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colouredin -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 5:55:50 PM)
opps KS your halo is slipping, watch it doesnt strangle ya lol ta GT my darling [:D]

kittinSol -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 5:57:57 PM)
The halo slipped a long, long time ago. I've been wearing it around my ankles for a while now, to make do for the absence of knickers.

xxblushesxx -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 5:59:27 PM)
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hopelessfool -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 6:10:49 PM)
Colour, Im a slut, just selctive, Ive always wanted to meet someone at a bar sleep with them and never see them again, but... I dont have the nerve/balls to do it.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 6:13:24 PM)
quote: mind you i am a slut who isn't?[;)] That's what this whole thread is about...all of us sluts besmirching the fine tradition of BDSM. ~ slutidarity

midgetmafiosa -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 6:22:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hopelessfool Colour, Im a slut, just selctive, Ive always wanted to meet someone at a bar sleep with them and never see them again, but... I dont have the nerve/balls to do it. Trust me sister, it's not that hard. The words "wanna fuck?" will disarm even the most intimidating of men.

hopelessfool -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 6:38:08 PM)
But I always have the fear, that something bad will happen... Im me... I know my luck... chances are something bad will happen... Being hit in the head by a golf ball... when I was standing 30 feet behind the ball being hit... Situations like that..

midgetmafiosa -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 6:41:34 PM)
honey, something bad can happen walking down the street just as easily. trust me, i'm a font of bad luck. can't let that stand in the way of what you want, though. i believe in living out my fantasies to the best of my ability. carry some condoms in your purse and see where life takes you.

hopelessfool -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 6:47:51 PM)
-chuckles- Maybe your right, but it will have to wait a few years 2 to be exact. Bars about here are 21 and over. No breasts about it.

midgetmafiosa -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 7:09:12 PM)
oh! then yes, it most certainly will have to wait, missy! be safe and good in the meantime! heehee!

OnlyMels -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 7:18:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: katsmeow So, I don't post a lot, but something is really bothering me more and more on here. The more I read e-mail, the more people just want 'play.' Is it impossible to keep your morals in tact and still be in this lifestyle? I talked to someone today who wrote a nasty journal entry about me, because I'm apparently prude. Just because I don't want to take my clothes off and play with a stranger I just met? I call that being safe... But really, my point of view on this is, play being like a vanilla second date, the initial one is a nice dinner, and second one is bringing over edible body paint and licking it off of one another's nude bodies with no emotional connection. I don't deny that there are exceptions to this, but really, is it that common? What happened to the days when people were sane, and didn't want girls that fucked everything with legs? =[ I have to agree with you. It would have to be more than 2 dates to start licking anything off someone unless I've been talking to them in person for a while. I talked to Daddy about 2 months in person before we went out on a date and I think we dated for a couple months before we had sex.

hopelessfool -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 7:34:34 PM)
-shifty eyes- What do you mean by be..."Good" I do not know or understand this word.... -giggles-

missbratly -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 8:36:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: katsmeow So, I don't post a lot, but something is really bothering me more and more on here. The more I read e-mail, the more people just want 'play.' Is it impossible to keep your morals in tact and still be in this lifestyle? I talked to someone today who wrote a nasty journal entry about me, because I'm apparently prude. Just because I don't want to take my clothes off and play with a stranger I just met? I call that being safe... But really, my point of view on this is, play being like a vanilla second date, the initial one is a nice dinner, and second one is bringing over edible body paint and licking it off of one another's nude bodies with no emotional connection. I don't deny that there are exceptions to this, but really, is it that common? What happened to the days when people were sane, and didn't want girls that fucked everything with legs? =[ I read this, and then I read the flood of posts that followed it claiming that there was nothing wrong with being a bunch of whores, and I despaired. Unfortunately, it would appear that being submissive is too often confused with being a slut. As to all those who say "oh what's so wrong with enjoying sex?" Well, nothing, but there are some of us who enjoy it more when it is with someone who cares about us. The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa. Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore. Unfortunately, thats because a great deal of the women here are free whores. They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral). There's nothing wrong with having one's own moral code, and there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection. Unfortunately, being here means being exposed to both the small percentage of men who value submissives as people with feelings, and the wider horny majority who just want to dump their cum in you.

Hisgirlonly -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 8:43:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maisy10 I totally agree with you, Katsmeow. Its gets me down sometimes because sometimes this lifestyle or site seems like one big porn show. Yeah, starring me! But seriously. yeah, most Doms that i've met for the first "meeting" and said "we may play..." ends up fucking me. now i'm not complaining especially since the Doms i've been with have been...Aleluliamazing but i digress...sometimes...wait, what was i saying? fucking me...yeah, wow.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 8:46:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missbratly quote: ORIGINAL: katsmeow So, I don't post a lot, but something is really bothering me more and more on here. The more I read e-mail, the more people just want 'play.' Is it impossible to keep your morals in tact and still be in this lifestyle? I talked to someone today who wrote a nasty journal entry about me, because I'm apparently prude. Just because I don't want to take my clothes off and play with a stranger I just met? I call that being safe... But really, my point of view on this is, play being like a vanilla second date, the initial one is a nice dinner, and second one is bringing over edible body paint and licking it off of one another's nude bodies with no emotional connection. I don't deny that there are exceptions to this, but really, is it that common? What happened to the days when people were sane, and didn't want girls that fucked everything with legs? =[ I read this, and then I read the flood of posts that followed it claiming that there was nothing wrong with being a bunch of whores, and I despaired. Unfortunately, it would appear that being submissive is too often confused with being a slut. As to all those who say "oh what's so wrong with enjoying sex?" Well, nothing, but there are some of us who enjoy it more when it is with someone who cares about us. The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa. Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore. Unfortunately, thats because a great deal of the women here are free whores. They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral). There's nothing wrong with having one's own moral code, and there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection. Unfortunately, being here means being exposed to both the small percentage of men who value submissives as people with feelings, and the wider horny majority who just want to dump their cum in you. i think the name calling is unfair. Not everyone is wired the same. Not everyone places the same restrictions upon themselves. A lot of us use "slut" as a tongue in cheek term of endearment...whatever people choose to do, however they choose to do wiitwd( keeping in mind just having a profile here would make you a slut to some who judge BDSM as a horrible depraved "lifestyle" full of whores and perverts) But honestly, some of my favorite people are whores and perverts. i appreciate a lot of the honesty and openness that all styles of subs...from most intense pain-slut, to 1950's lifestyle girls can possess. i would be just as ready to defend someone aginst being called a prude or frigid because they choose to play differently. Hell, many of the things that people do in dungeons scare the crap out of me...but i am not the official judge of what is moral, or upright. None of us are....

GreedyTop -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 8:48:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missbratly I read this, and then I read the flood of posts that followed it claiming that there was nothing wrong with being a bunch of whores, and I despaired. Unfortunately, it would appear that being submissive is too often confused with being a slut. As to all those who say "oh what's so wrong with enjoying sex?" Well, nothing, but there are some of us who enjoy it more when it is with someone who cares about us. The problem with fucking a lot of people is that you can hardly cliam that you care about them or vice versa. Katsmeow, you're right. Being on this site does often mean that the males treat you as if you were a free whore. Unfortunately, thats because a great deal of the women here are free whores. They like it, it apparently works for them (though to be honest, with the amount of mental illness reported amongst people here, I doubt that it is actually all that good or safe, but hey, they're grown ups, if they want to allow their bodies to be used by all and sundry, its their funeral). There's nothing wrong with having one's own moral code, and there's nothing wrong with desiring to be treated in a fashion that is respectful and doesn't assume that you're a cheap damaged slut looking for a fix of sexual affection. Unfortunately, being here means being exposed to both the small percentage of men who value submissives as people with feelings, and the wider horny majority who just want to dump their cum in you. "free whores'? whores do it for money.. Us SLUTS do it for free. And yes, having sex with someone you have a deep emotional attatchment to is a glorious thing - but not everyone is LOOKING for that attachment.And not all of those not looking for that attachment are 'cheap damaged sluts' gawd, talk about judgemental....

CalifChick -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 9:18:32 PM)
One has to wonder how you manage to look down on so many while holding your nose so high in the air. Quite the feat. Cali

AquaticSub -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 9:30:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: katsmeow Okay, so let me clear a couple things up; (1) I am not a prude, (2) I never called anyone here morally corrupt, if you took my comment about my morals to have anything to do with you, I apologize and (3) *I still do not understand why it is okay* in this life to be, to put it politely, overly active with relative strangers**, but if I did not want a collar around my neck and did the same things, I'd be branded dirty\STD-ridden, etc. Number three was the direction of my first post, as I was just completely lost that I was attacked and branded just because NSA play wasn't something that I felt maintained my character. Finally, as for the bits about unhappy marriages, that had absolutely nothing to do with anything that was said, and now would be a good time to come off of that soap box. =] See... that's where the problem is. That's probably why you are being called a prude and honestly, I might call you that too. If you asked. You aren't saying "This isn't my thing but that's ok." You are saying "This shouldn't be ok." Which means it's wrong - in your mind anyway. I play casually. I've been doing it for almost five years now. I've done this and had long term relationships and played casually while in long term relationships, one nearly a year, the other pushing two and a half and we are getting married. I have no STIs, no emotional trauma or baggage. I'm still safe, breathing well and I will continue to play casually - probably until I'm no longer attractive enough for others to want to play with me. There is nothing wrong with what I do and it absolutely should be ok. It's just not ok for you. Which is perfectly ok with me and it will be for the owner who is right for you. Until you find them, move on and reserve commentary for yourself.

domiguy -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 9:34:04 PM)
I look down on people all of the time....I rarely break a sweat...I used to think that I accomplished something...Anymore, if my snobbiness and and lack of regard for others results in anything less than a suicide attempt I am left feeling rather numb and empty. It's hard to recapture the rush of your first suicide attempt....Now I need a group of biatches to try and off themselves to even begin to feel any pleasure....That is the danger in becoming addicted to being an A-hole...You just can never get enough. Help me.

NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Seriously, when did this become a joke? (4/14/2008 9:37:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: katsmeow So, I don't post a lot, but something is really bothering me more and more on here. The more I read e-mail, the more people just want 'play.' Is it impossible to keep your morals in tact and still be in this lifestyle? I talked to someone today who wrote a nasty journal entry about me, because I'm apparently prude. Just because I don't want to take my clothes off and play with a stranger I just met? I call that being safe... But really, my point of view on this is, play being like a vanilla second date, the initial one is a nice dinner, and second one is bringing over edible body paint and licking it off of one another's nude bodies with no emotional connection. I don't deny that there are exceptions to this, but really, is it that common? What happened to the days when people were sane, and didn't want girls that fucked everything with legs? =[ I haven't read the other posts yet, but I had to throw my opinion into the ring. Play for me isn't sexual. It is a catharsis that I enjoy and occasionally need, both from the bottoming and topping standpoint. It, however, isn't about sex. There are times when it can have a sexual element, but it has always been clearly delineated as sex and not play, and if some play is involved it is typically of the lighter strangulation, biting and hair-pulling variety that qualifies more as rough sex. That is how I prefer my sex, but my sex and my actual play are seperate. I have no problem with people who play casually, regardless of its sexual content. That simply isn't what the situation means to me.

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