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Goddess2002 -> RE: Profile (4/14/2008 3:17:54 AM)
I really think Stephan's link is right on the money...I would've recommended it if he hadn't already. Excellent advice there. Glad you'll be changing your username...generally speaking it is a major disqualifier. Also, although I appreciate your candor about your marriage (you are 100% correct in being upfront about it), understand that it is a limiting factor, especially since you specify a preference for non-pro Dommes. Also, a photograph would help. Also...perhaps it's just Me but all your journal entries about not finding what you want can be tiresome...they suggest impatience and self-centeredness. I would start from scratch in your new profile.

undergroundsea -> RE: Profile (4/14/2008 5:09:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann FYI, my spyware blocking software gives a spyware warning for tinyurl.com It could be the spyware software is wrong, it could be that tinyurl does do something in return for offering its service. In any case, since you are using a hyperlink, have you considered using the URL for the collarme thread directly? Thanks for sharing the thread. Cheers, Sea

Mustardseed -> RE: Profile (4/14/2008 7:27:09 AM)
I agree with the other folks who've been posting. Your profile reads like your assuming that women will be applying for the position of dominant rather than the fact that you're trying to apply for the position of submissive. Like with any other resume, the point is to sell yourself to the dominant. What can you do for her? What kind of service can you provide her? Professional-level massage? Driving? Errands? Housecleaning? Yard work? Cooking? Auto repair? Secretarial / administrative? How are you useful? If you don't think that you're all that useful at present, what are you willing to do to change that? There are community colleges and beauty schools that offer classes in basics. If you start to pursue that route then you could detail your progress in your blog here rather than complain about how you still haven't found a dominant yet. Be positive and proactive by actively working towards your goal. Don't assume that your checklist says everything else the reader needs to know -- flesh out what makes you unique in your written profile. Why should you be considered a prize? Why are you such a wonderful submissive that a dominant should be willing to sidestep the constrains of your marriage just to take you on? And please change the username. If you must describe your penis, you could say something like: an ideal starter size for anal sex does an excellent helicopter impression depending on rope tricks used easily tucked away into a gaf for cross-dressing purposes Given that I can't think of too many reasons why this would be necessary to state in your profile, though, maybe you could wait until she asks. Photos of you -- clothed -- that either have your face blurred out, are taken from a distance, giving a back view or that otherwise dismiss your face could be useful if anonymity is important to you. I also agree that fleshing out the information about you as a person and your interests in the day-to-day world will help your profile stand out more. Good luck!

Dnomyar -> RE: Profile (4/14/2008 7:52:40 AM)
I have to agree with the others here. needledick is not going to get it. You should try peckerhead. You need to learn to be more creative. Good grief the pot calling the kettle black. Sorry about that.

undergroundsea -> RE: Profile (4/14/2008 9:31:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mustardseed And please change the username. If you must describe your penis, you could say something like: an ideal starter size for anal sex does an excellent helicopter impression depending on rope tricks used easily tucked away into a gaf for cross-dressing purposes I once participated in a slave auction at an Fm party. Each slave was given a ridiculing name. I was named slave needledick. Umm, the names were assigned arbitrarily ;-) Anyway, each slave was put in a cage when it was his turn, at which point he read an introduction of self. I said that I was skilled in foot massages. I added that I did not know reflexology or any other holistic health modalities but given my name I suppose I could provide vaginal acupuncture ;-) Cheers, Sea

dawntreader -> RE: Profile (4/14/2008 10:07:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea ...but given my name I suppose I could provide vaginal acupuncture ;-) Cheers, Sea THAT was great![:D] To the OP, i am glad you are changing your name. i think you will find it will make a difference~

Stephann -> RE: Profile (4/15/2008 7:46:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann FYI, my spyware blocking software gives a spyware warning for tinyurl.com It could be the spyware software is wrong, it could be that tinyurl does do something in return for offering its service. In any case, since you are using a hyperlink, have you considered using the URL for the collarme thread directly? Thanks for sharing the thread. Cheers, Sea Hiya Sea, Thanks for the heads up. It's probably because they use a tracking cookie or something. I use it in order to fit the text that I do into my signature (only 255 characters allowed.) Stephan

leashseeker -> RE: Profile (4/15/2008 1:23:03 PM)
Well i have posted my new profle leashseeker. i am still working on the pictures but hopefully it is a better profile.

Stephann -> RE: Profile (4/15/2008 1:33:20 PM)
Leash, A much better start. Be prepared to face an enormous amount of rejection. You can make things much easier by becoming a regular at a local munch and/or lifestyle group. Women tend to be flooded online to begin with, so meeting them where they can deal with you in the present is the next step. Good luck! Stephan

undergroundsea -> RE: Profile (4/15/2008 8:22:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann I use it in order to fit the text that I do into my signature (only 255 characters allowed.) I understand. Thanks for clarifying :) Cheers, Sea

leashseeker -> RE: Profile (4/19/2008 10:07:28 AM)
Just wanted to say thanks for all the advice E/everyone gave me. My next step is to find a munch and attend and meet others.

slaveintraning -> RE: Profile (4/19/2008 6:44:05 PM)
My screen name is misspelled, not many have pointed out. Don't think I am going to change it as of yet. Finding it strange that if one or two words are misspelled on a profile, or sending email to a Mistress, is that bad, or make me look bad, as a slave?

MZJULIA -> RE: Profile (4/19/2008 10:05:13 PM)
Only thought I now have after reading through the many posts here regarding you and your new profile when I looked at it is....If your in an open marriage where your vanilla wife doesnt mind you seeking a Domme why are you in the bathroom , door closed taking your own picture? Why didnt your wife take one? sorry but just immediately thort ..secretive boi MZ.JXXX

leashseeker -> RE: Profile (4/19/2008 10:57:15 PM)
I took it when no one was home and the door is closed so I had room to take the picture.

khem -> RE: Profile (4/19/2008 11:00:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slaveintraning My screen name is misspelled, not many have pointed out. Don't think I am going to change it as of yet. Finding it strange that if one or two words are misspelled on a profile, or sending email to a Mistress, is that bad, or make me look bad, as a slave? One of the things that makes me happy is someone with an attention to detail. I think maybe some of us translate a poorly written profile to just not caring enough. If someone can't be bothered to form sentences or use a spell check, it really makes me afraid of what might happen when they try to do hand-washables. Just my 2 cents.

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