll, I am not sure I am even a good person.



Awwww.... but you are shining, so you have to be good... shining things are good 

Knight's Kyra



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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 9:10:46 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		My devotion to him, in whatever way it needs to be.  I am not mindless I have will - he loves that,  however when He decides it is time to do as he says he knows I will do just that.

We are a team, we compliment each other, we are devoted to each other, we trust each other. 

Owned

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 9:44:32 PM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		my willingness to please Him. Even when i screw up its not so bad because He knows how i try . that i'm always honest and He can trust me completely.that i can function outside of the M/s relationship and its not the only thing in my life. my looks dont matter but my intelligence does.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/11/2008 10:14:43 PM   
fairerthanshe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I have been tasked with learning more about slavery from other slaves to make me a better one.  I'm not looking for a debate about what a slave is, but for qualities or actions that make a slave a good one.

I know that slaves still think and feel, act respectfully, and are pleased to do their duties.  I know that it is still their job to communicate well within the limits that they are given and it is still their right to use a safe word when they feel it is necessary.

Besides these common things, I would love to hear what makes you good at serving.  (Dominants are welcome to share their viewpoints.)


Greetings,

Here is a short list:

1) Remaining humble in all that I do for him and being mindful that the ultimate goal of any service is his pleasure. 

2) Having little expectation for acknowledgment of service. 

3) Being absolutely obedient in every way possible; both execution and attitude.

well wishes ~ fairer than she




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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/12/2008 5:23:28 AM   
wisteriaV


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Status: offline 		Ive been with Master real time for about three and a half years now. We have managed the good the bad and the wide varriances inbetween the those two ..I  refused to let anything stop me from giving him my best no matter what goes on. I have cmoe to appreciate the little things that are exchanged between us without words..Ive learned to do things for him  without him saying anything. So anything that pleases him, makes me a good slave in his eyes and ultimately as long as he and I are happy, nothing else matters.

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/12/2008 5:33:25 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Fox is a good slave becasue he seems happiest when his day revolves around me. He does not question most of what I ask of him, gives his best effort on all of it even if he doesnt think it can be done. He does not assume he knows what I will want, but listens carefully enough to notice when I mention something might be nice so that when he has a bit of time that isnt devoted to things he had been asked to do, he can fill in wit something he knows I will appreciate. And he is right, I tell him he is a good slave, which means for me, he is.

Angel has his moments, but he is a good slave because he knows his place with me and only with me. I see a side of him through his service no one else knows exists and it is ours alone. That makes him a good slave in my eyes.

DV

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/12/2008 5:59:33 AM   
epiphany


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I am not a submissive person by nature, actually most in the community have seen me primarily on the Top side (in the last seven years at least) and I have owned. I did role play being a slave for quite some time years ago, but this is a completely different animal

  But, I am this man's slave.

That's part of what HE feels makes me a good slave, the fact that my submission is based on my feelings for him and not a usual part of who I am. It makes it unique to him and enslaved is the right word to discribe it. He knows for a fact that I'm not just catering to my own desire to submit and be under the authority of another, because that wasn't present without him.

  It is my absolute faith, love and respect for him that brought me to be able to give him complete control without bonderies. It happened very naturally over time, as it should.

  Those are our thoughts on our situation. Each is unique

epiphany

(I am pre-coffee, so forgive me if I didn't express that well)

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/12/2008 7:12:04 AM   
smilezz


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Awwww.... but you are shining, so you have to be good... shining things are good 

*grinz* we may not want to inform anyone about this......I mean it COULD blow my cover, people may think that I am nice!


Happy Saturday!!

~smilezz~

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RE: What makes you a good slave? - 4/12/2008 8:08:37 AM   
lubegirl


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Status: offline 		For me it is to SERVE, PLEASE and OBEY..and do it with a smile and a good attitude.
 
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