quotes

...i spent way too much time online today lol...

Dominant Quotes

Woman must be reacquainted with truth and force. She must be reacquainted with truth through force. - Boyd Rice"She tried to show me how to love, I bit her lips and bruised her arm, no I guess I hadn't learned tenderness " - Steppenwolf - Tenderness"Pain is inevitable, while enjoyment is optional."

"Who you become is infinitely more important than what you do, or what you have."

"Change is the essence of life. Be willing to surrender what you are, for what you could become"

"Change is hard, but stagnation is fatal."

"Be careful Anais, abnormal pleasures kill the taste for normal ones." - Eduardo, (Anais Nin's Cousin in the movie Henry & June)

"How delicious to corrupt, to stifle all semblances of virtue and religion in that young heart!" - Marquis de Sade

"Stars hid your fires. Let not light see my black and deep desires." - From The Talented Mr. Ripley

"The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over." - H. S. Thompson

"If your life isn't improved by your partner, you are with the wrong partner."

"To touch is the beginning of every act of possession, of every attempt to make use of a person or thing" - Freud

"All good things come by grace, and grace comes by art, and art does not come easy." - norman maclean

"For the very true beginning of wisdom is the desire of discipline; and the care of discipline is love."
- Wisdom of Solomon 6:17

"Love well, whip well." - Benjamin Franklin

"Duty is not beneficial because it is commanded, but is commanded because it is beneficial." - Benjamin Franklin

"There are no gains without pains" - Benjamin Franklin

"Think of three Things, whence you came, where you are going, and to whom you must account." - Benjamin Franklin

"The eye of the master will do more work than both his hands." - Benjamin Franklin"

"A man who has not passed through the inferno of his passions has not overcome them." - Carl Jung

"The slave escapes her bonds to find a stronger set of chains." - Anonymous

"The only way to a woman's heart is along the path of torment. I know none other as sure." - Marquis de Sade
"The glue that holds all relationships together, including the relationship between the leader and the led is trust, and trust is based on integrity." - Brian Tracy
"Most welcome, bondage, for thou art a way, I think, to liberty." - William Shakespeare
"There is in every true woman's heart a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity; but which kindles up, and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity." -
Washington Irving

submissive quotes

Being submissive may have put chains on my body, but it has removed my soul from bondage!""A Good Master is hard to find, A good Friend even harder, but both? Defiantly worth looking and waiting for.""It is when you give of yourself that you truly give" -Kahil Gibran"Let not thy will roar, when thy power can but whisper" -Thomas FullerIn heaven all the interesting people are missing. -Friedrich Nietzsche*No one can make you feel inferior without your consent*"Woman was used by the Creator to cast the light of knowledge on man just as the Moon casts its light on the Earth. Alone, man is backwards and undeveloped. he needs the light that woman gives to make him whole."- The Mishomis Book, The Voice of the Ojibway by Edward Benton-Banai"I'm June Cleaver with a brand on my ass" - Delia DayOutside ideas of right doing and wrong doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there. ~ Rumi~Beat me said the masochist. No said the sadist~

"Look, if you want to torture me, spank me, lick me, do it. But if this poetry shit continues just shoot me now please."
- Lori Petty in Tank Girl

"We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the deepest life force, a force which moves us toward living in a fundamental way."
- Audre Lorde

"The only abnormality is the inability to love." - Anais Nin

"Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealists, searching for the marvelous." - Anais Nin

"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." - Anais Nin

"Thou art to me a delicious torment." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Life is too short for bullshit and bad sex." - Deborah Addington

"Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from busy-mind... blessed be to the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there." - Elizabeth

"For me, the goal of any of the BDSM activities is to break barriers and boundaries, sending me into a more primal, raw connection...to erase the civilized conventions and attain that connection, space, where there is no skin, no outer layers, but simply raw primal emotion." - Stacey

"In the beginning I was fooled by Dominants who were good looking, had charisma, dressed well, and had that "dominant" personae. I soon realized that these things are easy to fashion. Real Dominance is a deep and visceral thing, something that has nothing to do with the trappings of BDSM." - Sadie

"We all enter this world the same way: naked, screaming, soaked in blood. But if you live your life right, that kind of thing doesn't have to stop there"
- Dana Gould

"Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past me I will turn to see fear's path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain." - Frank Herbert, from Dune"Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth." - Benjamin Disraeli
A few from my friend:
"This world in my heart as well as my mind is held in is more than just some fantasy from a book, or kink from a website. It's more than just being beaten and told what to do. It's more than just living a life with simple commands and chores. Those things can be achived anywhere. In the work place, in a nonsexual relationship. To me it's a way of expression, and feeling. The best way to get my words out when none have come to my lips, the best way to get my tears out when there is no logical reason to cry, and the only way i know i will ever truely find love."

"A Dominant is more than a bossy guy who likes to have it a little rough or extremely rough for that matter. He's someone who truely knows how to hold control over Himself, His life, His world, and His love. Once one has gained control over these things, then He may be seen as Dominant."