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what does He want? - 4/22/2008 12:10:08 PM   
Munkee07


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Status: offline 		Hi the other day Sir said he didnt wanna dog basiccaly listen to everything he says and do what he says no questions asked. but than a few days later he said "theres only enough room in this house for one smartass im a little comfused im not really sure what he wants..ive asked him and ive gotten the no dog response so slaves if ur a smartass towards ur master what does he do and does some of them just allow small amouns help please munkee
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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 12:13:15 PM   
GimpinDenial


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Status: offline 		Mkay...I am not a smartass (just online) how ever..I think (in my opinion) what your master is saying..  feedback or questions are good.. but smart remarks are bad... 

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 12:13:57 PM   
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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 12:51:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Munkee07

Hi the other day Sir said he didnt wanna dog basiccaly listen to everything he says and do what he says no questions asked. but than a few days later he said "theres only enough room in this house for one smartass im a little comfused im not really sure what he wants..ive asked him and ive gotten the no dog response so slaves if ur a smartass towards ur master what does he do and does some of them just allow small amouns help please munkee


I have no idea what DOG means here....
but in regards to being a smart ass?
 
Being a smart ass, IMHO, is disrespectful.  Those I fully respect because they have earned it, GET respect. 

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 1:00:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Perhaps he's not explaining the difference he sees between questions for explanation and sammy behavior. Ask him about that.

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 1:01:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bieng generally a constant smartass all the time I can see bieng very annoying. I am able to play with Master to a certain extent, but I do have to be mindful of taking it to far.

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 1:29:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetiePie26

Bieng generally a constant smartass all the time I can see bieng very annoying. I am able to play with Master to a certain extent, but I do have to be mindful of taking it to far.


I work in an branch office of a national healthcare company.
Each office is generally small and includes staffing and homecare sides.
The homecare side generally has 6 employees and the staffing side only 3.  So about 10 in all.
The accounts manager is 24 yrs old and a smart ass.
He has sufficiently allienated himself from everyone by this smartass behaviour.  We need to get along and we do. 
No one respects this smart ass cause of this behaviour.  We tolerate him.
 
He is able to engage in appropriate conversation at times to some extent.  He is never mindful of what consequences his behaviour has on others.  

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 2:36:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I fully admit I'm blonde and somethings totally go over my head.

But what does not wanting a dog and you being a smart ass have to do with each other?



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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 2:38:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a smartass....or was that my pet name?  *ggls*  There's a difference between being funny and playful and being sarcastic and disrespectful.  If you have a genuine concern or question, he wants you to speak up and not just obey blindly.  This is especially important if something he does or says makes you feel "icky."
 
I'll never forget the time we went out to dinner, and for some reason I forget, he said I needed a spanking.  I knew his tenant was home, so there was very little chance of that happening.  I grinned across the table at him and asked, "Whacha gonna do about it?"  He said, "We'll see."  I calmly ate the rest of my dinner and occasionally muttered, "Hmmm what to do?"  Well, when we got back to his place, he parked in the middle of his very long driveway and told me to get out.  He took me over to the edge of the yard, had me pull down my pants and gave me a spanking right there!  LOL  It was great!
 
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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 2:42:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		hm, i took it as your master saying that having a dog as well in the house would make 2 smart asses, you know if you got one of those little yappy dogs or something....

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 3:02:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead
*disclaimer*  This stunt was performed by a SAM.  Do not try this at home.  Serious injury may occur.  The SAM is not responsible for any damage incurred by novices attempting this.  Play at your own risk.

*snort*

Brilliant!

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 4:25:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's quite possible he has no idea what he wants but takes it out on you when you get it "wrong."

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 4:33:41 PM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		There are levels between dog and smartass, its called a respectful, thoughtful, intelligent, attentive submissive---sounds like you need to maybe pay more attention to what He is saying.

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 5:43:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Munkee07

Hi the other day Sir said he didnt wanna dog basiccaly listen to everything he says and do what he says no questions asked. but than a few days later he said "theres only enough room in this house for one smartass im a little comfused im not really sure what he wants..ive asked him and ive gotten the no dog response so slaves if ur a smartass towards ur master what does he do and does some of them just allow small amouns help please munkee


   I'm going to go with "He wants something in between." It is possible that your sir gives dumb-ass orders (or just normal orders that real-life gets in the way of). If my dom told me to stay in one particular place, but then the house lit on fire, I would damn well ignore his order and try and put out the fire or run away.

  Thinking for yourself occasionally does not equate to being a smartass. There are polite ways to think for yourself. If your sir wants pork chops for dinner, and you really want something else, instead of saying, "Well, make your own goddamn pork chops", you could politely mention that perhaps the chicken would be good instead.



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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 6:12:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: akisha

I fully admit I'm blonde and somethings totally go over my head.

But what does not wanting a dog and you being a smart ass have to do with each other?




Thats what she is talking about...thats the meaning of dog in the OP's post?
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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 6:28:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am not a smart ass because to me that is disrespectful. I ask for clarification of things in a respectful manner. If I was a smart ass I would pay for it. I would ask him over dinner or something what his expectations of you are. You certainly cannot be a mind reader.

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 8:10:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sirsinini

quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetiePie26

Bieng generally a constant smartass all the time I can see bieng very annoying. I am able to play with Master to a certain extent, but I do have to be mindful of taking it to far.


I work in an branch office of a national healthcare company.
Each office is generally small and includes staffing and homecare sides.
The homecare side generally has 6 employees and the staffing side only 3.  So about 10 in all.
The accounts manager is 24 yrs old and a smart ass.
He has sufficiently allienated himself from everyone by this smartass behaviour.  We need to get along and we do. 
No one respects this smart ass cause of this behaviour.  We tolerate him.
 
He is able to engage in appropriate conversation at times to some extent.  He is never mindful of what consequences his behaviour has on others.  


Well hot damn Im blonde tonight too....wtf does this have to do with the post answered or the thread either???  Well, unless.....do you call him dog?

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RE: what does He want? - 4/22/2008 9:01:12 PM   
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The question eludes me because in my world the two things (dog/ autonamaton/doormat/ robot,...) and Smart Ass each have thier own distasteful definition. They are both equally unacceptable extreams. I don't want a slave who is robotic, I own the brain as well as the body and I expect the mind will be used as well, I also don't want a consistant smart ass either, there are times and places where SAM attitude are acceptable but they are rare. There is however miles and miles of acceptable behaviour between those two things.

I guess the main point is Dog vs SAM these are not the only two places on the continuum of behaviour.


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RE: what does He want? - 4/23/2008 4:59:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I was reading the post with Sir and he said that Sweetie Pie and FlamingRed Head hit the nail on the head  i now have more of an understanding of what is expected of me.I have to realize when its to far and not appropriate. thank you all for your posts and all your help.

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RE: what does He want? - 4/23/2008 5:08:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		a well trained dog does what it is told without question...no matter how stupid the order is (or the master for that matter...)and if the dog doesn't understand the order it might just take off and do what it thinks the master wants whereas a well trained submissive should question something she doesn't understand in order to make sure her masters wishes are followed properly. 

i can 'play' with Him...be a little bratty, but not allowed to 'get smart'...besides W/we are just starting fresh and now is not the time for me to be a sammy!!

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