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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Be nice sunshine, or I'll disown you.  Your last warning.  [sm=paddle.gif]  There is no reason for all of you to be so mean to her.

SweetSubblyCali

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ORIGINAL: mssinnocent

lol pls i took down the vid b/c i was nervous i have the pic up b/c i like it not b/c im a slut there are plenty of nudey pics of woman on here and there not precieved as slut, as for little girl lost thing im not a little girl and im not lost, i wanted advice which i got from alot of ppl here but i also got hate mail from ppl on things that had nothing to do with the topic at all. I got ppl that just wanted to attack me for some reason and really im not offended at all it is the INTERNET lol i dont think im going to go cry about how CM ppl are being mean to me but i do find it pretty weird how ppl who call themselves adults act just as much a child as me but choose to attack on ME for it. But in the end i got mace so im happier =)

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001

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ORIGINAL: mssinnocent

lol pls i took down the vid b/c i was nervous i have the pic up b/c i like it not b/c im a slut there are plenty of nudey pics of woman on here and there not precieved as slut, as for little girl lost thing im not a little girl and im not lost, i wanted advice which i got from alot of ppl here but i also got hate mail from ppl on things that had nothing to do with the topic at all. I got ppl that just wanted to attack me for some reason and really im not offended at all it is the INTERNET lol i dont think im going to go cry about how CM ppl are being mean to me but i do find it pretty weird how ppl who call themselves adults act just as much a child as me but choose to attack on ME for it. But in the end i got mace so im happier =)

There is a huge difference in perception in the way I am viewed in my photos  and the way you are viewed  by men,  believe me  age will have a lot do  with that. 

See with you  they will mostly view you as a temporary fuck toy  or  as someone that can be sucked  into a relationship where a lot of respect will not need to be given and they will not respect limits and manipulate them  hard as they view you as a sexual object  to be used not as a partner,  most of your outings with them after the initiate meet will be to a motel room or bedroom and once done that is it till next time, where as  I will have the initimate times but also will   taken out for fine dining, a sporting events,  trips shopping, to the casino,   asked to join them  on vacations or go for drives, art galleries  or to the beach, out dancing  to have dinners or barbeques at home or with friends , quiet times sitting around talking about family  or common interest while  cuddling on the couch. Do they view me as a slut?  Yes but their personal one that they cherish.  Your photo at your age, maturity level and additude, your wording and Use IM chatspeak in an inaproppriate venue all work against you as presenting yourself  as a serious life style sub

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ORIGINAL: mssinnocent

i thought age didnt matter b/c i was considered an adult??!!! yah exactly =/ and yes ive been asked to be a fuck toy but ive also been asked to do many other things such as u stated u wouldnt know that b/c well u cant see my messages but thats not the point my main point was that i was nervous about accidently running into someone without being ready and i thank all the people that gave me usefula advice but really i hope this is the last post b/c this thread is unnecessary and the whole arguments thing is over so everyone have a good day =)

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ORIGINAL: Focus50

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ORIGINAL: mssinnocent

i thought age didnt matter b/c i was considered an adult??!!! yah exactly =/ and yes ive been asked to be a fuck toy but ive also been asked to do many other things such as u stated u wouldnt know that b/c well u cant see my messages but thats not the point my main point was that i was nervous about accidently running into someone without being ready and i thank all the people that gave me usefula advice but really i hope this is the last post b/c this thread is unnecessary and the whole arguments thing is over so everyone have a good day =)

It's been interesting watching this topic self destruct....  And mssinnocent, this has been your initiation into what I term a Forum "feeding frenzy".  Think of jackals gravitating toward a solitary creature showing signs of distress, but they haven't come to help....  And as stressful as that can be for the designated target, I think you've stood your ground admirably - actually, I'm thinking of the African Honeybadger here.... lol
 
I've attracted a few feeding frenzys myself; it certainly gives insight to the psyche of mob rule and how they feed off each other's negative energy in validating virtually any nonsense a group member asserts.  They mostly do it as a cheap n easy means to feel good about themselves; to belong, even....  Now guess the genesis of my chosen signature line....  ;-)
 
To me, the first one to stoop to personal attacks "loses".  They're strangers afterall; best way to neuter them is to ignore them and you break the link of negative energy and mutual validation.  Thing that makes me smile is that it occurs to me there are going to be doms out there with every reason to be nervous of you - and I mean that in a good way.  You have the power in this thread - stop defending garbage attacks and watch how they all just fade away....
 
Focus.