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KatyLied -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 3:45:29 PM)
quote: ince she posted this yesterday she has found herself a Dom within the same day( haha. I guess that she wasn't as scared as she let on to be. Maybe she just wanted some attention.

mssinnocent -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 4:17:45 PM)
... the more i come back to visit this post the more hate i see. i didnt get a dom in a day, ive been talking to him for over the past month i just needed a push to get myself to call him mine like he calls me his WHAT IS WRONG WITH U ur acting like a bunch of highschool kids =)

Maya2001 -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 5:36:25 PM)
Well msinnocent....welcome to the adult playground... but if you wish to continue to stay here and play....do not come here expecting to be treated like a child with kid gloves, because those that spoke to you harshly were talking to you as an adult who is acting foolish so were treating you as such. If you do not like that ....just maybe you should reconsider wanting to play in the adult shark pond because what you recieved now is nothing compared to what you may face with being owned by a strict disciplinarian master if they decide your vocabulary is offensive and is in need of some serious improvement or if they decide to subject you to humiliation play because they surely will not be treating you like an youngster but like their slut would needs to learn some serious lessons and many are very demanding in their expectations which I doubt very much your are mature enough to handle right now the meeting of people is the easy part as long as you use common sense, but choosing the right one especially when you are new and naive can be extremely difficult and many men will lie and tell you what ever you want to hear inorder to get into your pants and young innocent 18 years olds make for highly desirable shark bait, many of the men who will be after you will not be looking at you as a young 18 year old but as fresh naive fuck meat with very little respect for you as a person but will surely be demanding in what they want from you and if you err the lessons from uber doms may not be very kind, for example you might have a ginger root plug shoved up your ass that will burn like hell or get a severe beating... not every one will play nice So those that are speaking harshly to you right now are viewing you as a foolish adult whose is likely going to end up in serious trouble and wants to give you a wake up call,.. and getting criticism about your vocabulary over the internet is tamer/friendlier than a lesson at the end of a whip or some other method and there are plenty of sadistic or humilating ways to do so. You may want to take some time out from searching for a dominant and learn what to expect by spending a few months reading the forums and by attending munches in your area to enhance your education in a safe manner before meeting and submitting to any dominants and then decide if you are really mature enough to handle what may be expected from you in a relationship, it may also help in learning your own needs and what you truly want from a relationship so that you can make educated, healthy and wise decisions in choosing a dom. Because when you play in the adult shark pond .. making mistakes can be extremely painful both emotionally and physically, you need to learn to swim first before just diving into the pond and getting a few verbal tongue lashing for asking what may be to some dumb question over the internet is a lot easier way to learn than to learn to learn first hand in a relationship.

sunshinemiss -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 5:50:56 PM)
ok ... here's the deal... You said this: i have alot of masters/doms in my area that are interested in me but its my first time going out or even talking to any of them is it normal to be so frikkin scared, i dont plan on meeting any of the anytime soon until i know them but the fact that there minutes away form me kinda scares me b/c im afraid they'll see me at the store or something... is this normal or am i completly paranoid =/ Never did you mention that you have ONE... you mention masters/doms ... that would be PLURAL. You talk about being "so frikkin scared", not planning to meet any, nervous about running into them.... I'd say that you have frankly created this mess that you don't seem to like. You were not up front, and people responded to the inconsistencies. Now if You don't like that, then be accurate at what you are saying. Your reputation is yours to keep clean. So far you have led us astray and acted a certain way when you've gotten very good advice, argued with people who have been kind to you... and then you show us that you have been lying - by ommission.. Now you wonder why people are irritated. This is not high school.. this is how real life people respond when they are treated like fools. Welcome to the land of grown ups.

MistressOfGa -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 6:29:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa LA, this is the first thread I have seen you use the word "dude" lol well, I suppose it fits. lol http://www.collarchat.com/m_1143302/mpage_1/key_dude/tm.htm#1143712 http://www.collarchat.com/m_1153656/mpage_1/key_dude/tm.htm#1154197 http://www.collarchat.com/m_1363889/mpage_2/key_dude/tm.htm#1365417 http://www.collarchat.com/m_1365725/mpage_3/key_dude/tm.htm#1366766 http://www.collarchat.com/m_1373308/mpage_6/key_dude/tm.htm#1374747 http://www.collarchat.com/m_95565/mpage_2/key_dude/tm.htm#97676 http://www.collarchat.com/m_115110/mpage_1/key_dude/tm.htm#115114 http://www.collarchat.com/m_134742/mpage_1/key_dude/tm.htm#134911 OMG! lol I should have known you would pull the threads up. I debated to even mention that I had not seen you use "dude" lol Ok ok, my bad, you are so funny sometimes!! Hugs! MoGa

MistressOfGa -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 6:38:17 PM)
FR~~ Let me get this straight. She has a dominant? She had one when she started this thread? Yet at the same time was saying she wasn't planning on getting involved? Ok, I don't deal with liars. Good luck kid. I think the only person you made to look foolish, is you. MoGa

Exquemelin -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 6:46:02 PM)
Look it's ok to be nervous, it's fantastic to be cautious. I was cautious when I met my sub and we had been talking for about 2 months I believe. I had a safe call, we took seperate cars. We had a totally vanilla date in public places(several different but all public), we each called our safe calls going to different places. There are lots of ways to be safe but even so it's very difficult to be completely safe. If you're really worried about being harmed in a public place, buy some pepper spray, or a tazer. Get trained in self defense. Get trained in the use of any self defense tools, ect. Ex

OldBastardly1 -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 6:51:45 PM)
Just so you know....in the real world, most people will not think that you are special because you are 18. Being 18 is NOT a plus in most adult eyes. In many cases, an 18 year old is more something to endure and tolerate than something to be sought after. Yes, I know...there are some that think a young girl is wonderful....good luck with those. [sm=ass.gif]

SteelofUtah -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 7:38:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Maya2001 Well msinnocent....(Details cut just read above to get the whole thing) Maya, Let it never be said that you are anything other than a voice speaking reason to the ignorance of the Human Condition. I wish I could be that KIND when explaining that. Thank you. OP, Listen up, You aren't Alice and you really don't know just how far this rabbit hole goes. Steel

Maya2001 -> RE: being afraid =( (4/20/2008 7:59:01 PM)
Thank you Steel, tried to speak to her as I did with my own son when he got too big for his britches and decided he wanted to play adult in a reckless and immature manner...sometimes it is better not to mince words and explain the crude realities of life... they either will hear you and heed the words or roll their eyes and tune you out and learn the lessons the hard way

mssinnocent -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 1:49:52 AM)
ok no i DIDNT have a DOM when i MADE this THREAD i had DOMS that i was CONSIDERING. It was just a timeing coincidence i didnt have the one that i decided on when i posted this. what is wrong with u ppl, i never said to treat me like child I AM not a child and i AM NOT acting like one. SOME of u are acting like BITCHES and BASTARDS for some PERSONAL reason outside of giving me help. I seriously exspected some advice not to be rediculed or completly disowned b/c of my vocabualry or b/c of the fact that i had a dom that i have been talking to for a good while now and just happened to get the courage to accept him at the time of this thread seriously [:@]

mssinnocent -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 2:03:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa FR~~ Let me get this straight. She has a dominant? She had one when she started this thread? Yet at the same time was saying she wasn't planning on getting involved? Ok, I don't deal with liars. Good luck kid. I think the only person you made to look foolish, is you. MoGa let ME get this straight ur taking what a bunch of ppl are saying and calling ME a liar when U havent even seen my pro to know for urself? HOW DARE U CALL ME A LIAR. what have i even LIED about. its comments like these that seriously filth up the original intent of my question =/

angelicbitch -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 2:41:02 AM)
Okay... someone hand me a stick I would like to beat the Llama too ... Sorry .... just hd to be said... I read the beginning of the thread... and thought maybe she was a bit over dramatic.... Then as I read further I realized that my daughters throw less of a temper tantrum than her. Sorry innocent.... if you sit back and read what was posted from beginning to end.... and I mean read it.. you got advice it may have not always been the nicest or the most friendly. But if you look at your respones then some of who replied had every right to say what they did. You sit here and belly ache about being scared to go meet people... well toots let me tell you .... if you are that damn scared to go out in public ; because " Oh my God someone from a ADULT web site might see me...." Then throw your damned computer away, lock the damn doors, board up the windows and never leave your house ever again. Most of the people you meet in this lifestyle are very nice. And at least to my knowledge they don't lurk in dark corners or allies waiting for 18 yr olds to pop out of thin air to snatch!!! Come on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get some thickening in your spine. Be an adult .. you that age now. Not everyone in the damn world is out to hurt you or freak you out. My God if you are that uptight about meeting people .. then get off the site. No one is gonna make you do anything you don't want to do. And in this day and age where we have car alarms, cell phones, mace and other fine fun things ... who the hell is gonna snatch you up???? If you get a bad vibe when talking to someone DON't GO!!!!!!!!! Simple as that.... if it feels cool then go have a good time and knock yourself out!!!!!!!!!!!! This is NOT rocket science..... I understand being scared.... but to sit there and carry on and then * of all things* the next day POOF you have a Dom... sounds a bit funky to me !!!!!!!!!! Not that any of the message I am gonna post made sense..... it did when I it was in my head lol .. I just can't understand why you would post something like that .. look for advice then BAM " oh i have someone now ... la la la thanks for the shoulders , but I just felt the need to cry in my coffee..... " Okay whatever ... I am done now.... everyone on here is entitled to his or her opinion... that is what you asked for .. and that is what you got .. like it or not peace

MistressOfGa -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 2:56:32 AM)
quote: let ME get this straight ur taking what a bunch of ppl are saying and calling ME a liar when U havent even seen my pro to know for urself? HOW DARE U CALL ME A LIAR. what have i even LIED about. its comments like these that seriously filth up the original intent of my question =/ Calm down. Take a deep breath. I did not just read what others said and jump to the conclusion that they were telling the truth. I did read your profile. One day you are sooooooooo afraid of meeting a Dom in real life, and you post your fears here. The next day you are yelling at us, for not being nice enough to you. The day after that, you write on your profile that you have a Dom who you have been seriously considering. IF you had told your entire tale, we wouldn't be a bunch of confused people here. How dare I call you a liar? Easy. You are one. And as far as what does or doesn't "filth up" your OP, try looking at your own posts. I will give you one piece of advice and it is for your own good. If you continue to play this game of "little girl lost" you will lose in the end. You will end up meeting someone who may tear your ass apart and leave you dying in your own blood. You think that you know everything, that is why you were so offended when people here on the boards tried to help you. You say you are tired of Dom's emailing you with "Hi slut", yet you give the impression from your photo, that being a slut is how you want them to perceive you. You had a video with your face on it, and you come here saying how afraid you are that the Dom's who live a few miles from you will recognize you. We have given advice, take down the video with your face on it. Problem solved. You have had nothing but disrespect for everyone here. Grow up. Come back when you can talk like someone who has a civilized tongue in her mouth. Dig it, dude? MoGa

angelicbitch -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 3:03:14 AM)
MisstressOfGa... very well said..

MistressOfGa -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 3:25:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelicbitch MisstressOfGa... very well said.. Angelicbitch, No no no..yours was great too! I think we posted at the same time saying the same thing <s> <Joins the mutual admiration society> [sm=cheering.gif] MoGa

mssinnocent -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 3:34:57 AM)
lol pls i took down the vid b/c i was nervous i have the pic up b/c i like it not b/c im a slut there are plenty of nudey pics of woman on here and there not precieved as slut, as for little girl lost thing im not a little girl and im not lost, i wanted advice which i got from alot of ppl here but i also got hate mail from ppl on things that had nothing to do with the topic at all. I got ppl that just wanted to attack me for some reason and really im not offended at all it is the INTERNET lol i dont think im going to go cry about how CM ppl are being mean to me but i do find it pretty weird how ppl who call themselves adults act just as much a child as me but choose to attack on ME for it. But in the end i got mace so im happier =)

OldBastardly1 -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 5:56:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mssinnocent lol pls i took down the vid b/c i was nervous i have the pic up b/c i like it not b/c im a slut there are plenty of nudey pics of woman on here and there not precieved as slut, as for little girl lost thing im not a little girl and im not lost, i wanted advice which i got from alot of ppl here but i also got hate mail from ppl on things that had nothing to do with the topic at all. I got ppl that just wanted to attack me for some reason and really im not offended at all it is the INTERNET lol i dont think im going to go cry about how CM ppl are being mean to me but i do find it pretty weird how ppl who call themselves adults act just as much a child as me but choose to attack on ME for it. But in the end i got mace so im happier =) YES! you ARE a little girl! Many of us were out experiencing life and this lifestyle while the better part of you was still running down the inside of your mom's thigh. You ARE a child. You can't even legally drink or go to most BDSM clubs. Will your future Doms have to meet you at McDonald's Playland? [sm=beatdeadhorse.gif]

MistressOfGa -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 6:14:35 AM)
quote: Will your future Doms have to meet you at McDonald's Playland? I preferred meeting my puppy at Waffle House. [sm=Groaner.gif] MoGa

angelicbitch -> RE: being afraid =( (4/21/2008 6:55:45 AM)
LMAO McDonald's play land .... lol that was a HOOT ... way to go !!!!!!!!!! ~joins Mistress of Ga in the cheer squad !!! and thanks Mistress... i liked what you said :) and innocent..... ummmm if you don't like what is being said on here and you think you are being attacked .. then why do you keep responding to posts ???? Hmmm would seem to me someone wants a bit of attention ... just an observation..........

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