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RE: Different perspectives - 4/24/2008 7:29:14 AM

mypain56

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Great topic, and yes i can relate to all of what your saying here. "Respect" is key. I myself would not intentually behave ina negative manner for the sake of being "punished" because in my eyes that would not be punishment.Now if He puts up with her bratty behavior then who should be held accountable for these actions. I remember quite a few months ago i was talking on the phone with my Daddy and i made a faux pauh by calling Him by His first name " WRONG" thing to do.He was like what did you just say and i tried to play it off by saying nothing Sir. Well that didn't pan either His reply was "Don't you ever call me that again" " Do you understand" well just the sound of His voice almost made me pee my pants... Since then i have only made one more mistake, likethe other day on the phone i mentioned how much i missed Him and i said Daddy i really need to do something to you, and He's like what and i said "you know" well He didn't like that reply either. He's like just tell me flat out what you need to do to me and don't f___ around about it. "Say what you mean and mean what you say" well there was that voice again. Usually He's very soft spoken until He feels like He needs to send a message straight to your heart knowing that i will crumble. So in essense it's not what you say it's how you say it most of the time. But by doing this i understand that He is building structure in our potential D/s relationship. And believe He has been very adament about His form of punishment and i personally do not want to be His next victim.... But i see it at the munches i go too, submissives talking out of line, talking over their Dominants, submissives acting bratty and putting on show for all the Dominants/Masters thinking by their behavior they can win something by this. "wrong" most of the Dominant/Masters in my munch group are Gorean and they will not hesitate to call them down. Actaully one such submissive was not voted in because of her behavior recently basically she was told to clean up her act and get her head out of her ass or "Puff Be Gone" ....... some attention getters are like opinions "it's just make you an ass"......

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RE: Different perspectives - 4/24/2008 9:32:26 AM

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From all the long chats We had I will stick up for pup there. I never heard You relate anything quite as disruptive to others. But yes, pup has come a long way, something both to Your credit AND that You are no doubt proud of him for.

I am extremely proud of him. To his credit, he has worked very hard to be the kind of man that he is and to be the kind of submissive that I want. I think some people forget that subs don't automatically come in a neat little box with a bow on it. They are molded and shaped to be the kind of sub that their Dominants want them to be. Who does the molding and shaping? Why the Dominants do, but who does the hardest work? I have to go with the submissive on this one. It is not easy to change a life time of habits, especially to please another person. Kudos to the submissive who achieves that goal.

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I am so happy that You are so proud of me Mistress. That is one of the best things i could ever hear! It isnt just my hard work that has led me to be like this, it is Your training that moulded me into the submissive You desired. I have to give You credit for Your patience and hard work to break my old ways to help me to become the best submissive for You. I love You Mistress, You are the best!
<hugs You tightly>
-pup

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RE: Different perspectives - 4/24/2008 12:19:38 PM

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It is well deserved pride She has in you pup, as she said, no matter that it is a Dominant directing the changes it takes a lot of work from the submissive too. Credit where it is due, you HAVE come a long way. Cudos.... and a scooby snack

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