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Dnomyar -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 6:34:19 AM)

You women have it wrong. It is not a polo shirt. It is a wet t-shirt. Op a Dom woman will look you in the eye when she talks to you. If you say hello to a Dom woman she will tell you to fuck off. If you stare at a good looking Dom woman she will say what the fuck are you looking at. A Dom woman with wear short skirts and high heels unless she is a trans. A Dom woman will say down on your knees a Dom man would never do that.  



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 8:04:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SolangeRichards

Massholes......

They cause trouble down your way too?



Massholes cause trouble EVERYWHERE, hehe!  And for anyone getting offended, one of my best friends is from Mass. -- there's a difference between being from there and being a Masshole.)

Used to live in New England, though, so we had plenty of 'em wandering through my town.

And Dnomyar, what about the Dommes like me who are lazy and walk around in jeans and tanktops and flip-flops 90% of the time?  Fuck the short skirts, that means I gotta shave my legs.  [8|]



Dnomyar -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 8:39:01 AM)

Mmmm forgot that one. Op put on your list if you see a woman with hairy legs she is a Domme or your in a monkey cage after drinking to much.



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 9:13:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Op put on your list if you see a woman with hairy legs she is a Domme or your in a monkey cage after drinking to much.


Or you're in France.

Badum-CHING!



Twicehappy2x -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 9:18:48 AM)

 
The first clue is she spells it DOMINANT!

My apologies to the ladies whose forum this is. I did not even check which forum it was, but that dominate thing drives me batty. You should be officially barred from participating in any bdsm activity until you can correctly spell the terminology.



Dnomyar -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 9:48:06 AM)

I take it that twicehappy is the spelling champ of the world. What does that have to do with picking out a dominate woman in the crowd?



Emperor1956 -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 1:12:30 PM)

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LaMistress:  Yeah, anyway. Buy some tequilla.


And it has the reported beneficial side effect of making women's clothes fall off.*

E.

____________________________
*Note that the author of the above post is currently engaged in approved medical research as to the veracity of the hypothesis "Tequila makes her clothes fall off" (Nichols, J. 2006).  Also under study is the reported effect of tequila causing women to kiss cowboys (West, S. 2001 [effect noted only with Cuervo, J. but reportedly generalized to all tequila], causing hallucinations of 10 ft long worms and purple cows (Prine, J. 1986) and the appearance of otherwise inexplicable tattoos (Buffet, J. 1977).  Any persons wishing to become human subjects in this research project are invited to contact the author.  Compensation paid.  Clothing not returned.  - E.



Aynne -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 2:26:00 PM)

Hey Pryysefanie, I thought only Mainers said massholes!  It is almost that season too, ugh.  God they stay longer and longer every year. [:'(]



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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

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ORIGINAL: illbient
bunch of random angry fat internet nerd rantings


OMG U R BEST SUB EVER LOL CN I DOME U?!?!?!?!?!?111 lol

Pretty sure that if you want to identify the dominant women, all you have to do is look for the ones laughing in your face... except judging by that response I'd guess that's going to be 99% of the people you meet.

Goddamned Massholes.  Blah.




xBullx -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 2:37:33 PM)

I'm not certain, but just drawing a conclusion by looking at the photos on this site they'll be either dressed scantily clad in black leather, sometimes I think they might nearly be naked, but they will be sporting those very high heels and maybe a single tail whip. Go to the other side and do some research, it may help you before you go out hunting.[;)]

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ORIGINAL: illbient

I'm wondering if there's any little body language cues that I can use to tell if a women is sexually dominate BEFORE I take her home.  Maybe even before I start talking to her.   It can be difficult to tell in everyday situations.



Now before anyone get's their knickers in a bunch; I'm only doing this in good humor.

Do femdoms from New York wear Knickers or Boxers or Knickerbockers?[:D]



LaTigresse -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 2:45:19 PM)

Bugger all. Now I know what I've been doing wrong all this time. None of my photos have me in black leather, high heels, and no whips to be seen.

I am never going to get my card at this rate.....



DragonLady5 -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 2:59:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xBullx

Now before anyone get's their knickers in a bunch; I'm only doing this in good humor.

Do femdoms from New York wear Knickers or Boxers or Knickerbockers?[:D]


I'm in Upstate NY. Sorry to disappoint, but I live in jeans and a t-shirt. My leather is saved for when I'm riding my bike.



kittinSol -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 3:00:48 PM)

You really believe the propaganda [:D] ?



MistressRouge -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/21/2008 3:48:54 PM)

Hand on hip, dead giveaway [:D]



bschwimmer -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 5:04:20 AM)

Is whap part of the AFL_CIO



bschwimmer -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 5:11:12 AM)

i think you are hot you remind me of  the mom from the 70's show



LaTigresse -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 6:51:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bschwimmer

i think you are hot you remind me of  the mom from the 70's show


I've not seen the programme, I hope it's a good thing....



xBullx -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 7:22:45 AM)

Hi LaT,

Thanks for knowing I was having a little fun. It can get painful if a Gorean takes himself to serious so I assume that applies elsewhere.

I actually treat women I don't know generally the same; with common courtesy. First I view all women to be free unless it is obvious that a slave nature is present. More often than not a slave is easily depicted. Though Goreans are perceived to be Ogres, we are not and a women is given the benefit of social respect first off. This standard of conduct is generally normal among living Goreans and only the woman or her actions will alter my civil demeanor to her. If she is a stranger there is a sense of added suspicion toward her, so that can lead to cultural misunderstanding. The air around alpha's always seem to be tense.

While no rule can be exact, a dominant women can and will normally maintain direct eye contact and it most often does not have the look of lust or need contained within (the shy smirk, the batting eye lashes and other submissive glances). At least to the eyes of a dominant man there won't be a sense of lust, the look might maintain a curious nature but her body language will most likely attempt to portray confidence and even attempt to intimidate with a look; where a submissive will display flirtatious gesture or a casual dimissal of interest. While a submissive can display a confident nature is not all that often confused with a dominant's confident way. Obviously the Black Widow will pretend one thing and be the other, until someone's death.[;)]

I will say this, and yes I know this doesn't apply to all, and I can understand the desire to attract a quality submissive. But why do you see "dominant females" advertise on a site like this in those naked very submissive like poses? I can understand a certain degree sex appeal and those seductive poses that display a woman's best qualities. (hell I make sure my strength is visual, I can see emphasizing your best features to snare your prey) But why would any dominant display themselves as a slave? My Gorean mind has trouble wrapping itself around this practice. That in itself creates confusion to have be dealt with doesn't it?

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Bugger all. Now I know what I've been doing wrong all this time. None of my photos have me in black leather, high heels, and no whips to be seen.

I am never going to get my card at this rate.....




LadyHibiscus -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 7:54:21 AM)

Bull,  you made me laffff today, thank you.  (and because you said a funny, not because you are laughable)

"submissive naked poses" to you, can be percieved very differently by other men.  Imagine a bound submissive male, or better yet, an incredibly obedient one, standing out of range of his Dominant as she....entertains herself.  He can look, maybe he can smell, but he can't TOUCH, oh no....[;)]  epic lulz.   As for the eyelash batting and stuff.....hmmm.  So basically, if I was there in person flirting with you, you wouldn't be able to TELL?  Whoa! 

If there are dominants out there with naked pics, I admit a certain amount of puzzlement.  The boys have to EARN those visuals in my world.  But whatever, I think we can present our personas in any way that fit.  Mine obviously says, Hey, I have a fabulous custom corset and whip!  My norks are enormous!  [8D]



Aubre -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 8:26:52 AM)

Do you have my stapler?



MissSCD -> RE: How to pickout a dominate women in public. (4/22/2008 8:31:37 AM)

Easy.  
 
They may not be an actual BDSM Domme because they have not been trained.  I am pretty sure my boss is one. I am pretty sure that I am her sub, and would do it for her.  That is how good she is.
I want to train her so badly.
 
Regards, MissSCD



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