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LondonArt -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 3:45:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds you know the old saying about those who assume--it makes an ass out of them sooner or later; carry one! Not to derail, but tThat reminds me of something I've always wondered: if to assume makes an ass of you and me, what does presuming do?

DesFIP -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 4:02:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Amadio I imagine, much like the article, I'm going to put up a curtain for anonymity. I will have limits posted for each participant, and quite a few DM's to monitor. The quite a few DM's is important as is their ability to call out quickly for help if somebody or three decide to ignore the rules posted by each body half. I am curious if you allow oral how you are being objectified when people can see your face. Plus I would suggest contacting your insurer to see how to protect yourself in case of lawsuits resulting from disease transmission.

LondonArt -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 4:17:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP I am curious if you allow oral how you are being objectified when people can see your face. Use of masks perhaps to cover everything except the mouth?

Amadio -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 4:31:08 PM)
their heads would be behind the curtain, you would not have use of their mouths. Legal aspects are covered through membership, and each submissive would set their safe sex req's. dams etc.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 4:34:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP quote: ORIGINAL: Amadio I imagine, much like the article, I'm going to put up a curtain for anonymity. I will have limits posted for each participant, and quite a few DM's to monitor. The quite a few DM's is important as is their ability to call out quickly for help if somebody or three decide to ignore the rules posted by each body half. I am curious if you allow oral how you are being objectified when people can see your face. Plus I would suggest contacting your insurer to see how to protect yourself in case of lawsuits resulting from disease transmission. What fucking bullshit! Swingers do this stuff all the time and I haven't heard of them dying off. I don't swing and could EASILY have the opportunity, it just isn't my thing but the holier than though bullshit in this thread is too much. http://www.libchrist.com/std/RiskFactorsHetero.html quote: The fact that no transmission occurred among the 25 percent of couples who did not consistently use condoms shows that there is very low infectivity among heterosexual couples with one HIV-positive partner, according to the UCSF study. Infectivity increases greatly with injection drug use and the presence of an STD, as well as other factors such as risky sexual practices and lack of condom use. http://www.avert.org/stdstatisticusa.htm Now I am not advocating unprotected sex, lets just get real about the threat, if you aren't fucking IV drug users your risk of aids is very low and if you aren't fucking college kids, your risk of other STDs is also low. Combine that with the effectiveness of condoms and VIOLA...you can have random sex if you aren't an idiot.

playfulotter -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 4:40:36 PM)
It sounds like an interesting concept but for me the ultimate objectification is when it is someone you love and respect and want to please doing the objectifying. With a stranger it would seem more like a one night stand or something similar and the range of emotions being felt would be lessened for me. This is just my humble opinion though. I do remember that scene from that movie "Eyes Wide Shut" and that was pretty hot to think about but not do for me in real life. [Mod Note: image removed]

Floggings4You -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/14/2008 5:15:51 PM)
My wife and I played with a female submissive for a while, who was very much into objectification and humiliation play. I had never explored anything of that sort before We met this lady, and I found it extremely hot. My wife and I could talk about her body as if she wasn't 'there' (and in the most degrading terms), could refer to her as 'it', and she would only reply if asked a direct question. Blindfold her, put a bag over her head, etc. She loved it--and so did We!

SubJordanTyler -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 9:38:26 AM)
It's definitely an aspect of humiliation. When you're being passed around among 10-15 people and they are just shoving things into your mouth and ass, it's not really that likely you're going to be aroused by it. It's a mental thing - being thought of as a thing and not a person - just an object. When it was over, I was very sore and very tired, but it was an incredible feeling - and to be able to say I made it through something like that was a feeling of accomplishment. I really did enjoy it all.

lanie38 -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 10:00:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubJordanTyler <snip... it's not really that likely you're going to be aroused by it.snip> Why not? Some people get aroused by eating shit! Why not this?

azjojoba -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 3:13:33 PM)
That objectification article really fascinated me. I would really like to be in the role of object. Does anyone know how to find these parties? I'm in the Phoenix, Arizona area.

biotch -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 3:52:09 PM)
sounds like a run of the mill gang bang to me

ProfJoe -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 5:09:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Floggings4You My wife and I played with a female submissive for a while, who was very much into objectification and humiliation play. I had never explored anything of that sort before We met this lady, and I found it extremely hot. My wife and I could talk about her body as if she wasn't 'there' (and in the most degrading terms), could refer to her as 'it', and she would only reply if asked a direct question. Blindfold her, put a bag over her head, etc. She loved it--and so did We! One of my favorite fets is objectification and humiliation, but more along the line of this post than what was described in the article or the disgust of some of the posters. My enjoyment: bodies used as tables, naked dancer beneath a spot as performance art as the party goes on, most everyone ignoring her. Checking her body for maintenance, lice, etc., as if she is property, entirely dispassionately. "Forced" exhibition w/no sexual reaction except for hers/his. And so on. It's always seemed to me that once the object is acknowledged as sexual, it is given a status of something more than object. However, objectification does work well during restrained wax play where she becomes a decorated object. I do photography and, of course, "sex object" is a major part of that -- perhaps you could have a "posing" area in your party rooms? Of course objectification could be done with entire sexual penetration, but I prefer that to be passionate, engaged, and animal or lover rather than "object." I'd love to hear your details on the party as they unfold. ProfJoe

SimplyMichael -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 6:42:34 PM)
I can't tell you how many women gush when you whisper in their ear that you are going to host a party where they will be secured inside a box waith their mouth and ass bound to open holes. Never done it yet but I still have time.

OsideGirl -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 7:27:19 PM)
I love objectification, but only with people I trust. I personally, would be truned of by a room full of men.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 7:36:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubJordanTyler It's definitely an aspect of humiliation. When you're being passed around among 10-15 people and they are just shoving things into your mouth and ass, it's not really that likely you're going to be aroused by it. It's a mental thing - being thought of as a thing and not a person - just an object. When it was over, I was very sore and very tired, but it was an incredible feeling - and to be able to say I made it through something like that was a feeling of accomplishment. I really did enjoy it all. sjt, Almost every single one of your posts makes me think of you as a real life Hentai character.. (Which if you knew me, you would know that is a very good thing..)

Leatherist -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 8:49:15 PM)
If you set things up right-there can be a totally dehumanizing and humiliating aspect to this. My evil little mind immediately flashed to this scenario when this was mentioned. First-most swinger men are entirely focused on the woman getting off. It's a big part of that culture. So I would not neccesarily think of this as "a bunch of swingers." But let's move along. Four or five women arrive after being briefed..Then they get briefs removed, and packed into boxes. Something where they have a bar across thier bellies.....then folded back with legs up. Nicely bound. Then the box closes, leaving them in darkness. Only thier asses are sticking out, surrounded by a padded gasket..They cannot see or hear anything. The party handler begins preparing them for the guests. They soon find themselves with enema nozzles up thier asses, getting cleaned out. After that......bladders drained with catheters. All this time, the boxes hold them snug and tight. They know that the handlers and guest can watch thier reactions through built in viewers. But they cannot see in turn. Gloved Fingers are slipping up thier cunts and assholes, lubricating them profusely. Then the first cock drives home. And more, and more, and they have no idea of who they belong to.....only that they only exist as fuckholes in those moments. And that no one really cares if they are enjoying it. Wouldn't that be special?[;)]

Lordandmaster -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 8:58:46 PM)
One thing I've never understood about Tristan Taormino is her name. Tristan is a man's name! In fact, it's about as masculine as a name can be. (It's from Tristan and Isolde.) I enjoy her writing though; it's light but fun. quote: ORIGINAL: Amadio I was reading an article by Tristan Taormino for the villiage voice.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 9:39:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist If you set things up right-there can be a totally dehumanizing and humiliating aspect to this. My evil little mind immediately flashed to this scenario when this was mentioned. First-most swinger men are entirely focused on the woman getting off. It's a big part of that culture. So I would not neccesarily think of this as "a bunch of swingers." But let's move along. Four or five women arrive after being briefed..Then they get briefs removed, and packed into boxes. Something where they have a bar across thier bellies.....then folded back with legs up. Nicely bound. Then the box closes, leaving them in darkness. Only thier asses are sticking out, surrounded by a padded gasket..They cannot see or hear anything. The party handler begins preparing them for the guests. They soon find themselves with enema nozzles up thier asses, getting cleaned out. After that......bladders drained with catheters. All this time, the boxes hold them snug and tight. They know that the handlers and guest can watch thier reactions through built in viewers. But they cannot see in turn. Gloved Fingers are slipping up thier cunts and assholes, lubricating them profusely. Then the first cock drives home. And more, and more, and they have no idea of who they belong to.....only that they only exist as fuckholes in those moments. And that no one really cares if they are enjoying it. Wouldn't that be special?[;)] Now that is the kind of wank fodder that I have been missing around here lately.. Thank you Leatherist!

Leatherist -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/15/2008 10:04:27 PM)
I wonder what my vanilla friends would think if they really knew what dwells within this shaven skull of mine. And then, I wonder if that is only my perception of them. [;)]

SubJordanTyler -> RE: Sexual objectification party (4/16/2008 1:43:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lanie38 quote: ORIGINAL: SubJordanTyler <snip... it's not really that likely you're going to be aroused by it.snip> Why not? Some people get aroused by eating shit! Why not this? You're right. I would imagine there are many people who would be aroused from something like this. I myself was excited by it - just never got hard from it, as it's not likely that will happen when you're just being passed around and used like a toy.......although it could. I probably could have said it a little differently.

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