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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 1:50:53 PM

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Don't men want a woman that is his equal mentally?

Some do not. They are intimidated by it. I know, it is sad.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 1:53:39 PM

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Some do, yes. And some men make it seem as though that would be a few levels down...

seriously, why you so pissy at pussy today, Domi?

Did some chick put tabasco instead of ketchup on your dog?

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 2:10:10 PM

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Aha. By "banter" I thought you meant actual words. And my response about respect has nothing to do with any dynamic, it's what I would think of someone who did that to me. It wasn't clear until you said she barked at you (like a dog, and not meaning spoke in a harsh manner) that there was puppy play involved. I don't do puppy play, that's all, no judgment on your activity.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 2:13:37 PM

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I don't know what is up with me....Just tired of nonsense. I don't know what I would do if a woman told me that I was "her protector and was supposed to keep her safe." I would look her square in the eyes, kiss her passionately and then say, "you are so incredibly fucked."

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 2:18:52 PM

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I don't know what is up with me....Just tired of nonsense. I don't know what I would do if a woman told me that I was "her protector and was supposed to keep her safe." I would look her square in the eyes, kiss her pationately and then say, "you are so incredibly fucked."

Its about realms of reality, of course we have personal responsibility, but in nilla relationships you would trust the person to not hurt you, wouldnt you? I mean the risk in D/s BDSM or whatever is greater which is why as a submissive the personal responsibility comes in the form of making sure you dont pick a total fuckwit to be with.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 3:03:55 PM

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Aha. By "banter" I thought you meant actual words. And my response about respect has nothing to do with any dynamic, it's what I would think of someone who did that to me. It wasn't clear until you said she barked at you (like a dog, and not meaning spoke in a harsh manner) that there was puppy play involved. I don't do puppy play, that's all, no judgment on your activity.

It wasn't proper 'puppy play, just an element of it within banter... Which is why the initial 'warning'... namely, "this isn't an area We have explored but your actions are being taken as an indication you have an interest which I MIGHT indulge if you continue".

Puppyplay isn't a big interest of Mine, but if the girl responds well to it then I can get enjoyment enough from it to indulge from time to time. It certainly won't be the last aspect of it that I play with now with metalmiss given she does respond to it

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 3:24:20 PM

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Now the REAL Question.....

No matter what you think reality is, no matter what things may seem... do you really trust in the fact that your Dom/Master wouldn't cause you harm?

yes i do.

Daddy gave me His word that He would never cause me harm.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 4:06:12 PM

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I trust that he would not cause me harm... (Yes my Invisdible D type of doom)
I also Trust he would not disrespect my limits and do such actions to me.

I have a huge problem with eating from a bowl with no silverware and those are from me and only me. (Whatever anyone else enjoys is for them to enjoy just not my kink)
If my owner did this mind fuck Id smile sweetly and get a fork and dig in.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 4:14:30 PM

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Given the choice between raw hamburger and dog food, I'll take the dog food each time.

For me, it's not a big deal. I personally have more problems drinking a glass of wine than a bowl of dog food, but even then, if it's part of the relationship to eat what I've been ordered to eat, well there you go.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 4:39:06 PM

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What do you think when the only can in the fridge is a can of steak pie filling

Omg I LOVE a good mindfuck! Great one, Raven.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 5:36:04 PM

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My mum tells me that all her kids ate catfood and worms as small children - and since we are all alive, it won't kill you.

I had the same reaction to the op's post that i did to my Sir when he insisted that i stand in the kitchen and pee. It kind of knocked my life off kilter for a while. Doing something that we have been taught from childhood is wrong is very mindfucking. a very interesting way of doing it. In my case i felt very submissive after it, even after i had to clean the mess up.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 6:20:40 PM

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Ah, the explanation of banter meaning puppy play changes my perception. I assumed you meant the dictionary definition, playful verbal sparring. Which is why I said what I did, meaning that if you usually like verbal banter but weren't in the mood for it one day then you ought to have said something.

Sure, if she started puppy play, and wasn't sensible enough to discuss with you what she wanted to explore, then it is understandable that you ran with it. Personally I love being led along on a leash on all fours but dog food, even if it wasn't really, is a hard limit. Not because itself but because it's humiliating and degrading to me and I can't handle that at all.

However about trusting to do no harm. No. I trust that he intends no harm. And there's a big difference there.

But that doesn't mean he could foresee the future and knew magically that having me lift up a foot in high heels while blindfolded is something that made me lose my balance. If he had, I wouldn't have wrenched my arm that time. Nor has he been able to read my mind. He's experimented with things that have hit previously unknown emotional triggers. He doesn't make the same mistake twice and that's what matters to me. That and intent.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 6:24:26 PM

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Hm. That's definitely a mindfuck. Eating dogfood would not make me cry. Being told afterwards that it was steakpie and overreacting like that would make me feel like a dumbass though.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/15/2008 10:06:48 PM

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I doubt I would eat dogfood out of a dog dish on the floor. That would make me sick.

I would love to find a man I thought was my equal mentally. Not to be conceited but I dont know, men dont seem all that smart to me. I mean there is more than having a great vocabulary and knowing how to use it well. There is the intelligence of the spirit, heart and emotions too.

For those who might dig eating dogfood, Ellen Degeneres is part owner of a new brand of dog food that is human grade. The brand is called Halo. Gobble gobble.

I would love to feel protected by some man but I really dont think I would believe it anyway. I see Life itself as something not even a man has complete power over, he cant save me, no more than a parent can completely protect their child as much as they want to and try to. It is shallow of me but I like tall men because when my body is near theirs I feel safer. I love the look of a mans big thigh, A part of me turns to jello and feels safer but I know it is not real.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/16/2008 10:35:14 AM

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My mum tells me that all her kids ate catfood and worms as small children - and since we are all alive, it won't kill you.

I had the same reaction to the op's post that i did to my Sir when he insisted that i stand in the kitchen and pee. It kind of knocked my life off kilter for a while. Doing something that we have been taught from childhood is wrong is very mindfucking. a very interesting way of doing it. In my case i felt very submissive after it, even after i had to clean the mess up.

I found this Brilliant.

I don't however feel the need to explain why.

Just Thank you for posting this.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/17/2008 6:53:05 AM

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Hello La Tigresse. Yup...you bad! RL

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/17/2008 2:50:26 PM

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I like this one. *makes notes* I could easily amuse myself with Elena like this.

Thank you very much to the OP.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/17/2008 3:03:22 PM

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The only thing I have to grind with pookie is my pelvis.......You write it people have the right to respond.

You want to feed someone dog food I could give a flying fuck...Shit, make it poo for all I care. Of late I am getting rather blown away by the total lack sense that people apply to their relationships out here.

Everything I have learned I have learned from the movies.....When you are trapped in an area with a restricted amount of space it is an extremely wise move to kill all of the women immediately.....Or you shall perish due to their inability to think and move at the same time....Fuck, you might get by if they would just move....Kill them. It would be considered self defense if you could ever find a grand jury dense enough to hand down an indictment.

Doesn't a man really want a woman that is his equal mentally?

I agree. If you write it, people have the right to respond. With that out of my way, let me point something out here.

You write like a mysogonist. You seem to be assuming that everyone wants the same thing out of their lives that you do.

You're mind process is somewhat terrifying to be honest.

Kill all the women? Why? So that all the people like you can get down to deciding how best to start the next war? You have learnt everything from movies? Now I AM disturbed. Seriously. Who takes things from movies to heart? It is people like you who had films such as Childs Play banned. Hey, it's in the movies. It MUST be true and something good to do... right?

How do you explain the ones that contradict the others ones? Or does that not bother you? Just work with them both regardless? Or is it dependant on which one you watched last?

Honestly, if you don't like a topic, then don't read it. If your idea of BDSM is what you've learnt on the movies, well. I need say no more.

I have one question to ask you. What the hell are you doing looking for a woman in a lifestyle that requires Trust to proceed safely, when you don't even seem to like women Or the idea that any woman might trust you?

Just curious.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/17/2008 3:36:13 PM

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I trust him not to push me harder/further than I can go.
I trust him to stop.
I trust him not to hurt me.

He'll never intentionally hurt me. But I know I'm complicated enough that accidents can and do happen.

I trust him to be there when they do.

As far as dog food et al, we've covered that some things will take longer for me to do than others, but that he can give me any instruction he wishes.

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RE: What would you think when... - 4/17/2008 3:57:12 PM

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I trust Firm not to harm me... and he trusts me.

If he insisted dog food wasn't harmful for me to eat, I'd absolutely take him at his word. Of course, he might be wise to be wary if I serve him "steak" pie for his dinner.