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RE: Infulence - 10/11/2005 10:42:31 AM

Kasia

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what person has infulenced your life most and why?

None very much so far. If I dont count my children. And Scarlett O'Hara/Vivien Leigh when I first saw Gone with the wind when I was 15. Took me almost 30 years but I think I finally managed to achieve remarkable likeness (I dont mean physically though).

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RE: Infulence - 10/13/2005 11:19:44 PM

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My dad because he is always there for me

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RE: Infulence - 10/14/2005 2:20:56 PM

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My JV high school football coach.

My parents were more of the anti-nuturing type. He was the first adult to go out of his way for me and have more faith in my ability in many things more than my most rosiest expectations of myself.

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RE: Infulence - 10/14/2005 11:30:55 PM

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2 ppl come to mind when it comes to being the biggest influence as to who has made me the way I am today.

1. An ex girl friend who was one hell of a BITCH! who had to have everything her way. Back then, I tolerated a ton of shit. But after hearing strike one "If I got pregnant I would get an abortion and not even tell you about it" strike 2 "I'm only with you because of my disability and can't be with anyone better" and strike 3 "You and your family are nothing but a bunch of dumber then dirt farmers" I decided to no long but up with shit. I dumped her sorry ass and moved on no longer being Mr Nice Guy. Once, I nicely asked her to take all her stuff out of my apt back to her dorm. The second time I gently took her belongings to her. The third time I dumped her shit. I gave a little walking space on me and it turned into a nightmare. Never again.

2. An older brother of mine commited suicide. I blame it on him being a push over in his relationships of the last 3 psycho bitches. The first one divorced him over her boss. The second was the real jealous type that he couldn't say "Shut the FUCK UP!" to. But he did break up with her. Unfortunatly he didn't think of changing his locks. She went in all demanding like and even broke his phone then committed to beating on him. He just took it untill she wore out. Then he mannaged to call the cops. Number 3 became the worse. He married her. Then seperated. Then got srewed over having to live in Tin Shed. She sold his truck and kept on mannipulating him. Instead of throwing her over his Knee and start swinging with a paddle, he decided to take a bullet to the head. He was to nice to do what was truely needed. You can't be Mr Nice Guy all the time. You can't make an omlet without breaking a few eggs. You have to do what's right/needed then to do what's nice to live a happier and wealthier life.

My mother has truely raised me to be a gentleman and taught me to never abuse a woman. Infact, she still has a loaded gun to shoot me with just incase I ever did. Thus I have never done so. But spankings, sturdy shakes, forcefull kisses, and saying "Now see here young lady!" are not forms of abuse. They are the essential requirements that a real Dom or Man needs to be able to innitiate when needed. Movies staring John Wayne and Clark Gable are good examples of this behavior.

That's all I have to really say on those who have influenced me the most up to this point in my life.

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RE: Infulence - 10/15/2005 7:54:53 AM

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what person has influenced your life most and why?

A lot of people, both living and historical have influenced my life over the years in one way or another, that would make for a very long list. It would run from my Pawpaw who was my very first best friend, to an english teacher who got me started in psychology, to a woodshop teacher who helped me discover the craftsman in me, to a fiance who knocked off a lot of rough edges, to a stripper who taught me just how charming I really am, to Leonardo da Vinci for being my first and lifelong hero. But the person who has absolutely influenced my life the most is... me. I say that because it was me who made the decision to take the advice of this person or that. It was me who acted on the lessons I learned in life. It was me who strove to be better than I was, never being content with past accomplishments. It was me who set high goals and high standards for myself. It was me who chose the path I've taken in life. It was me who decided what to reject of the things I'd been taught growing up because I felt they were wrong, and what things to keep because I felt they were right. For better or worse, for all my mistakes and my successes, I am responsible for who I am and who I will yet become, for everything I do and say... it was me.

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