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RE: Final act of submission - 4/18/2008 11:56:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

Yes, keep submitting to him daily until the end of your days.

Exactly.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 7:01:29 AM

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There is no one thing that proves you're a good sub/slave/slub. There is only doing the best you can on any given day, just like everyone else. And like every other relationship, you can't rest on your laurels.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 9:01:27 AM

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Thank you to all of you who have responded. It is clear that writing "final act of submission" didn't sound the same in chat as it did in my head. I guess what I am searching for is a true and tangible form of complete and humble submission. (Not to be dramatic, but in biblical times a woman would sleep at the foot of her Master to gain his good graces.)

I have appreciated all of your input and advice. I still have some pretty latent un-sub tendencies that I battle...I don't expect to ever be perfect, but will always strive to please him.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 9:32:16 AM

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YES... Go on line and register!!! http://www.slaveregister.com/
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final act of submission?......hmmm......sort of an oxymoron....

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 10:01:56 AM

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yes, you could always do what 'o' did, or you can step away from the fantasy books and be realistic, like ask him what his desire is.

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ORIGINAL: vanillagoesnuts

I have been groomed for total submission of my body to my Master. I crave to be collared by him. I believe that one final act of true submission may prove my dedication. Any suggestions?

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 12:30:25 PM

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If you want to give 'one final act' to show your loyalty, obedience, dedication, and committment to your Master, then I would suggest simply telling them this. Any Master would want their One to be all of those things, and for their One to tell them this, and to -want- to be collared is a glorious thing.

The relationship between a Master and a Sub is different than that of a Master and a Slave. With a Master/Sub relationship, there are boundaries and limitation. However, with a Master/Slave relationship, the Slave gives themself compltely to their Master.

It is a way that you live your life...not just something for the time period that you engage in sexual activity. It is a part of you...a part of your life. For example, if two people are in a Master/Slave relationship, and end up as a married couple... The Slave should recognize their title as Master before the title of Husband.

I haven't really touched on this as much as I would have liked to, but I do hope that I've helped you somehow. Like I said before, simply let your Master know that you -want- to give yourself to them completely, and that you -want- their collar.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 12:41:41 PM

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Look for your master, none of us can know what would push his buttons. What we would suggest might be completely ridiculous to him. To ask a bunch of cyber strangers how YOU should express deep submission in YOUR relationship is silly. My answer actually was exactly right for me- that would be an amazing act of service and submission for me to experience.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 1:13:04 PM

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Why? if this one doesnt work are you quitting? Were the ones before this not real and true?

To Me submission is not an act, it is a way of life, a way of being, behaving, carrying one's self---If you have been groomed by Him then why the need to prove yourself?

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 1:35:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Let go of your expectations, and embrace his.

....and we have a winner!

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 4:06:09 PM

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Ms. Twicehappy2x,
no i'm not in my second language, But having extreme difficult time manuvering
collar me, thats why i never put a profile up here until today...

i can't find the way to the profiles aaaaaaauugghhh !@#$%^&*

Yours in and out of Leather... humbly,tim

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 4:09:20 PM

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That is a beautiful answer Leatherist: ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Let go of your expectations, and embrace his.

Hello vanilla:
I've been talking with a Dom / Master and will be meeting him soon. I asked him something like your question... what is something I can do to show you that I'm committed to seeing how this will go... see if we can have a chance... showing you my submission. And he came up with something completely off my radar. It is nothing weird or crazy or even kinky... just something I never would have thought to learn to do. But you can darn well bet I've googled it, I've found what I need to create the piece of art he wants, and I'm actively practicing.

Leatherist has it right. Submission is about the M person... Each M person is different.

good luck, and peace.
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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 5:43:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: vanillagoesnuts

I have been groomed for total submission of my body to my Master. I crave to be collared by him. I believe that one final act of true submission may prove my dedication. Any suggestions?

A couple of years ago, Ron answered this same question. I laughed till it hurt. It went something like this:

"Let him snuff you. It's a little extreme, a one-time gig, but it's pretty much the end-all be-all, wouldn't you say?"

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 5:45:31 PM

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Greetings, vanilla:

My go-to answer today is "Ask Him", followed closely by the favorite for today, "Why is it final?" What could be more challenging and rewarding than serving Him for as long as He wills? Adapting your life to His will... what could show your devotion more?

Perhaps this is me being picky, but why does your OP say "...total submission of my body"? Where is your mind headed? Why just your body? Please tell me this was just a typing mistake.

Be well and walk tall,

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 6:15:16 PM

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I clarify "Total submission of my body" because in our private moments, he asks me to submit my body to him. My mind is submitted as well, to be sure.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 10:27:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: vanillagoesnuts
I clarify "Total submission of my body" because in our private moments, he asks me to submit my body to him. My mind is submitted as well, to be sure.

I'm afraid the problem remains. Perhaps you should have your breasts removed, shave your head, and wear a chastity belt to surrender all stereotypical "female trappings" and be simply a pure body to offer in service?

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/19/2008 10:46:50 PM

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how can there be a "Final Act of submission?" i am learning to surrender compleatly to Mistress Persephone. It is not easy to let go of somethings and relax to let Her have Her way with me, But it is becoming easier as i learn to listen to Her. It seems to me that insteadof something being final, what you wantis simply total surrender.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/20/2008 5:39:52 AM

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i didn't have to "act" to prove to Daddy my dedication and/or worthiness to receive His symbols of ownership. He already knew i was worthy however i personally wasn't at the level where He was and saw me as His submissive. it took me time, patience and my submission to reach the level where He loving bestowed them to me. there was no final act for us - merely gradual growth within our D/s dynamic.

yet whatever is best for you - good luck

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/20/2008 10:49:10 AM

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DV and I have discussed me serving my own liver and kidney as sweet meats at a nice intimate Leather Tea ... we thought that would be a lovely final act of submission

especially if the surgeon made the incisions into the shape of a D and V to extract the organs

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/20/2008 6:21:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: vanillagoesnuts
I clarify "Total submission of my body" because in our private moments, he asks me to submit my body to him. My mind is submitted as well, to be sure.

I'm afraid the problem remains. Perhaps you should have your breasts removed, shave your head, and wear a chastity belt to surrender all stereotypical "female trappings" and be simply a pure body to offer in service?

Even a functional null can still be used in the pussy and ass. And has hands. It would be a pretty pathetic specimen that wasy TOTALLY useless.

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RE: Final act of submission - 4/20/2008 8:03:29 PM

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Everytime the title of this thread scrolls by, there is only one word that pops into my head as the final act of submission or anything else for that matter.....

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