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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 7:02:51 PM   
Faramir


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ORIGINAL: JustaTop

Actually I bring it up because you act like a drill sargeant, with your constant chewing outs. I seem to recall you talking about a certain recruit (yourself) who came back to the corp and got his ass chewed,and wanted to cry,but couldn't-because he showed poor self discipline, and was fat. Something about it being traumatic enough to effect a permanent behavior change?

I think that you identify so strongly with this incident, and it's aftermath, that you think if you do it to other "weaklings" it can change them to be a manly man, like you seem to think you are. And that you are so intolerant of "pussy tops" who dare to show emotion, (like crying over something painful,something you were not allowed to do) that you feel you NEED to?

Really, it only comes across as terribly rude,not at all helpful, puffing up,,,and the mods have slapped you and edited your posts more than once for doing it. So *I'm* not the one with the issue,obviously.

Why do you persist in this behavior,knowing full well that it is not acceptable here?

You may not care,but OTHERS with more power over this forum DO.


Wow - I really chap your ass, don't I?

You're counting up the number of times mod's edit my posts, psycho-analyzing me remotely via internet posts (that's fucking brilliant sweetheart), fuming over my behaviour (which you can't do anything about - you are powerless) - you remind me of someone else who sniffs around my posts just hoping against hope to "win" their little internet tiff.

YOU GOT A CRUSH ON ME!!!

Ok, seriously dude - do every one a favor and just put me on ignore if I make you hurt that bad. That's what the block button is for - so you can block out the big, bad drill sergeant who just makes you so angry you sit at your 'puter shaking in impotent fury.

And let me point out that you self-identified as a "pussy dom" - those are your words, not mine. I didn't attack you - if you see an attack, if you self-project into the role of a "pussy dom" - your beef is with the man in the mirror, not me. I may use strong language, but if you read what I wrote it is well-intenioned, civil, and most importantly, it's about the issue at hand - it's not about how so and so makes me flip my lid.

I'm going to do the rest of the posters here a favor and put you on ignore - I won't see anything you write, and wont respond - it will help cut down on the signal to noise ratio for everyone.

Good luck.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 7:15:58 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		Looks, things can end up hurting,just work through it. Stalking someone who doesn't want you will only make it worse. Try to remember that there is no such thing as perfection-a reasonable perspective will help you forget about this whole thing.

< Message edited by JustaTop -- 10/10/2005 7:16:39 PM >

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 7:25:54 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		This is "civil"???

"Either complete the transformation and offer yourself as a boyslave, or find your fucking sack and act like a man."

quote:

ORIGINAL: Faramir

I may use strong language, but if you read what I wrote it is well-intenioned, civil, and most importantly, it's about the issue at hand - it's not about how so and so makes me flip my lid.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 8:16:48 PM   
Evanesce


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Wow, you topmen are hard on each other!

No wonder men don't say much about their feelings, if they risk being called a pussy by other men.......


Well, I'm not a man, but I was thinkin' the same thing Faramir said. But then, I have no tolerance for needy men, either.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 8:17:58 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		So much for sensitive new age guys...I better inform Alan Alda!

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 8:40:21 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

This is "civil"???

"Either complete the transformation and offer yourself as a boyslave, or find your fucking sack and act like a man."

quote:

ORIGINAL: Faramir

I may use strong language, but if you read what I wrote it is well-intenioned, civil, and most importantly, it's about the issue at hand - it's not about how so and so makes me flip my lid.



Not only is it uncivil, but it is incorrect. The "boy slaves" I know are tough as nails and I don't know many Doms that could take the stuff I put them through. ;-)

Oh yeah, and the current boy I'm lusting after spent 4 years in the Marines too! You tough boys aren't all tops!

- LA

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/10/2005 8:58:30 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		You got it LA,most Doms are whimps. They can dish it out but.......(covers the rest with a big puff of hot air)

I have been truly amazed, watching a lot of slave boys playing,my god.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 3:44:16 AM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: JustaTop

You got it LA,most Doms are whimps. They can dish it out but.......(covers the rest with a big puff of hot air)

I have been truly amazed, watching a lot of slave boys playing,my god.


Yes some slave boys can take it for sure. Sometimes I have no idea where they get their strength from.

However, I never would go out and say that most Doms are wimps. I would just say that wimpiness is not related to being a top or bottom.

- LA


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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 5:44:41 AM   
Faramir


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Not only is it uncivil, but it is incorrect. The "boy slaves" I know are tough as nails and I don't know many Doms that could take the stuff I put them through. ;-)

Oh yeah, and the current boy I'm lusting after spent 4 years in the Marines too! You tough boys aren't all tops!

- LA


Doh! I offer my sincere and unqualified apologies to submissive men everywhere - I had no business making that remark.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 7:56:03 AM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		I was reffering to be able to take the kind of pain I was seeing-not the other aspects.

But many seem to get into this for the wrong reasons-so a degreee of bravado, being used as a mask, doesn't surprise me terribly much these days.

To my way of thinking,those who protest the most,usually have the least to offer.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 9:08:45 AM   
wipmebeetme100


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quote:

Currently, Im just hoping to bump into her on this site. Not a great plan but its something.



A bit of a masochist are you??
I have never understood this mind set some people have. You see it all the time.
They did this that and the other to me....but oh how i miss them and want them back. HELLO?????
If your idea of perfection is someone who ignored you for weeks....maybe you should revisit that definition. In my mind actions such as hers show me that person is lacking basic respect a/o courtesy.
You mention you are searching again...impossible standards and automatic failure. The only reason this is happening is because this is what you want to happen. Only you know why. Only you can change it. You also say you are "STUCK" with her influence. Again...you are only stuck with what you want to be stuck with.
Until the time that you feel you are deserving of more....nothing is going to change.

Peace,
cathy

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 11:24:22 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Faramir


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Wow, you topmen are hard on each other!

No wonder men don't say much about their feelings, if they risk being called a pussy by other men.......

Francine



It is not emotion, expressing emotion, or being vulnerbale that makes a man a pussy - that's part of the human condition. As I pointed out - we've all been there.

It's folding up into a ball and grabbing where your jimmes used to be because you got hurt that makes you a pussy.



Cool. Thanks for the clarification. I am often tempted to tell folks to suck it up....... :) I try to live in a NO WHINING zone, personally.

Francine

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 11:29:25 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Another thought about using outside sources to find someone, and "hoping to run into them". My ex does this kind of crap with me. He left me FIVE years ago, and he continues to track me down on sites and send bizarre emails. Is there some rule that says we must communicate with our exes? Unless there are children involved, I say NO, there is not.

Following folks around, even on the net, is creepy and unattractive.

Francine

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 11:41:13 AM   
Faramir


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Another thought about using outside sources to find someone, and "hoping to run into them". My ex does this kind of crap with me. He left me FIVE years ago, and he continues to track me down on sites and send bizarre emails. Is there some rule that says we must communicate with our exes? Unless there are children involved, I say NO, there is not.

Following folks around, even on the net, is creepy and unattractive.

Francine


I thought the same thing - woman says no, man refuses to respect her right to consent or not and stalks here.

That's both creepy and immoral.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 11:45:00 AM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		The problem being,that whining about whiners, is every bit as offensive as the one who did it to begin with.

It says something about those with the need to do so-and thier ability to excericise emotional self control. I certainly don't see it as masterful,or in any way noble..

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 11:55:24 AM   
pinkpleasures


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Status: offline 		Wow...this thread has more bulls**t in it tha most. Since when did the pain of loss become "whining"? Yes, the Op needs to move past the pain, but simply telling someone to shut up and be a man is a stupid remark...men have feelings just as women do. i am especially annoyed by the remarks about how some Doms are pussies...that's a personal attack and violative of the TOS. i imagine the Op regrets posting due to the negativity here. Is there some law of the jungle at work, directing us to consume the weak? Am i the only one who finds he Op's ability to express His emotions a sign of strength? i sure wish we could do without all the Tarzan yodlers.

pinkpleasures

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 11:59:38 AM   
Guest
 One more negative personal attack and there will be another thread closed and locked.
And please consider this formal warning that any more attacks will lead to moderation.

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 12:07:48 PM   
JustaTop


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Status: offline 		Well pink,I see a lot of insecurity expressed in various places. People who seem driven to fit certain molds,or expectations. The problem being,that we are all individuals-no one fits into a cookie cutter.

The op came here trying to find a few solutions-and *some* people projected thier own insecurites/inadequacies towards him instead. It speaks poorly of them,not him.

I wonder if they really grasp that?

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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 4:34:41 PM   
UtopianRanger


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Status: offline 		Colonel Nathan Jessup : Publicly crying about how some girl kicked you in the nuts so hard you lost them isn't doing anything expect picking your scab and making you look like a complete pussy

Lt. Kaffe : You don't need a patch on your arm to have honor

Colonel Nathan Jessup : We become what we practice: you playing the hurt little bitch makes you more and more the hurt little bitch. What you are making yourself is completely repuslive to submissive women in general

Lt. Kaffe : Did you order the Code Red?!!?

Colonel Nathan Jessup : So dude, ya some girl cut your balls off - that sucks. Everyone of us has had something like that happen. Either complete the transformation and offer yourself as a boyslave, or find your fucking sack and act like a man.

Lt. Kaffe : [shouting] Did you order the Code Red?!!?

Colonel Nathan Jessup : Goodness - how could you get something so simple, so ass-wrong? As a Marine officer, I have nothing but respect for recruits - how could you not respect the courage and boldness of the young men and women who ship off to Parris Island and SD each year (unless you were one of those pussies who are intimidated by servicemembers)? Having started off as an enlisted man myself - having been a recruit - I have an additional level of respect born of intimate knowledge.

Lt. Kaffe : Oh, spare me the psychobabble father bullshit

Colonel Nathan Jessup : I'll have to make this clear to even the meanest understanding: my objection is to a visisible, undignified lack of fortitude. It is a virtue to maintain your bearing in the face of failure, and a further virtue to endure and perservere in the face of failure.

Lt. Kaffe : [yelling] Colonel, Did you order the code red?!!?


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RE: Lost Perfection - 10/11/2005 5:36:51 PM   
Faramir


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Status: offline 		I can't tell what you are getting at - I know it is from the Tom Cruise/Nicholson movie, but I never saw the film - just the clip of Nicholson screaming "You can't handle the truth!." If I understand though, the Marine is the bad guy, maybe I'm a bad guy to?

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