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Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 2:45:34 PM

MistressVnus

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If you cuck your slave.....how do you look for a Bull? What have you found to be most effective? Where do you look?
What do you require for "legitamacy." Do you think a m/Dom is a good idea...?? Or, another slave with Alpha tendencies?
Inquiring minds wanna know!!

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 3:11:43 PM

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As someone who enjoys the bull role....

... don't even try to grab him by the horns. It'd make me laugh. Beyond that, looking online, I'd write male dominants who already have a submissive or slave but are interested in others. It helps to ensure that this will be a very specific purpose, without any expectation of a long term, emotional relationship (assuming you don't really want that.) An ad on craigslist as a MF4M is also a good way to go; make it clear you want a strong, aggressive man (again, if that's what you're hoping for) for NSA encounters, while your man watches.

By doing the search yourself, you can sift through photos (I'm assuming you want to enjoy the experience, and it's usually a purely physical experience), and make the decision about who YOU want. Simply put, there are a glut of men looking for women for a fling, and not very many women interested in it.

Good luck,

Stephan

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 4:04:07 PM

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All that I'd need to consider a fellow a legitimate bull would be that I want to fuck him and that he's truly available for that kind of activity. I don't want any phone calls from angry wives or girlfriends, nor do I want drama from some fellow who has become overattached.

When it comes to intercourse, I like it rough-ish but basically vanilla-ish, so I wouldn't seek out a maledom or alpha sub for this unless they were able to put their domly or subly tendencies aside. I haven't really had to look for candidates - we have plenty of friends who are up for a bit of slap and tickle - but if I were to actively seek I'd be looking in more vanilla venues.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 5:55:40 PM

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Hahaha, Stephann, you'd be the perfect bull for a Domme! You're attractive, aggressive, and completely charming

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 8:31:00 PM

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quote:

Hahaha, Stephann, you'd be the perfect bull for a Domme! You're attractive, aggressive, and completely charming

Yea...but is he in FL?..Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 8:34:03 PM

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quote:

When it comes to intercourse, I like it rough-ish but basically vanilla-ish,

Ditto...and I want to humilate my cuck with that type of power dynamic....some guy makig me gasp....pulling my hair....
but, resectfully, of course.....then making my cuck....lick my juicees up.....chastity fully intact.
And, yes...all safe sex.

So. Mme.....got any chat rooms or places to loof for Bulls that is "plentiful?"

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 8:45:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: khem

Hahaha, Stephann, you'd be the perfect bull for a Domme! You're attractive, aggressive, and completely charming

Awww you're too sweet! Lemme know when you've got a guy you want to cuck, and I'll be happy to oblige

If one doesn't present himself... well, we can always practice

Stephan

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 8:47:39 PM

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quote:

Lemme know when you've got a guy you want to cuck,

I got the guy...you got the location?

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/11/2008 9:17:32 PM

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Well, I live near LA, and Khem lives about an hour and a half north of me. We actually had a great time the other night dancing So... you're welcome to come visit?

Stephan

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 4:23:43 AM

MistressVnus

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So... you're welcome to come visit?

Well, thank you for the invite. However, I was looking for something a little more local.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 4:46:33 AM

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As someone who was in a cuck relationship for years (as the cuck) the best bull we had was a married who had Dom tendencies. His wife had medical issues but knew about everything and even encouraged it. Things work best when everyone knows where they stand and there is no lying or cheating. The one thing that always became a problem was when a bull would decide he wanted more than a sexual relationship. That is a tendency to be avoided and through communication could be ferreted out. We had developed a pretty complex screening system to help us out. Screen, communicate, screen, communicate, screen....

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 8:00:32 AM

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The one thing that always became a problem was when a bull would decide he wanted more than a sexual relationship. That is a tendency to be avoided and through communication could be ferreted out.

Well, I am not opposed to a poly household. However, he could not be a Dom. He would have to be submissive to me.
I live by the famous quote of Queen Elizabeth I : "There is only ONE Mistress in this house!! And there shall be NO Master!!"

But, I find poly can be extremely draining. I am more inclined to have a fem/slave to complete the household. However, with the right chemistry....anyone/thing is possible. *greedygrin*

< Message edited by MistressVnus -- 4/12/2008 8:02:00 AM >

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 10:49:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

quote:

The one thing that always became a problem was when a bull would decide he wanted more than a sexual relationship. That is a tendency to be avoided and through communication could be ferreted out.

Well, I am not opposed to a poly household. However, he could not be a Dom. He would have to be submissive to me.
I live by the famous quote of Queen Elizabeth I : "There is only ONE Mistress in this house!! And there shall be NO Master!!"

But, I find poly can be extremely draining. I am more inclined to have a fem/slave to complete the household. However, with the right chemistry....anyone/thing is possible. *greedygrin*

Usually when they wanted more it meant the exclusion of our primary relationship (ie.. "Leave him for me!"). That wasn't going to happen with a bull and was stated up front. Personally I tend to stay away from poly or couples unless they are truly extraordinary people because I prefer to be the primary. Everyone is different and wants different things but I do know the key to a success is communication and lots of it. One thing we did that worked very well was that she would give a guy a hj with the first encounter. No kissing, no other touching, no pretty much anything just a hj and a lot of talk/questions. You can tell alot about the guy from that.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 11:09:11 AM

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Well, I suppose I'm sort of the "Bull" in a sense...and I certainly don't fit any of the mental images that come to mind... I'm a slave, and I certainly have no desire to dom and/or Alpha anybody.

Angel, who is my Owner's other pet, has an entirely non-sexual relationship with her due to religous reasons. He also has deep cuckholding fantasies.

Now, being my Owner's sex slave as well as her fiance, we do have sex rather often. He does't watch, and probably never will despite having fantasies of being in the closet. He doesn't take part, and never will. Yet, he does ask about it every so often and my Owner is more than willing to tell him about it. It all fits into his kink, so it's harmless. I, for one, don't understand what he sees in it at all...but it's harmless enough. If he and I ever meet face-to-face, then the three of us will maintain a decidedly vanilla dynamic. He and I have no interest in one another, and our Owner has no desire for us to have an interest in one another.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 11:42:23 AM

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I get contacted about this.

I think I scare the fuck out of the females that want it though. I don't allow any conditions in any encounter I have with others. That in itself seems to thrill them until they discover I'm quite serious.

I guess if you really want a cuckhold situation the Bull won't be submitting to anyone. His will reigns supreme.

Now my name has nothing to do with this practice, it is simply a coincidence. I am however not altogether opposed to this activity. At least in a way that I approve of.

I had a fellow that worked for me once. I was set to fire him and his rather attractive wife begged that I didn't fire him. Her purposal was that she would do whatever it took to keep me from putting them on welfare.

I would imagine this would have to be considered a cuck like experience. One in which another man's woman became another man's property, indirectly. The cucked man would have no say as to what was done with her and in fact she might be expected to disallow him any sexual priviledge, and perhaps be called away from him at hight to serve sexual purposes elsewhere. She might even have been made to work as a dancer in a club and her earnings was not even hers to keep. Charity as a stage name holds much irony at times.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 12:53:13 PM

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Yech.

Male dominants are so freakin' creepy sometimes.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 12:59:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Yech. Male dominants are so freakin' creepy sometimes.

It takes all kinds.. did I mention screen, screen, and screen again?

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 1:19:26 PM

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muwahahahahahahahahaha........

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 1:57:24 PM

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ORIGINAL:
It takes all kinds.. did I mention screen, screen, and screen again?

No kidding. Yeeeesh.

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RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. - 4/12/2008 3:22:48 PM

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Mistress had a male friend she would invite over to fuck her while I watched. She'd moan and groan and tell me that I could never please her like he could........that I wasn't man enough.......that my cock was too small..........etc. When they were finished, she'd make me get between her legs and lick up his cum and her juices from her pussy..........she'd use me as a clean-up boy. Then she'd tell me there was a way I could pleasure her..........so she'd pull out her strap-on and pound my asshole with it as hard as she could until I was crying from the pain. That pleased her a lot.

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