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RE: am i a bad sub? - 4/23/2008 7:30:15 PM

KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: servM

...please comment i need to know if i am a bad sub?

frankly... There is going to be a large array of answers...

The one that is right... is the one you choose to listen to..... so ... in truth.. you are actually deciding for yourself if your a bad sub or not... just by deciding who you are going to listen to..

so... how about skipping the middleman.. and decide for yourself... are you a bad sub or not?

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RE: am i a bad sub? - 4/23/2008 9:49:59 PM

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Your a sub not a slave thats what Im guessing from your post.

What does that have to do with anything? I'm just askin.

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RE: am i a bad sub? - 4/25/2008 7:56:37 PM

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Bad, not at all...But if he told you from the first he'd be tasting others, or did he spring this one on you afterwards? Because If he's been upfront at the start..Maybe you need to rethink your position on this..If he has not..maybe its the little person in you that knows more than you think about it all is trying to warn you about it....

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RE: am i a bad sub? - 4/26/2008 9:38:18 AM

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Why do so many need to martyr themselves?

For some reason, some people think that suffering and being miserable proves that they're the Uber Submissive.

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RE: am i a bad sub? - 4/26/2008 9:55:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Why do so many need to martyr themselves?

For some reason, some people think that suffering and being miserable proves that they're the Uber Submissive.

For some people it has nothing to do with being miserable or trying to be uber. For some people, suffering is cleansing. Then again, those folks probably aren't asking for public advice on how to deal with that suffering.

The OP is confusing to me. As others have asked, what makes this the final act? Final means it's over after that, in my book. The other thing is there is an assumption her Master has required this of her. When I read it, I was thinking this was something she wanted to do for him, but was struggling with. Maybe if she gives us more clarity we can better answer her question.

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