MaamJay -> RE: Are WS an act of humuliation for sub or a passionate gift from masters? (4/18/2008 8:29:58 AM)
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I'm with the others who say the intention can vary, it doesn't HAVE to be any particular meaning. It's the meaning the 2 (or more in a poly?) people involved choose to give to it. Personally, as both Domme and sub, it is an intimate connection, not something I would do with a casual play partner, there has to be that desire to be that intimate. It's almost more intimate than sex in that it is a very vulnerable moment for both the pisser and the pissee! Both tend to have performance anxiety ... will I actually be able to release it? can i take it? I may not do it very often ... but I remember those times with great clarity and affection. I don't experience any humiliation at all as either Domme or sub, but I can understand that some do. Practically, the shower or tub is a good place to start, makes clean-up nice and easy and showering together after simply continues the intimacy. Drinking plenty of water in the lead up dilutes the urine, and that makes it a bit less scented and a bit easier to take. Nonetheless, the face can be confronting, other good positions include: * the sub kneeling facing away and pissing down their back (gives that nice "ooh tingly" feeling that things running down your back gives!), * over the head and in the hair (NOT if she spent a fortune at the hairdresser though!) or over a man's bald pate, * turn a girl round to face you and piss down over her breasts and belly, * piss directly and forcefully on either male or female genitals, * have them lie face up and piss over the torso (the splashes add a nice touch), * use a plastic chair, have the receiver sit on it and then sit on their lap and wet them ... or * both stand up, wrap your legs around a bit and just piss on their feet. All give different sensations and may provoke different reactions and feelings. Of course, for the more adventurous, outside is heaps of fun, just don't piss over a bull ant's nest, they don't like it! Steel, watching is another common fetish, I enjoy watching males and females pee and as sub i enjoy being watched. There's an open bathroom door policy in this house for good reason [;)]. In that case, there is something delightfully naughty about it, takes me back to when i was a little girl and needing to go suddenly, and Dad hoisting me over a hedge into a field and having to go then and there ... actually, must be a thing with fields as somewhat later it was the family dog who pissed all over me that probably got me turned on to this LOL! There I was lying down picking the blackberries off the bottom of the bush (in England) and the dog unloaded all over my skirt, I was soaked. Yet I remember enjoying the sensation ... it was just Mum that was horrified LOL! Anyway, getting back to watching, there are other games to be played, such as RELEASE! and STOP! games. Much easier for females, rather hard for males ... lovely fun watching them squirm with the effort and all the pelvic and butt muscles working and ... OK OK yes this is a favourite, you guessed it! Maam Jay aka violet[A] PS The Human Biologist part of Me really doesn't recommend wholesale consumption of urine. While it might be bacteriologically close to sterile, it does contain urea which is a nitrogenous waste, a toxic product of metabolism that the urinator's body is keen to be rid of. Makes no sense at all to Me for someone else to drink it all, effectively doubling the workload of their own kidneys. Also, it may contain the byproducts of medications and some of those can be dangerous to other people. A few drops, in the "cleaning up" process probably won't do damage even if regular, or occasional greater amounts may be OK ... but I would baulk at regular, repeated consumption of someone else's urine load. Just My advice, YMMV.
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