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cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:18:38 PM   
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It happens quite often here......cheaters ask for advice and receive the wrath of those of us who believe in honesty and respect. I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site. One less cheater on here to lie to unsuspecting play partners about their marital status. What I'd like to know.....is this the only time they are told off for their dishonesty? When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:24:36 PM   
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If a Woman is dishonest with her husband and her family, what should I expect ?

I have no use for such people.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:26:56 PM   
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No, most other people have better things to do than monitor the morality of absolute strangers.  Are you a Christian?  Have you been reading your Bible lately?  Check out John 8:7.

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When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:34:34 PM   
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I agree with Lordandmaster here. Why does it matter to you how other people live their lives? Why do you get such satisfaction from "telling them off"? I am not looking for someone who is married nor for someone who wishes to keep me a secret from his real life.  That is enough.  Some people cheat; this is their cross to bear and they will have consequences. Part of those consequences does not include being blasted by and absolute stranger online because frankly, I don't think they care if you approve or disapprove of their behaviour. Perhaps find a way to be constructive with your passion of fidelity.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:50:47 PM   
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Cheaters are scum and thus, don't really deserve my time of actually writing any sort of message to them at all. I make it quite clear I don't want anyone like that messaging me and so far, so good.

And if they do, it just gets deleted. No time to waste bitching people out.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:50:54 PM   
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dbg, it is unlikly you will change a cheater.  If that is the response, drop them, move on.  They are not worth your anger, or even piy.
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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:55:55 PM   
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Naw, just lead them on until you can get a liscence plate number. Then get a friend in the press to find out who they are, and out them to thier spouse. THAT is entertainment.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 9:59:27 PM   
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Naw, just lead them on until you can get a liscence plate number. Then get a friend in the press to find out who they are, and out them to thier spouse. THAT is entertainment.


*snicker*

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:04:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

No, most other people have better things to do than monitor the morality of absolute strangers.  Are you a Christian?  Have you been reading your Bible lately?  Check out John 8:7.

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?




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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:27:22 PM   
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quote:

Naw, just lead them on until you can get a liscence plate number. Then get a friend in the press to find out who they are, and out them to thier spouse. THAT is entertainment.


Now that's just cruel.  Fun, but still cruel.  Can I help.  LOL
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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:30:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DDraigeuraid

quote:

Naw, just lead them on until you can get a liscence plate number. Then get a friend in the press to find out who they are, and out them to thier spouse. THAT is entertainment.


Now that's just cruel.  Fun, but still cruel.  Can I help.  LOL
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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:46:55 PM   
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If the person is not dealing with me or  mine, then I could care less. Why would I want to go on some moral rampage? Why do you do it? I believe in honesty as well, but I don't make it a personal crusade.

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

It happens quite often here......cheaters ask for advice and receive the wrath of those of us who believe in honesty and respect. I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site. One less cheater on here to lie to unsuspecting play partners about their marital status. What I'd like to know.....is this the only time they are told off for their dishonesty? When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:48:33 PM   
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No that is drama, which is perpetuated by our society. Why care so much about what another person does with their life? What if some religious nuts started tracking people on this site and outing them to their jobs and such, just because they felt morally superior?

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ORIGINAL: DDraigeuraid

quote:

Naw, just lead them on until you can get a liscence plate number. Then get a friend in the press to find out who they are, and out them to thier spouse. THAT is entertainment.


Now that's just cruel.  Fun, but still cruel.  Can I help.  LOL
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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:49:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

If the person is not dealing with me or  mine, then I could care less. Why would I want to go on some moral rampage? Why do you do it? I believe in honesty as well, but I don't make it a personal crusade.

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

It happens quite often here......cheaters ask for advice and receive the wrath of those of us who believe in honesty and respect. I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site. One less cheater on here to lie to unsuspecting play partners about their marital status. What I'd like to know.....is this the only time they are told off for their dishonesty? When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?



To instill a sense or paranoia, as a warning to others that there are consequences to thier actions.. and because they are such annoying fucktards.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:50:44 PM   
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I don't bitch them out so much as tell them to go home to their wives.

I do, however, get a disproportionately large number of losers who try to approach me and then pull "sour grapes" on me when I tell them I'm in a monogamous relationship by trying to bully me into cheating on my boy.    Got a gorgeous one the other day who told me that I was only twenty so I didn't know anything better than a 'beta male chump' who couldn't satisfy a woman.  Gave him a thorough chewing-out and blocked him for that one.

Seriously, if people want to cheat... I don't like it, but that's their choice.  I do, however, resent it when people want to drag me down to their level by trying to convince me that what I really need is a big strong "Tarzan" (direct quote there) to sweep me off of my feet. 


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 10:55:21 PM   
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Did ya tell him to go home to Cheetah, Pyrrs?? LOL

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/21/2008 11:45:53 PM   
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Kudos to LAM and Orion.

I try to focus on the good in this world, and compliment it, rather than focus on the bad, and feed it energy.  I was a cheater, years ago, and a very unhappy person.  It was love that saved me, not condemnation.  And of the two, which do you (in general) wish to spread?

It's weird coming to this thread after Cali's awesome Pay It Forward thread. 

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 12:01:33 AM   
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i just let them know that is not for me.. my moral beliefs or personal wishes for someOne to share a life with .. even the holidays on the actual date of the holiday....are not for everyone.. just for me.. and those i choose to let into my life.. lol i have a hard enough time running my own life at the moment without trying to force my beliefs and thoughts on others...

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 12:21:44 AM   
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I don't bother to comment unless they write to me first or try the "poor me" thing on the forum.  At that point i enjoy chewing them up. 

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 2:58:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

It happens quite often here......cheaters ask for advice and receive the wrath of those of us who believe in honesty and respect. I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site. One less cheater on here to lie to unsuspecting play partners about their marital status. What I'd like to know.....is this the only time they are told off for their dishonesty? When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?


Sounds TOSable to me and no, I wouldn't waste my time and energy harrassing strangers on the Internet. Can you seriously not find some more productive use of your time? Join a book club, volunteer to walk pets for your local animal shelter or something?

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