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Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/9/2005 4:04:36 PM   
DomDevelopment


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Status: offline 		My girlfriend is very orally fixated, and enjoys giving me oral. I of course would like to help strengthen her natural oral fixation and train her to not just enjoy it but to crave it. The ultimate goal would be to heighten it almost to cock worship. I would like some advice on methods any others have used to increase the strength of your partners natural oral fixation to a much higher level.

Thanks

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/9/2005 5:20:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Make her beg for it. While she's doing it ask her questions about how much she likes it so she can immediately respond. Throughout the day ask her the same questions, give her reminders of what she's done and keep it on her mind. Build mental connections between going down on you and herself becoming enthralled.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/9/2005 5:37:55 PM   
DomDevelopment


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Status: offline 		Sound advice. Thanks....the good thing is that I am not trying to train someone who does not like it, but reinforcing a desire.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/9/2005 9:32:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		plus...praise, praise, praise.
Visual stimulation too - pictures, videos.
"Make her want it" - a little witholding goes a long way.






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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/9/2005 10:14:02 PM   
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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/10/2005 8:00:01 PM   
Fawne


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Status: offline 		I'm a girl with an oral fixation. I do however believe it comes natural.

<feel like this is a confessional.. or some kind of "meeting">

Anyway: praise works for me. positive reinforcement..

Tell what a great job she is doing, point out best spots, give instructions on how best to please.

See, I want to please, Do truly get fixated, entranced. No sense of time: just focus.

Personally, begging for it..eh. I do anyway sometimes, but since i'm not contrary and don't feel the need to "want" what i cannot have.... doesn't do much for me. So, I only beg for those who ..love beggers..if that makes any sense?

Anyway: if shes got it...just keep up the good work!!!! <smile>

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/10/2005 9:25:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		I prefer 'positive reinforcement' for training my Sub. She did not really like oral when we started together but I found that praising her obvious attempts to go further and please me have paid off tremendously. I am also honest and will tell her if there is something that she can do better (or at least feels better for me). I don't know if she's quite to the point of cock worship yet, but I do know that she really loves giving me head and tries very hard to include new and exciting things in our play. She responds well to 'positive reinforcement' but that doesn't mean it will work for everyone.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/17/2005 6:06:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Agreed with the two previous posts. Praise Praise Praise. When my pet does a good job, I always make sure that she knows it. The more she know that she makes me happy, the more she wants to do it. I especially love reminding her the next day how happy she made me the night before, it always makes her smile and blush.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/17/2005 9:47:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		make her crave it by denying her the chance to give it it you every now and then. When she's good, make it more yummy for her by trimming, flavors, and such that may make things more diserable.

As far as making yourself taste better, you can look into eating more niacin and other vitamins that help with lubrication and taste down in that area.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/18/2005 7:15:18 AM   
Fawne


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The more she know that she makes me happy, the more she wants to do it. I especially love reminding her the next day how happy she made me the night before, it always makes her smile and blush.



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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/18/2005 10:46:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DomDevelopment

My girlfriend is very orally fixated, and enjoys giving me oral. I of course would like to help strengthen her natural oral fixation and train her to not just enjoy it but to crave it. The ultimate goal would be to heighten it almost to cock worship. I would like some advice on methods any others have used to increase the strength of your partners natural oral fixation to a much higher level.

Thanks




best way would i think be to develop mental instruction to the point where suggestions/triggers can be placed. once this is done, you can then emphasise almost anything. one good example, say, would be that you place a trigger so that any liquid drunk by your posession tastes of your semen.

another trigger that i find useful is to have it so that, whenever the tip of your penis rubs against the roof of your posession's mouth, orgasm is induced. i suggest though, that you also place an instruction that prevents the biting reflex(grin).

once you have mastered the ability to place such instructions, the only limitation really is your own imagination. care however needs to be taken, remember such instructions/triggers can be dangerous, some i place i tend to set with two triggers, so that they cannot be accidentally set off in an inapropriate location/situation.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/18/2005 5:03:04 PM   
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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 10/18/2005 5:21:58 PM   
CelticPrince


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there has been much in the way of good advice , especially for the s side of the slash.

my personal method that has yes to fail is praise and letting her know that her goal is cock worship.

If she like it now you will see a new zest to follow, / kinda like giving a homework assignment on a subject that is well known.

Good luck.

CP

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 11/12/2005 9:15:30 PM   
slaveboe


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Status: offline 		Speaking from a gay males point of adventure , one of my first part time Masters loved oral i was not sure if i did , back in those days , Part of Masters training was to have me give him oral for hours or the better part of the day i would have to keep my mouth either on his cock or balls one tap on the top of my head ment service his cock two taps ment service his balls a rub on the head ment i had free will to enjoy both cock and balls he did allow me a 5 minute break every hour however in that time i had to wear a ball gag and at the end of the break i had to take 5 good ones on the ass , i soon learned and craved my Masters cock ....and oh how i long for those days ..........steve

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 11/12/2005 10:21:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		To get her to the point of worship, I use food control. For the first month or month and a half, the girl is allowed only one two small meals a day. When I tell her it is time for her food, she kneels and repeats a statement she has memorized about how her sourch of life is my cock.

Then I allow her to orally worship me, when I am ready to cum, I cum on her food and then let her eat it... never let her finish though, take it away after only a few bites, and tell her that her worship was so poor it only earned her that much. I make her dump the food in the toilet and flush it, while she tells me that she will seek in her heart to learn and serve better, and that if she is not able to show her worship, she does not deserve the food.

Continue to allow her more food, as she learns and performs better. In time, she will become very good at oral worship. After this, never let her eat unless you have cum on it first, it is essential that she associate your cum as her food, the smell of it will be part of her permanent memory and she will reach a point where she belives that she needs the cum in order to take nourishment.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 11/12/2005 10:28:39 PM   
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The more she know that she makes me happy, the more she wants to do it. I especially love reminding her the next day how happy she made me the night before, it always makes her smile and blush.


Exactly....that is my biggest motivator. I "crave" it as i crave anything that i can do that i know brings Master pleasure. I orgasm when i am giving Master head, worshipping his cock...


Peace,
cathy

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 11/13/2005 7:44:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		One method I like to use is to simply have the girl set aside a half hour every day that she will devote entirely to sucking a lifelike dildo, practicing her moves and technique. Couple this to the many other great suggestions already given, and you can have cock be on your subs mind for almost all her waking hours.

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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 11/21/2005 8:37:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: wipmebeetme100

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The more she know that she makes me happy, the more she wants to do it. I especially love reminding her the next day how happy she made me the night before, it always makes her smile and blush.


Exactly....that is my biggest motivator. I "crave" it as i crave anything that i can do that i know brings Master pleasure. I orgasm when i am giving Master head, worshipping his cock...

im the same way i crave my masters cock and the reward of being able to drink from him
Peace,
cathy



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RE: Training to intensify oral fixation - 11/21/2005 10:33:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, praise, praise, prasie, immediately, days later, and even weeks or months later, but more than that. An immediate physical reward like just quietly cuddling her in your lap for an hour or so when she has pleased you is always a good idea. Even if you consider her just a slave, a mindset with which I don't agree, she still has needs and your relationship obligates you to fill those needs, and rewarding her by giving her sequential climax after she has pleased you is also a good idea. Its less effective, but if she doesn't please you you should be withholding something. Also appropriate is occasionally forgiving a deserved punishment because of a a reminder of how well she pleased you some previous time. Most important, what you do should be somewhat random and unpredictable, rewards may follow pleasing behavior, but what and if is always an element of anticipation and uncertainty. Blend it all together, and you'll create a very strong bond.

just my $0.02

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RE: o intensify oral fixation - 9/3/2008 2:24:51 AM   
Malestrome


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Status: offline 		I agree with the fact that it is something that lies latent in a woman until fired up. The more it is denied the more interested most humans will become. Look at Eve, she could have it all and wanted the one thing she couldn't have. Restriction by making her sleep next to it just out of reach even if by physical restraint, will make her beg for it. Especially if she is within eye shot and can see how he moves and gets harder then softer and yet she can't taste him. The kicker is when he drips pre cum and she wants to scramble for it like the last of a priceless elixir. When she is remorse about the waste, then you will know she will savor every suckle like a girl and her thumb. 

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