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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 10:59:05 AM   
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 the expectation is already there before anyone has even met - even though vague and experimental - it is still there - and it is one sided and to me, that indicated a hidden agenda/motive.


Well As My initial responce indicated... hidden agendas are something I view as unwelcome, untrustworthy and 'red flags'.... but then where I have any agenda at all it tends to be up front and in the open where everyone concerned can make an informed choise.


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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 11:02:01 AM   
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I am just wanting opinions by people here on CM on the concept of people who befriend a person and then who offer them a safe place to experiment.  I am trying really hard to be unbiased and trying to see if I am judging something I don't really 'get'.
 
I am wary of people who profess a friendship and then manipulate the situation by offering the other person to 'learn' in an (alleged) safe environment by offering sexual services.
 
We aren't talking mentorship or training and I do understand the concept of fuck buddies.  This isn't any of those.  But when approached by someone under the guise of friendship only - which then turns into - well, experiment with me if you want - in little more than a month - just feels a little, contrived.
 
I am really asking peoples thoughts, so thanks in advance.
 
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Very interesting question, and one I've considered many times.

I myself, largely because I'm so remarkably unselfish, would allow Pamela Anderson to fuck me if it helped her in any way.

(I'm just a giver I guess).

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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 11:11:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark
I am really asking peoples thoughts, so thanks in advance.

the.dark.


Oh I think its a great idea, any offers?

No I think that as you say it can be seen as picking up 'vulnerable' people and as a lot of seasoned BDSMers bang on about experiance and whatnot I can see the appeal to the person that is taken in.


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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 12:12:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		a lot of feelings can grow in a month....anytime you share a friendship you go deeper into the person...and i always find that the more i know a person (male or female or trans, old, my age or young, attrative or not) the deeper they share with me, and are vulnerable with me, the more goofy and stupid we are together ...the more i want to fuck them.

you dont feel that way?...hmm maybe i am weird.

but anyway, i don't find freinds wanting to fuck me, and me wanting to fuck them suspect in anyway...





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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 2:36:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe I'm jaded. I was born at night, but it wasn't last night. People like to have sex with those whose company they enjoy. I find this to be a natural progression in many, many cases, even under the guise of platonic friendship. There's nothing wrong with that, so long as no one is mislead into thinking otherwise. I don't see devious intent with a lot of these people, I just see curiosity and libido at work.

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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 3:30:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark
 
Darcy has read this and instructed to send our regards to you and yours, and I send my love to Kyra and Alandra as always.
 
the.dark.

 
*musters up the biggest pouty lip I can****    What no loving for Me??? *w*

all the Best for Darcy and yourself... I enjoy the threads you start and the comments they generate.

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RE: .fuckme. to find out? - 4/19/2008 5:38:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: midgetmafiosa

Maybe I'm jaded. I was born at night, but it wasn't last night. People like to have sex with those whose company they enjoy. I find this to be a natural progression in many, many cases, even under the guise of platonic friendship. There's nothing wrong with that, so long as no one is mislead into thinking otherwise. I don't see devious intent with a lot of these people, I just see curiosity and libido at work.


There ya go!

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