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slaveneedledick -> Profile (4/12/2008 12:12:11 PM)

i know this has been brought before numerous times but i am trying to redo my profile and looking for suggestions on improvement. i do know put a photo or two up and that is something i have been thinking of doing anyways. i little about me is, i am married to a vanilla in an open marriage. Any suggestions would be helpful.



Shawn1066 -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 12:58:24 PM)

i wish to be humiliated, degraded, used, and abused..
Some of my interests include crossdressing, humiliation, worship of the Domme, strap-ons.
 
Personally, I wouldn't put the thing in bold.  A lot of Dommes may get a "topping from the bottom" vibe from it.  I don't think there's anything wrong about being upfront with your interests...but something rubs me a little wrong about how you got it across.
 
Personally, I enjoyed the very last part of your profile the best.  It had a bit of genuine-ness to it.  I like that in people, personally.  It's also good that you were open and honest about your marriage up front, rather than springing it on somebody.
 
I think it'd be nice if you talked about yourself a little more, and less about your kinks...though do feel free to keep them included.  If a Domme reads about you, and learns about you as a person a little bit...she'll be more likely to be interested in you.  If she looks at your profile and just sees a person who wants a bunch of kinks to be fulfilled...well...
 
She has hundreds upon hundreds of other options on the site, doesn't she?
 
So, you need pics, as you know and you need to set yourself apart from the crowd.
 
DV's Fox




MladyHathor -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 1:01:01 PM)

... i am, i am, i am, i wish to be, i wish to be, i wish to be---and what are you willing to do for someone after they meet YOUR needs.
 
(that's a hint by the way--a little less me centric maybe?)



Raechard -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 1:05:58 PM)

Although names aren’t the be all and end all some people will never take you seriously if you ridicule yourself.[8|]



Shawn1066 -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 1:11:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

Although names aren’t the be all and end all some people will never take you seriously if you ridicule yourself.[8|]


This is true.  I(even though I'm not a domme) got an extremely bad vibe when I read your name.  From your profile, and your journal, you seem like a decent person.

Not the first impression I got, though.

DV's Fox



Stephann -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 1:16:06 PM)

Everything you could possibly want to know from me about fixing your profile can be found HERE:

Men: Find a Woman here

Stephan



MladyHathor -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 2:56:39 PM)

That is according to you and your perceptions, it may not be everyone's. [8|]



Stephann -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 3:57:35 PM)

Erm, what part of "from me" wasn't clear?



MladyHathor -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 4:11:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

Erm, what part of "from me" wasn't clear?


True, but the fact that is was put out there as a post with others weighing in and you reference it, may make newbies think it is the definitive--you know like the smack one feels when LA sends out links on old topics--just My personal take---and the fact that there is an art to capturing a Domina's attention, IMHO
 
[8D]




realtuffdom -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 5:46:12 PM)

I often consider my own profile to be the example that all people on collarme should follow. I say this with a lot of modesty, too. I mean, A LOT of modesty. It's actually been said by quite a few people that I'm one of the more modest people they know. Actually, that's not completely true. They say I'm the MOST modest person they know. And it's true because my modesty knows no bounds.



Spankinatrix -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 6:02:50 PM)

I put a few tips and suggestions of what I like to read up in a recent journal entry, you may find it helpful.  As for your nick, I am also not fond of it.  As soon as the conversation is directed to his penis, I wander off in search of more enticing prey.  I'll take it in that direction if I want, which isn't often.
SS



Stephann -> RE: Profile (4/12/2008 8:34:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

Erm, what part of "from me" wasn't clear?


True, but the fact that is was put out there as a post with others weighing in and you reference it, may make newbies think it is the definitive--you know like the smack one feels when LA sends out links on old topics--just My personal take---and the fact that there is an art to capturing a Domina's attention, IMHO



I agree, there's an art to capturing the attention of a woman regardless of the side of the whip she's on.  I've been rather successful at meeting all sorts of folk online, it's why I wrote that essay in the first place.  Did you take the time to read it, before criticizing it?

Stephan



slaveneedledick -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 7:39:36 AM)

Thank you A/all for the advice and i am working on it.



MsStarlett -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 7:51:50 AM)

I truely enjoyed Stephan's posts about finding a man or woman on here and thought he had very valid points and constructive suggestions.  All anyone can write about is their own personal opinions, views or experiences.  None of us can speak for another.  Each has the ability to post rebuttals.



spinninsweetness -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 8:01:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: realtuffdom

I often consider my own profile to be the example that all people on collarme should follow. I say this with a lot of modesty, too. I mean, A LOT of modesty. It's actually been said by quite a few people that I'm one of the more modest people they know. Actually, that's not completely true. They say I'm the MOST modest person they know. And it's true because my modesty knows no bounds.


Good profile, nice cock.



slaveneedledick -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 8:13:55 AM)

Ok here is what i have worked on so far and i would greatly appreciate comments on it.

Are you the one for me or better yet am i the one of many for you?

i spent 13 years in the military and take orders well. i am seeking for something i want. Of course my wants are secondary to your needs and as a submissive i do realize that. i have many interests both in the lifestyle and outside. i will say i am very a reserved person at first until i get to know you. I am married to a vanilla wife and the marriage is open meaning I can seek a dominant partner. I prefer someone between 21 and 50 that is not a pro dome, local for friendship and play.

Some of my interests in include cross-dressing, humiliation, the worship of the Dominant, strap-ons. Though my interests are just a basic outline I am willing to expand my horizons. I am not a pain slut but am willing to experience pain for you.

Some of my vanilla interests are camping, sports, computers, and having normal conversations.

My limits are as follows: no permanent injuries or markings, safe sane and consensual play, no children or anything illegal.



MladyHathor -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 8:51:46 AM)

wel beyond the age requirement, perhaps a section about: " I am looking for someone who.... "and name some things you'd like to see in Her?
 
I would also move the local. play up a bit as then those looking for an LTR can scan past that.  Maybe tuffDom can lend you his cock shot?
 
[8|]



MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 9:24:46 AM)

I would read your name, then not bother reading your profile, personally.



slaveneedledick -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 9:44:14 AM)

i have a new profile which i am going to post the new info under but until then i am just trying to get feed back.



khem -> RE: Profile (4/13/2008 10:19:04 PM)

Yes, I was going to say that I do not typically look at profiles with self-humiliating names



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