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RE: The Interview - 4/15/2008 4:19:49 AM

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I have a fun question I ask everyone. Vanilla date or otherwise. I am in a flash able to ascertain whats the most important thing to them. See my new thread,"Last day on earth" to read and ponder.

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 7:19:06 AM

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I am a very shy person, and I know meeting anyone for the first time is better in puplic, before I meet anyone should I tell them I am that shy?

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 7:21:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveintraning

I am a very shy person, and I know meeting anyone for the first time is better in puplic, before I meet anyone should I tell them I am that shy?

Very much so. Otherwise they might interpret your shyness as disinterest.

BTW if it's social anxiety, there are treatments available.

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 7:38:10 AM

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Watch their eyes -- if they look to the left, it means they're fabricating an answer. If they look to the right, they're speaking from memory.

What a noncence, ever had a conversation with someone you dont know and never turned your eyes away???

That's just impossible!!!

that's My

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ask about the rest of their hobbys, and let it not all boil down to Bdsm.
If there is a real click, then there will be plenty more talks !

I wish you enough.

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 10:42:39 AM

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Watch their eyes -- if they look to the left, it means they're fabricating an answer. If they look to the right, they're speaking from memory.

I also like to throw people off with random questions, such as "choose one: pirates or ninjas?" and "do you have an escape/defense plan in the event of a zombie attack?" Proves that they're paying attention and are thinking on their feet. And also, if they get weirded out, then we probably would not get along anyway, because I love me some pirates and zombies.

Unfortunately shows like CSI have perpetuated the myth that the right/left gaze is an absolute truth. That's only works about half the time. A skilled liar, the one you should really be afraid of, knows to hold eye contact.

Good point, and what if, just as you ask the question, a girl walks by with cleavage down to her navel. Now, I am not saying my attention would ever leave the women I am talking to, but I can't guarentee my eyes won't jump in which ever direction the nipples are pointing, if only for a moment.

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 7:54:22 PM

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Hey guys, I haven't quite gotten the point that people disagree with me about what I learned in psych. Do me a favor and post more comments saying "LOL UR RONG" because seriously, five isn't enough. It's got to be at least ten.

Thanks!

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 8:00:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

Hey guys, I haven't quite gotten the point that people disagree with me about what I learned in psych. Do me a favor and post more comments saying "LOL UR RONG" because seriously, five isn't enough. It's got to be at least ten.

Thanks!

Isn't you telling us to do what you don't want us to do topping from the bottom? :-) That's bad form, right? I'm sure I read that in The New Bottoming Book or some such...

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 8:03:02 PM

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Isn't you telling us to do what you don't want us to do topping from the bottom? :-) That's bad form, right? I'm sure I read that in The New Bottoming Book or some such...

But I'm a Domme, so topping from the bottom is supposedly okay for me.

Unless I missed a memo somewhere...

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 8:07:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

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Isn't you telling us to do what you don't want us to do topping from the bottom? :-) That's bad form, right? I'm sure I read that in The New Bottoming Book or some such...

But I'm a Domme, so topping from the bottom is supposedly okay for me.

Unless I missed a memo somewhere...

But if you are a Domme / Top topping from top or bottom can you really be bottom from whence to top?

Top that.

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 8:15:08 PM

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But if you are a Domme / Top topping from top or bottom can you really be bottom from whence to top?

So one could argue that I wasn't really topping from the bottom, but just topping in general. No location needed.

And sure, it's easy as Hell to be the top even when you're on the bottom when you've got your ankles around his neck and you're hissing orders at him.

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RE: The Interview - 4/18/2008 8:28:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

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But if you are a Domme / Top topping from top or bottom can you really be bottom from whence to top?

So one could argue that I wasn't really topping from the bottom, but just topping in general. No location needed.

And sure, it's easy as Hell to be the top even when you're on the bottom when you've got your ankles around his neck and you're hissing orders at him.

A rose by any other name...

Your wisdom and logic are without flaw. I concede the point to the beneficent Pyrrsefanie.

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RE: The Interview - 4/19/2008 6:29:30 AM

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Perhaps you will be willing to share, what if you were ask to define yoursself in five words or less? Would you feel challenged, would you become defensive, would you simply dismiss the question and person?

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RE: The Interview - 4/19/2008 12:25:10 PM

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I do favor open ended questions such as: what brings you here, what kind of experience do you have, what books have you read about D/s, what are your limits, etc.

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