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need advice - 4/21/2008 10:52:59 AM   
wannacollarme


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i can use some suggestions from other subs/slaves,on different ways to make my dom happy,when it comes to oral,especially when it come to swallowing,it makes me sick when i do,he respect that,but is there something i can take that i wont make me sick,and other suggestions on body worship,because my goal is to make him happy no matter what,that is what i live for,but i need some new suggestions
any advice? 
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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 10:55:19 AM   
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Ask him.
We could issue all the advice in the world, but it wouldn't mean it suits his needs and desires.  I could say, foot worship - but if his feet are incredibly sensitive he might hate it.  Hair washing, but he may not have any or may have scalp sensitivity.
 
Discuss with him and don't rely on others second hand info.
 
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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 10:58:32 AM   
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Yup have to agree with the.darkness here, you are worshiping HIM at the end of the day, people have differant parts that they like and dont (I knew a guy who couldnt stand anyone touching his tummy) You have to ask what he likes.

The swallowing thing, what do you mean it makes you sick? If its that the actual fluid makes you sick then I cant recomend anything if its the taste and gag reflex aim it further down your throat because then you wont taste it.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 10:59:40 AM   
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try cepicol throat spray it numbs the throat for a cold .A service bottom told me about that trick she used  in regards to oral .Also what he eats effects the taste .


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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:21:53 AM   
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thank u 4 the suggestion on the body worship .....

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:23:57 AM   
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thank u 4 the suggestion on this ..its the taste of it that makes me sick when i try 2 swallow cum.... but will try this... thank u again

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:25:24 AM   
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thank u 4 the suggestion but that doesnt give me any information abt swallowing cum its the taste of the cum that makes me sick could u give me advice abt this or do u not know

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:31:44 AM   
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1; have a cue (a word or motion) that he's close, and go for the back of the tongue, if not throat, where you lack taste buds.

2; allow lots of saliva to collect in your mouth, then swallow when you can't hold anymore, make a pattern of this. doing this, you might not even notice his stuff when it mixes with your own saliva that you are already attending to swallow.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:31:52 AM   
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ah, what he eats or drinks will effect the taste of his cum, interesting article on line in men's health on this subject

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:34:01 AM   
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hope this helps....
Passing The Taste Test
It will come as a disappointment to most party animals, but the best way to produce better tasting jizz is to live free of consuming toxins. You will need to take it easy when it comes to consuming your favorite vices - alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, and junk food will really put a strain on your production of great tasting man chowder. It's been said that vegetarians, both men and women, have better tasting bodilly secretions, so you may want to steer clear of red meat, fish, and dairy. The secret to great tasting cum is to eat plenty of fresh fruits and veggies. What should you drink? Loads of juice and water.

Many people recommend eating pineapple or drinking pineapple juice to make your cum taste sweeter. Citrus fruits and cranberry juice are also recommended, possibly because they make the body's pH more acidic, counteracting the alkalinity of semen that contributes to its "bleachy" quality. Any fruit or fruit juice high in sugar content, like apple, melon, mango, or grape, may increase the amount of sugars put out in your semen. Parsley, wheatgrass, and celery have been recommended for sweeter semen as well, perhaps because of the chlorophyll in them.

At the same time, you should also limit your intake of foods that break down into strong tasting or smelling chemicals that are excreted by the body, like asparagus. Onions and garlic contain high amounts of sulfur and are oniony to say the least. Vegetables in the cabbage family, like Brussels sprouts, broccoli, cabbage, kale, and collards, can make your secretions taste bitter. If you like heavilly strongly spiced dishes like curries, you can also count on those spices to carry their flavors over into your cum. Of course, you don't want to restrict what you eat too much for better tasting sperm. Everyone needs to have a balanced diet, and this should always be kept in mind. Just keep this in mind though: if you're planning on getting head after dinner, you might want to skip the asparagus appetizer.

Another factor to consider is the amount of time it takes for food and drink to cycle through your system. In most cases what you consume is excreted within 12 to 24 hours, but some things stay in the body longer. Whenever you start a new regimen, give it at least a few days to start working, and remember that you'll probably have to stick to it to see marked effects.

___________________________________________________________________________1 cup pineapple, fresh or canned
1 banana, frozen
1 cup apple juice
1/2 tsp ginger
1/2 tsp cinnamon
1/4 tsp nutmeg
1/2 tsp vanilla extract
2 TBS honey
Optional ingredients: 1 raw egg white, 2 TBS wheat germ, 2 TBS flax seed, 1 shot wheatgrass juice

Blend all ingredients in a blender until smooth. Drink immediately. Repeat daily for best results.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:49:29 AM   
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Something else that can be helpful is to have a glass of something to drink handy, or some type of fruit lozenge or something.  This will help to remove the taste.  If you ask permission to have this ready in advance, explaining that you truly want to be pleasing but this will help you out, your Master should be pleased at your effort and will probably say yes.  My stomach used to get upset, so I found that having a glass of water handy to drink immediately used to help.

If looking for other forms of body worship, I have chosen to rub lotion into my Master's feet at the end of each session.  (His feet are very dry, so I came up with this idea because I was afraid that His feet would get very sore.)  Even giving small kisses to body parts during a session can show how much you care for your Master's body.  For instance, I am allowed to kiss His body freely as I undress Him.


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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:51:43 AM   
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thank u 4 the suggestions

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:52:59 AM   
wannacollarme


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thank u 4 the information and will check it out

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:54:20 AM   
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thank u 4 the suggestion will have 2 try it

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 11:56:18 AM   
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thank u 4 the suggestion will keep this n mind

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 1:19:51 PM   
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If you have his cock all the way down your throat, like a good girl, you won't taste it.

Are you saying that the taste of your Sir's come, the very essence of His life, sickens you???? You find His cum repulsive???

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 1:33:26 PM   
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Way back when I was much younger then I am now, I thought oral sex was repulsive.  Then I found out that guys dug it so I got over my repulsion and over time I learned to enjoy it.  At first swallowing was equally repulsive but when I discovered the pure bliss that men got when they were with a woman who swallowed, I pushed aside my mental blocks that were causing me to balk.  So yeah, at first I swallowed fast and I grabbed something to wash it down, just pleased with myself that I could do that simple act.  Over time it became to norm to swallow and I must have aquired a liking to the taste at some point for I can't imagine spitting it out today.

Personally, I think the revultion is in the mind and it's culturally learned.  For all the tips and tricks one can learn to make it easier to tolerate, unless one gets past the minds opposition it will always be a problem.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 2:46:49 PM   
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what about servicing his feet,he said that i will be at his feet all the time,i liked the lotion suggestion,what about other stuff to his feet that will give him pleasure,any tips on massages also,any erotic suggestions?  

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 3:58:58 PM   
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There is a product called "Good Head"...it comes in different flavors, you will only taste the product.  It can help numb the throat also, so you can get use to swallowing.  Personally, i see being allowed to give my Daddy oral is a pleasure..something i beg to be able to do. Sometimes it is your mindset that gets in the way.  Try not looking at it as a chore but rather a way to please your Master! 

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 4:15:47 PM   
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If you dont want a product try having small mints like altoids. They bring a tingly sensation to  the skin of his cock which he might enjoy and the mint, over comes the wonderful taste of bad diet sperm. And some guys no matter how much you enjoy head still taste terrible. I love and adore cock, but still no matter how much I enjoyed it.. one ex after I swallowed him and had to vomit because it made me ill. Ask Him if it isnt to much trouble to add fruit to his diet. If your the one cooking add some of the ingredients abbeysomething in her her post to his food.

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