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ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 10:01:37 AM   
dmc68


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Status: offline 		I came here to make some online friends with gals who have kinks (not necessarily like me) and can relate with me.

I send out a nice email to some with the intention of strikin up friendships, a couple have been wonderful by answering.

Just curious how it is on your end. Do you get swamped with emails all day?
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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 11:00:02 AM   
MzBerlin


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Status: offline 		Hey There-
I get lots of crazee notes in my c.com box. I delete the one-liners, the pornographic notes and the form letters.
I suggest that you sound a bit more confident in your profile statement. Just some advice. Please email me with any questions you have.
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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 1:46:56 PM   
kiki blue


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From: Brisbane, Australia
Status: offline 		I don't get many responses from my ad, perhaps because I'm fishing in a smaller pool than my US counterparts.

I haven't had any "I'd like to be friends" responses from anyone as yet. Plenty of "you will submit to me now" ones...blech.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 2:24:27 PM   
pixieunleashed


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My very first day here, I joined at 12pm, and between then and 2pm, I recieved 22 emails from different people. Since then, I only get 3-4 a day now.

pixie


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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 2:24:42 PM   
darkinshadows


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiki blue

I don't get many responses from my ad, perhaps because I'm fishing in a smaller pool than my US counterparts.

I haven't had any "I'd like to be friends" responses from anyone as yet. Plenty of "you will submit to me now" ones...blech.


Angel will be Your friend kiki... *cheeky grin*...If You would like!

But seriously... so far I have only had a couple of 'negative' emails of the 'submit to me now!' section... I think I have been fortunate to have meet people just wishing to converse.


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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 2:34:55 PM   
SirAardvark


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Status: offline 		It would probably be better, especially for the women, not to post a picture until their name is off the new member list. In fact, the new member list may not be such a good idea at all.

As an experiment, I put up a dummy female profile. Within a few hours, it was swamped with emails. Only a handful nice. Most were silly, and a few downright scary. One was straight out of silence of the lambs - "it will email me back with its address telephone number and picture."

Yeah right. I suppose he wanted some fava beans too.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 3:22:27 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pixieunleashed
quote:

My very first day here, I joined at 12pm, and between then and 2pm, I recieved 22 emails from different people. Since then, I only get 3-4 a day now.
pixie



I got something similar, but not 22... maybe a dozen in the first day. And then it died down some, like to one a day. But what I find funny is that I have this little line in my profile that says:

You must be local to me (Montreal area) and I will not entertain an online affair.

But they still try. And some offer to relocate from other countries. I find it all fascinating...

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 4:45:45 PM   
dmc68


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Status: offline 		ah, i am not trying to sound confident, or not confident or anything in my profile. I am just here to hang out and have fun, maybe make a friend or two along the way.

Thanx for the advice though. :)

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 5:04:20 PM   
MizSuz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirAardvark

Yeah right. I suppose he wanted some fava beans too.



Don't forget the 'good chianti.' ffffttt ftttt ffftttt ftt

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 5:06:29 PM   
MizSuz


Posts: 1881
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Status: offline 		I used to get a lot, but I took the fetishy pics down, turned the profile into a 'go away and leave me alone' statement and have been automatically blocking anybody that contacts me specifically to serve. So, I don't get the volume I used to (thank gawd).

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 6:07:46 PM   
CuriousPuppy


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Status: offline 		I've had two males who were both listed as straight contact me and refer to me as a female... now... that alone might be understandable given the fact that I do mention that I somewhat enjoy things to that extent... But, given the fact that when I responded to them and told them I was a guy, they both said thanks for being upfront and telling me that... well... It's kinda sad really that they didn't see that I was uh... male.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 7:23:08 PM   
MzBerlin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dmc68

ah, i am not trying to sound confident, or not confident or anything in my profile. I am just here to hang out and have fun, maybe make a friend or two along the way.

Thanx for the advice though. :)


dmc-
You stated in your original post that you were here to make friends. I'm just pointing out something that is overlooked even in the 'nilla world. Put your best face forward. If you assume that no one is going to be into the same kink as you, there won't be. I have a paperwork kink. Do you know how rare that is? Just so happens that when I wasn't looking a paperwork fetishist popped into my life. Strange, but true!! It wasn't specific advice and I wasn't attacking you. I just read your profile and with a profile that states that you don't think that anyone out there is like you, you're just alienating yourself. There are plenty of kinks and plenty of people.
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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/19/2004 11:35:20 PM   
proudsub


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From: Washington
Status: offline 		Since my profiles says i'm married to my Dom and not looking i don't get too many messages. Most of what i get is from the over 50 crowd wanting to chat about the lifestyle. I have also had a few from people with vanilla spouses wanting advice or a friend.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 3:14:39 AM   
kiki blue


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quote:

ORIGINAL: dark~angel
Angel will be Your friend kiki... *cheeky grin*...If You would like!


Ya can't have too many friends

What I'd like to see is more compatible men in my area *le sigh*.

I'm not terribly interested in 60 year old men, which is what I seem to attract.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 3:24:02 AM   
darkinshadows


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quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

Since my profiles says i'm married to my Dom and not looking i don't get too many messages.


Same goes for Angel, proud... maybe it is the fact that we state we are married (whether to a Dom or not) in our profiles that puts the 'submit to me now' brigade off!

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 3:26:18 AM   
darkinshadows


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiki blue

Ya can't have too many friends



Yay!
I gots a new friend!
*big smiles*

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 4:05:51 AM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CuriousPuppy
It's kinda sad really that they didn't see that I was uh... male.


Maybe it would help if you took those pink panties off ;)

- LA

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 8:59:16 AM   
dmc68


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Status: offline 		well thank you everyone for the replies. I just shoot off an email if I see a cool profile.

Hope ya do not mind.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 9:03:26 AM   
Laura


Posts: 573
Joined: 6/22/2004
From: Ontario, Canada
Status: offline 		I've sent out a few "I'd like to be friends" but seldom get any response. Those that do just tell me what they are looking for in a sub/ Dom. As if I asked. If you would like to write Kiki send me a note. I'd enjoy chatting. I'm way over here in Canada. Australians are fun, I've been penpals with several of them over the years.

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RE: ok girls what is it like on your end? - 7/20/2004 9:09:22 AM   
Laura


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MizSuz

I used to get a lot, but I took the fetishy pics down, turned the profile into a 'go away and leave me alone' statement and have been automatically blocking anybody that contacts me specifically to serve. So, I don't get the volume I used to (thank gawd).


I have the opposite. I took down my picture, chopped my profile and I get more responses than before.

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